Tuesday Throat Punch

blackbird818 · July 2014

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blackbird818 · July 2014

So this happened last night (but I didn't feel like typing it out on mobile)...

TP to H and mini TP to me. I got home late from the gym and was fixing myself something to eat. H asked me a question. I was responding to said question when I looked up & he was on his phone looking through FB (I could see the screen from across the room). So I just quit talking and sat down at the table to eat.

He came over eventually and asked what has wrong. I told him I was talking and he was totally not paying attention & was on his phone. He said he thought I was done talking (how can I be done talking...if I'm STILL talking??). I told him he does it all the time and usually I just stop whatever I'm talking about & he never notices. (sidenote: I have pointed this out to him before and he gave the same answer) So TP to him.
And mini TP to me bc after this convo instead of apologizing H started touching my lady parts and even though I was ticked off at him I thought I might be Oing so I BDed. ugh the things we do.....

Km380 · July 2014

@blackbird818‌ you must be in my marriage, we have the same argument all the time!! H always says I thought you were done talking and I'm like I was mid-word! I'm sorry YH does this too.
I'm sorry but I laughed a little at the lady parts. If I could do a gif it'd be Monica pretending not to be mad at chandler bc she was o'ing

MrsG80inTN · July 2014

TP to the creepy guy at my office that just told me I "look fresh today"... I wanted to respond back, "Thanks I took a shower today"... 1) It's a weird compliment and 2) he's creepy so it doesn't work...

RedTwizzlers · July 2014

I need to TP my body. I'm 16dpo, 99.9% sure of my O date although I do think it was in the middle of the night late that night, so maybe I'm only 15.5 dpo. No sign of AF whatsoever. I tested sunday night at 14dpo, BFN. I guess I'll test again tomorrow if no AF but I don't even want a positive test at this point because it will obviously not be viable. Where TF is my AF?!?!?!

Ironically, the longer AF waits to show, the more our chances for next cycle go from non-existent to tiny, due to travel. So that's good. But it's messing with my head.

jennadesigns · July 2014

blackbird818 Sounds like my relationship too. It is frustrating. I just had to say you made me laugh with your BD anyways comment. I'm in the same boat here ... trying to let things not bother me so I don't pick a fight and we miss our window. I'm sure a lot of other women do this too. The things we do to TTC. I wonder if our H's even know or if they're totally oblivious.

alleycat39 · July 2014

A major TP to DH's boss. After postponing DH's yearly review by almost 5 months (oh yes, DH has certainly asked a few times when this review would finally be), he had the nerve to tell him he wasn't getting his bonus this year (again, owed to him in February) because he "wasn't meeting some of the objectives from Day 1." Hmmmm, well that was never brought up at his 1st year or 2nd year review. Now you decide to bring that up this year, and 5 months after the review should have been??

We are both fuming. Def not the news we needed after the hell of a past week we've had.

mpiemont · July 2014

TP to my lower back/pelvis. I have no clue if it's related to the D&C but my hips/very lower back are killing me and I couldn't go to yoga today. Wah wah wah. Anyone else have this pain after their D&C?

zapgurl44 · July 2014

@RedTwizzlers‌ -(((hugs))) I'm sorry your body isn't cooperating. All we ask for is a little consistency and we get a $hit storm some days.
My TP is going to the people buying our house, it fell out of escrow because they were/are illegal and had falsified documents and filed taxes under a false social security number. Ugh now we have to start the process all over again.

BookishMomma · July 2014

TP to my ute and hormones. Finally had a negative beta yesterday. My level was 3.85. I dreamed last night that I got AF. Then this morning had some spotting in my underwear. Woo-hoo! Put on a pad, hoping it was the start of AF. Now... nothing. I've had random spotting at various points during this never-ending cycle, so I gues I shouldn't have gotten my hopes up. I realize I'm being impatient, but c'mon. I'm on cycle day 69 here.

edit: clarity

BookishMomma · July 2014

blackbird818 said

So TP to him.
And mini TP to me bc after this convo instead of apologizing H started touching my lady parts and even though I was ticked off at him I thought I might be Oing so I BDed. ugh the things we do.....

Ha ha, I would have done the same thing. But if it were at ANY other time of the month... immediate TP to him.

