Good Morning, my lovely May mamas! Summer is finally here full force, so I hope everyone is able to take time to enjoy some good summer activities. Please feel free to PM me anytime if you are having a tough week. ![]()
This is a check-in for anyone who had a loss or an EDD in May (of any year). I am so sorry for each one of your losses. I hope that this can be a place to give support and help each other through this difficult time.
Members, give us an update on how you are doing. If I didn’t tag you with specific questions, it’s only because we didn’t hear from you last week (or for a few weeks) - please jump back in. Please pop in and let us know how you’re doing even if you don’t have time to respond to everyone individually this week! New members, introduce yourself so that we can get to know you.
If you get a BFP, please PM me and let me know. I try to lurk on PgAL often, but sometimes it’s tough.
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~*~ Our Members and Our Angels’ May EDDs ~*~
alm288 - EDD 5/27/14
Ashtog – Sawyer’s EDD 5/6/2014
BBnut - EDD 5/17/2014
co baby1 - EDD 5/12/2014
Giants721 - EDD 5/26/2014
Hadley135 - EDD 5/30/2014
HoldingOutHope - EDD 5/5/2013
jlworden710 - EDD 5/31/2014
kflynn81 - Jack’s EDD 5/11/2014
Km380 - EDD 5/5/2014
Kryan108 - EDDs 5/25/2013 and 5/27/2014
Lindsebert - EDDs 5/14/2013 and 5/25/2014
MCH77 - Timothy's EDD 5/6/2014
QuigleyCat1 - EDD 5/5/2012
tvandewi - EDD 5/2/2014
Zapgurl44 – EDD 5/2/2013
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@alm288 ~ Ya the one nice thing about FF is after a few months of data you can layer them on top of each other on the website to look for trends. Are you watching Germany again today? Have you had to travel a lot recently for work, or have you had a break?
@ashtog ~ I see you started with the OPKs, FX you get a + soon. Anymore weekends away planned for the summer? Do you do photography for weddings also?
@“co baby1” ~ When is your CD3 bloodwork results appointment this week? I really hope your MW puts her big girl panties on and doesn't give you the relax BS. Hopefully the brown tinged CM is gone also.
@ddlauvin ~ I’m very sorry for your loss. Is your EDD 5/12/14 or your loss date 5/12/14?
@Giants721 ~ How are you feeling post IUI? I'm so glad it went smoothly for you. FX for you that this is your cycle!!
@Hadley135 ~ Hey Hun, how are you? I hope you are enjoying your summer, any fun things planned?
@HoldingOutHope ~ I'm sorry again they wouldn't start the testing at your follow up. Hopefully you can feel like you make more progress with your RE next week. I'm also sorry your furbaby has heart worms, hopefully the medication clears him up quickly. Have you gotten back into a working out routine since you've been home?
@kflynn81 ~ You have been on my mind. I am so sorry that the FET is causing you so much stress, sending you lots of +++ vibes and big ((hugs)). I hope that YH is finding way to help you stay distracted.
@km380 ~ Sorry for the BFNs hun. Hopefully AF shows soon so you can get on with the next cycle. That is one of the problems with progesterone it can keep your temps elevated for longer as it works its way out of your system.
@kryan108 ~ How did your interview go last week? Any other prospects on the horizon?
@jlworden710 ~ I’m sorry you're temps are so frustrating; it may be the progesterone throwing it off though too. Are you going to test anytime soon or just see what happens over the next week? Have you been developing a routine now that you are off for the summer?
@lindsebert ~ Hi Sweetie! I hope things are going well with you.
@mch77 ~ Hi Hun, How are you doing? I hope you are enjoying your summer, any fun things planned?
@quigleycat1 ~ How are you holding up with the renos? So glad that they are almost done the major parts and can move onto flooring soon. It will be so worth it once it is done!
@TVLily ~ Hi!!
@Zapgurl44 ~ I'm glad AF is here, hopefully she isn't being to harsh on you. I hope you and YH find the perfect house in Florida. How many days are you there for?
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Question(s) of the week (QOTW): What is your Zodiac sign? Do you put much weight into horoscopes?
Quote of the week:
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Lots of (((hugs))) and love to you, ladies! :x
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW

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Re: *~*~* May Flowers Check-In *~*~* 7/8/14
Wohoo good for you girl! I have told myself August I will start trying to work out more, so I may be knocking on your door for inspiration.
Oooh a dual that's fun! Twice the insight into your future
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
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I'm trucking along in the 2ww as of now I'm saying no testing until beta on the 17th but that's 9 days away so well see. I'm trying to remind myself that at lunch today I'll be half way there; I just really don't want to see a bfn or make myself too stressed before I see my RE on the 17th if I actually get a bfp.
I have another appt with my therapist tonight and I definitely feel like I have been feeling better talking to her; so I'm looking forward to that. I had to fill out this two page questionnaire on my losses as "homework" so well be discussing that tonight.
QOTW: I am a Pisces and definitely can relate to a lot of the qualities in my sign; and although I find horoscopes fun to read on occasion I can say I am a big believer in their truth.
