How to make it fun...

Re: How to make it fun...

• MiraK03 member

  July 2014

  Changing things up. Sexy lingerie, games, spontaneous sex.

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• DaikokuJess member

  July 2014

  I understand this. It can get really rote when trying to time things just right. I ended up trying some fun and unusual things when NOT in my fertile window. There was no pressure for either of us and it opened up new possibilities. From there, it became easier to spice it up anytime.

  
  

  ME: 33  H: 32
  TTC Since 6/2013   Early Loss: 9/2013   MFI Diagnosis: 12/2014

  
  
  
  
  

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• willowprincess member

  July 2014

  I try to spice things up whether it's FW time or not. Then it doesn't feel like sex is just for baby-making.

  

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• KingLED member

  July 2014 edited July 2014

  Talking about charting while having sex is probably your first problem. You should stop that and just enjoy his dick.

  Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.

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• MandiNewMommy member

  July 2014

  Thanks.  I wasn't trying to be dumb or funny,  just feels like a job these days.  Wanted to put some fun back into things that is all.  

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  

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• Bee1112 member

  July 2014

  Step one: Be a grown up and stop calling sex "it"
  
  Just enjoy the fucking.
  
  

  
  

  Me: 25 DH: 26

  Married 11/12/11

  BFP 12/17/11

  DS 8/29/12 via C-section

  TFAS 3/2014

  BFP #2 5/25/15 EDD 2/4/2016

  It's a BOY!

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• spiltmilkz member

  July 2014

  For me:

  1. Pineapple wine

  2. Sexy Lingerie

  
  

  or like last night. got on the ground and got him started while he washed the dishes.

  
  

  
  

  Aug15 Signature Challenge- Favorite Mean Girl from Film/TV- Santana

  
  

  

  
  
  

  
  

  Married my Best Friend 8/02/13

  DX Hypothyroidism 4/14
  

  BFP 6/23/14 MC 7/4/14
  BFP 12/9/14 EDD 8/18/15
  

  
  

  
  

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• Ladymouse member

  July 2014

  Grab him by his collar, "drag" him into the bedroom, tear off his clothes (not literally tearing them), shove him onto the bed...  Works for us.

  
  

  Mostly, one of us starts talking nerdy and the other ends up basically doing the above...

  DS born 12/2012
  

  Little Squeaker due 6/2015

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• spiltmilkz member

  July 2014

  DaisyCat11 said:

  For me:

  1. Pineapple wine

  2. Sexy Lingerie

  
  

  or like last night. got on the ground and got him started while he washed the dishes.

  
  

  
  

  Brilliant. Maybe this is the solution to H refusing to do dishes.

  I actually thought to myself, "hmm, what else can I get him to do?"

  
  

  Aug15 Signature Challenge- Favorite Mean Girl from Film/TV- Santana

  
  

  

  
  
  

  
  

  Married my Best Friend 8/02/13

  DX Hypothyroidism 4/14
  

  BFP 6/23/14 MC 7/4/14
  BFP 12/9/14 EDD 8/18/15
  

  
  

  
  

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• luciferous member

  July 2014

  SpiltEndz said:

  For me:

  1. Pineapple wine

  2. Sexy Lingerie

  
  

  or like last night. got on the ground and got him started while he washed the dishes.

  
  

  
  

  There's not much sexier than a man doing dishes!

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  Me: 33 | Him: 44 | Married: 9.2012 | Two cats | N + 1 bicycles

  TTC: 4.2014 | Snark | Word Nerd | Gamer Geek

  
  

  
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