BookishMomma · July 2014

RedTwizzlers said:

I need to TP my body. I'm 16dpo, 99.9% sure of my O date although I do think it was in the middle of the night late that night, so maybe I'm only 15.5 dpo. No sign of AF whatsoever. I tested sunday night at 14dpo, BFN. I guess I'll test again tomorrow if no AF but I don't even want a positive test at this point because it will obviously not be viable. Where TF is my AF?!?!?!

Ironically, the longer AF waits to show, the more our chances for next cycle go from non-existent to tiny, due to travel. So that's good. But it's messing with my head.

This blows. I'm sorry your body is giving you some serious mind-fuckery right now.

zapgurl44 · July 2014

BookishMomma said:

Finally had a negative beta yesterday. My level was 3.85. I dreamed last night that I got AF. Then this morning had some spotting in my underwear. Woo-hoo! Put on a pad, hoping it was the start of AF. Now... nothing. I've had random spotting at various points during this never-ending cycle, so I gues I shouldn't have gotten my hopes up. I realize I'm being impatient, but c'mon. I'm on cycle day 69 here.

After my d&c in January mine did the same thin. I was all excited for AF and then it was just a tease, stupid whore

( I finally got a script for provera and then she started while I was on the last couple pills.

BookishMomma · July 2014

zapgurl44 said:

My TP is going to the people buying our house, it fell out of escrow because they were/are illegal and had falsified documents and filed taxes under a false social security number. Ugh now we have to start the process all over again.

OK, this really really sucks. ((Hugs))

Flowerstar1023 · July 2014

TP to the person I was working with today (who knows about the ectopic) who, upon learning that I'd been on overnights while trying to also visit with my family who are in town said "Well, at least you don't have any children to make things harder." Yea, thank goodness for that I guess...

jjbmstinco · July 2014

alysonjill said:

A major TP to DH's boss. After postponing DH's yearly review by almost 5 months (oh yes, DH has certainly asked a few times when this review would finally be), he had the nerve to tell him he wasn't getting his bonus this year (again, owed to him in February) because he "wasn't meeting some of the objectives from Day 1." Hmmmm, well that was never brought up at his 1st year or 2nd year review. Now you decide to bring that up this year, and 5 months after the review should have been??

We are both fuming. Def not the news we needed after the hell of a past week we've had.

I think this needs to be brought to HR's office. This isn't right at all! Sorry to hear about your bad news. TP to them!

blackbird818 · July 2014

((((((hugs)))))) @ktlovess. I'm sorry your body is being such a pain. Extra hugs for TTA lovie!!! I know you've got to be incredibly frustrated and ready to get back to actively TTC.

zapgurl44 · July 2014

ktlovess said:

TP to my body on BCPs <--- 1 day of super light flow, and then 4 days of spotting, and then today, I have really bad cramps. Mmmph. I also want to point out that I hate the fact that we are still TTA because now I am coming up to a year post-loss, and will also surpass my year post-EDD. I just want to through away the BCPs.

I'll join I on the BCP hatin' too.

beemaya83 · July 2014

blackbird818 said:

So this happened last night (but I didn't feel like typing it out on mobile)...

TP to H and mini TP to me. I got home late from the gym and was fixing myself something to eat. H asked me a question. I was responding to said question when I looked up & he was on his phone looking through FB (I could see the screen from across the room). So I just quit talking and sat down at the table to eat.

He came over eventually and asked what has wrong. I told him I was talking and he was totally not paying attention & was on his phone. He said he thought I was done talking (how can I be done talking...if I'm STILL talking??). I told him he does it all the time and usually I just stop whatever I'm talking about & he never notices. (sidenote: I have pointed this out to him before and he gave the same answer) So TP to him.
And mini TP to me bc after this convo instead of apologizing H started touching my lady parts and even though I was ticked off at him I thought I might be Oing so I BDed. ugh the things we do.....

I totally get what you are saying. Having DH being on the phone browsing the net is soooo annoying. It got so bad he started doing it while we ate dinner at home/out. I finally had a serious talk with him and we agreed that no cell phones allowed when we eat or when we have conversations. On another note, you had to swallow your pride for not missing the opportunity for baby making. Oh the things we do to get that BFP

beemaya83 · July 2014

@qanda2013‌ I don't even know your friend and she already sounds annoying (sorry). She reminds me of my brothers girlfriend "baby is hungry" "baby wants tacos" (rolling my eyes).... I'm sure you are not fat, TP to your neighbor

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