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
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@HoldingOutHope your weekend sounds great! Keep us updated on your pup too. I bet he was happy to see you when you picked him up.
Afm -cd1 here. We are actually taking 1cycle off. I need a break from the progesterone and stress and I'm sure mh does too. I'm still going to temp and prob do OPKs to avoid any accidental good timing lol. I have big plans of drinking, eating well and getting back to running this month and I'm off to a good start. I ran for the first time in weeks yesterday, it was hard but felt great. Oh and ab workouts. Lots of abs!
Eta I forgot the QOTW! I'm a Pisces, I don't put a lot of faith in horoscopes but some of the traits are me for sure
PgAL welcome
Married 6/11/2011
Me & Hubby: 34
TTC journey started 12/2012
BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks
BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)
Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.
Also have hypothyroidism
Started TTC again 12/2013
IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN
IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN
Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498
Woohoo!! So glad you're back to running that must feel good!! I hope this week is successful again!!
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
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@tvlily I can't remember if you triggered. If you did are you testing that out? Good luck, you are almost there! The 17th will be right around the corner. I'm glad that therapy is helping you.
@km380 It sounds like you are doing your body right. Take this cycle to relax and recharge.
AFM I am in the beginning of my tww for my first IUI. It's been fine. Hopefully this IUI is it.
We are on vacation in the "Hamptons". My DH's grandmother has a house in Sag Harbor so we spend a lot of time here. We actually drove past the house the Kardashians are renting, it's a few miles away from us. Couldn't see anything but a black gate with a guard sitting behind it reading the paper!
QOTW I am a Capricorn. I like to read the horoscopes if they are lying around but I don't put much faith into them.
@HoldingOutHope - sounds like the best possible weekend ever! Lots of vibes for your big guy, hopefully the meds clear him quick! PS- have you done the new body pump? I've really slacked and not gone in a few weeks, I mean the ankle injury had a lot to do with it
@Km380 - FX for an awesome break with lots of food, drinks and an workouts!
@Giants721 - everything's crossed for your first IUI cycle! I'm a little embarrassed to admit, I am a reality TV whore and the kardashians (show, not them) are a fave. Hope you see some action before you leave
@jlworden710 - sending you tons of puffy >:D< I'm so sorry you've had such an awful time with temping, I packed it in with trying bc I never felt like my temps were right with all the "if's".
AFM - my MW's office deserves the biggest TP ever. After the last apt I went back the next day for a blood draw and had to argue with the MA drawing to pull my T3 & T4 levels, then I called to get my results last weds because I hadn't heard anything after a week. The nurse called me back and said everything's "fine", do you still want your apt to review. I asked for my numbers so that I could review and then decide to cancel or not. After doing minimal research my FSH looked high at 11.2 so I called back to make sure I had the right numbers (and to see if they drew my AMH, they didn't) and spoke to another nurse who said everything was not fine and I needed to see an RE. We have our first apt with an RE tomorrow. I'm so frustrated this office can't seem to get it together and have decided I won't be going back again.
The brown spotting is gone and yesterday I got my first smiley on the CBE OPK's since I started using them. We had lots of fun over the weekend and last night so we will see!!
@Giants721 very jealous you're in the hamptons! I miss Long Island so much in the summer. Fx for your IUI!
@jlworden710 (((hugs))) sweetie. Go easy on yourself the progesterone really takes a toll. The first cycle I was on it was the worst and I didn't think I could handle even a 2nd cycle. 6mos later ...it's a little easier to cope but now I'm ready for that break. Fx for a bfp as a bday gift
PgAL welcome
Married 6/11/2011
Me & Hubby: 34
TTC journey started 12/2012
BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks
BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)
Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.
Also have hypothyroidism
Started TTC again 12/2013
IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN
IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN
Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498
Your vacation sounds absolutely lovely! I'd probably creep the mansion too; what a nice way to make the 2ww fly by!! Have a great vacation Hun!
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
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@co baby1-yea for a smiley face!!! Those strips sounds a lot more fun the the cheapie OPK'S
AFM-yea for a non medically induced AF. We will be in FL for 5days, 4nights. Friday and Saturday house shopping and hopefully Sunday we can hit the beach.
QOTW- I'm a Capricorn and I take that stuff with a grain of salt.
BFP #1 9/6/2009 EDD 5/29/10. Missy Moo born 5/12/10 after 3 months of bedrest due to PTL, IC and a bicornuate ute causing IUGR
BFP # 2 1/28/12 EDD 10/6/12 No heartbeat seen @ 10 weeks, Autumn
BFP #3 8/18/12 EDD 5/2/13 No heartbeat seen at 7w3d, Mae
BFP #4 01/31/2013 EDD 10/15/2013 No HB seen in our little girl at 10w2d due to trisomy 12, Abigail
BFP #5 6/27/2013 EDD 3/10/2014 diagnosed with protein S deficiency heparin twice a day. Luke's HB stopped at 8wks
BFP#6 12/22/2013 EDD 9/4/2014 No HB seen at 7w2d, Leia
BFP #7- 5/12/14 EDD 01/2015, ruptured ectopic 5/31/14
Sending you lots and lots of (((hugs))). I get the bump pull back. I feel it too. Even when I lurk on pgal sometimes I never knew the person saying ttcal grad was on ttcal, and usually they're not super active but still. It's tough spot to be in.
