Anyone out there faced with this choice this time around? My first labor was 40 hours long and included 7 hours of pushing. The whole thing was unmedicated and ended in a csection due to baby's position. Recovery was horrible. My doc says I'm a good candidate for a VBAC this time but I'm 50/50 on the fence bc I can't risk a long recovery with a 3 year old and newborn to care for. Anyone figured out a way to work through this decision? I know a lot depends on how the baby is positioned at the end of the pregnancy but my doc seems to want to talk about it at every apt. Thx!
Re: VBAC vs repeat c-section?
I wanted a VBAC more than anything after ds#1's emergency C-section.
It ended up not working. Baby was measuring big (he was a lb bigger than ds#1 who didn't come out even with forceps), his was positioned posterior and then I never went into labor despite being at 5cm for a week.
They will not let me attempt VBA2C this time around. However, if they would have let me and things lined up correctly, I would always try for a VBAC. But that is my own personal opinion.
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I had a horrible experience with my first section. Scar opened up a few days later and my DH had to stuff it with gauze for SIX weeks, letting it heal from the inside out. Thankfully, I had no other kids at the time. My 2nd was better but still not fun, especially since I had labored before. I've heard RCS are so much easier to recover from vs laboring and then surgery.
Now however, I have two other kids to care for and no family within a two hour drive so the recovery from a section would be so much more difficult trying to take care of them, get them to/from school and everything in order for Christmas. I really want a VBAC and a short recovery but at the same time, I have my doubts that it will happen. I'm so torn on what to do.
My friend had the opportunity to do a VBAC and she is so glad she did. She spent a LOT of time discussing plans with her doctor "if this happens we do x" and so forth. She also hired a doula, and she said having a doula there made all the difference for her.
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