I'll be delivering in a hospital. I want to have as natural a childbirth as possible but also want to know about the possible interventions that will be offered to me and whether or not I can/should reject them. My OB said that they would probably want to break my water if I was 7 or more centimeters dilated and my labor stalled for a few hours. If there isn't any fetal distress, do I need to have my water broken or can I just wait it out, maybe take a nap or go home until labor starts again on its own? At what point would it become necessary for them to break my water? I asked my OB, but he didn't really give a solid answer.
Re: When is it necessary to break water?
Unfortunately, LO still hadn't descended enough and pushing got me nowhere. I was at 10 cm for several hours before he was born.
Sometimes I wonder if it's because my labor was "sped up" by having my water broken, and if I should have just waited it out. Contractions before water breaking were WAY easier, so I would have been fine waiting.
Necessary? I guess if the child is born and the membranes are still intact (rare, but does occur). My water didn't break with my second until I was pushing and she was born minutes later.
Most of the time it seems like this is used as a gateway intervension. It's not drugs...so it's more appealing to some. Just remember it is an intervension and does carry risks. Read up on them and decide what's right for you.
I arrived to the hospital fully dilated and pushing after 8 hours of labor with water still intact. In my case, the bulging bag was impeding the progress of my pushing, so after a very frustrating hour the MW broke it and DD was born like 15 minutes later.
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With my second, she was born with the bag almost in tact. It didn't hurt any thing. The MW kept telling me she was going to break it, lucky I had my husband there to tell me that now was the time to speak up if I didn't want her to and I was still aware enough to tell her no. The bag broke on my last push. There really isn't a need to break it, unless your doc is tired of waiting.
if you're looking for an all natural birth, I'll say as little intervention as possible is the way to go. Like a PP said, this tends to be step one of the doctor taking charge of your labor. It puts you on a clock and being on the defensive isn't a good way to have a happy natural labor.