I hope the progesterone eases up for you, it's hard all the extra emotions it brings, but I'm sure it being the first cycle back ttcal doesn't help either.
More ((hugs)); keeping everything crossed for you.
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
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I'm glad your leaving that practice, it doesn't seem like the right fit. Sending lots of good vibes for tomorrow. I hope you can get a solid plan in place moving forward. ((Hugs)).
Happy BD'n!!
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
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EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
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honestly it helps with the extra stress of if treatments and everyday life.
((Hugs)) friend.
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
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@TVLily - thanks for the check-in. I hope the 2WW goes by quickly for you with a wonderful end
AFM
I'm still plugging away at temping. Figure I will need a few months before I see trends. I'm out of town this week and freaked out last night in my hotel room. I found a tick on my leg. I didn't even realize what it was. I pulled it completely out - it wasn't in there so deep. However, it had been in there for like 24 hours. Ugh. The red spot is almost gone today, so I'm hoping I don't get sick. Damn ticks! Otherwise, I'm watching the game tonight and happy to go home tomorrow.
@HoldingOutHope - glad to hear your pup is ok! Your weekend sounds fabulous. I sometimes have to do damage control after a drinking weekend
@Km380 - that's great that you are getting back into running. I go crazy if I can't blow off steam on a run . . . although drinking helps sometimes too
@Giants721 - enjoy your vacation and fingers crossed for you this cycle!
@jlworden710 - I'm sorry you are having a tough time. Take care of yourself. ((Hugs))
@co baby1 - I'm sorry that the MW's office is so chaotic. That would drive me nuts. Are you looking for an RE?
@zapgurl44 - good luck house hunting in FL! Hopefully you get time to hit the beach - enjoy!
Sending you ladies lots of love!
BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
**BFP#1 9/5/12 EDD 5/15/13 changed to 5/25/13 after u/s, missed mc 10/19/12. D and C 10/22/12**
BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20
Enjoy watching the game and safe travels home!!
Ps my background is psych too!
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
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Thanks for the thoughts I appreciate it... I have another lining check tomorrow and I think it's my last so panic mode is setting in at the though of starting PIO in the next day or so.
Qotw-- I'm a Leo and while I don't necessarily believe in zodiac stuff I'm a Leo through and through , very dramatic and needs attention LOL
NTNP 2009-2012 TTC since 2012:
Jack has handpicked his sibling up there
My blog about IF and loss ... Kate's IF Blog
@kflynn81 - good luck at your appointment tomorrow!
I forgot the QOTW - I'm a Pisces - but right on the border. I don't know much about horoscopes. I'm more of a science person
BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
**ALL AL/IF Welcome**
My Chart
@TVLily I am glad talking to your therapist is helping.
@km380 Enjoy your cycle off.
@Giants721 Have fun on vacation.
@co baby1 I hope you find a new RE's office.
**BFP#1 9/5/12 EDD 5/15/13 changed to 5/25/13 after u/s, missed mc 10/19/12. D and C 10/22/12**
BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20
BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
That's great you got your memorial tatoo! What and where did you get it; if you don't mind sharing? I hope you love it!!
I saw your + wohoo that's exciting happy bding. Are you going to chase it back down to a negative?
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
**ALL AL/IF Welcome**
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I felt bad for Brazil though. I thought the Germans were so respectful after the game. They didn't celebrate much on the field after the game.
I was really happy Klose scored another goal. Renaldo said before the World Cup, he wished Klose would get hurt, so he couldn't beat his record. Ha - burn!
I'm stoked for Sunday! You going to watch it? I'm thinking we need margaritas to celebrate <:-P
Edit: I should say that I am a USA fan - but if Germany isn't playing against the US, then I like to cheer them on. I only own a USA soccer jersey though
BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
PgAL welcome
Married 6/11/2011
Me & Hubby: 34
TTC journey started 12/2012
BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks
BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)
Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.
Also have hypothyroidism
Started TTC again 12/2013
IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN
IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN
Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498
Many ladies do Opks 2-3 times a day around the time they normally surge to first of all make sure they don't miss it if it's short and to keep bding long enough in case you get a + for more then a day.
Often I will have a + longer then 24 hours and I know done people can have them for a few days. So I'll test until it is - again.
But I'm sure doing this antis up the crazy, so it's definitly personal preference.
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
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BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
**BFP#1 9/5/12 EDD 5/15/13 changed to 5/25/13 after u/s, missed mc 10/19/12. D and C 10/22/12**
BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20
I'm glad the plans are coming together for YH's 30th birthday! Hopefully you can find the perfect getaway for the two of you.
I'm sorry for the bfn, I will continue to keep my fx for you. I'm glad you can talk to your doctor next month to make a plan moving forward. Big ((hugs)).
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
**ALL AL/IF Welcome**
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BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)