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edited July 2014 in Single Parents
For those of you who are active on other boards you know what this is for every one else! Its friday confess your sins. It may or may not be flammed depending on what your confessing.

My confession bf was trying to sext with me while. Was talking to @jellybean529 and online shopping so i barely participated in the sexting. Oops. But i got a really cute dress and had a great talk with jellybean :-Dimage
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  • I have never sexted and hated phone sex before texting. However, with my new friend who lives far away we sext all the time and I love it.

    My FFFC: I always said I would never get plastic surgery. I was super judgey when my mom did it. Now I really really want to get some work done when I am for sure done having kids. Tummy tuck, lipo, maybe even a boob lift.
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  • I want my boobs done and a tummy tuck. I dont hate the size of my boobs i just miss how perky they used to be and i have this band of skin around my mid section. I used to swear i wouldnt get plastic surgery. But one of my mommy friends got her boobs done and they look super natural just perky and im jealous
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  • Thats what im saving up for until then im using optical allusions to make my boobs look better
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  • eg214eg214 member
    Uhhh I don't know if I can really play bc I'm obsessing over watching Capitol Fourth right now...BUT...

    I guess my confession would be I feel like a major fat ass and wish I had the time/energy to work out and the will to stop consuming sugar. I was super skinny prior to getting PG with E. BUT...anytime I've ever gained weight (twice in my life), I went on the HCG diet (don't hate please), and it worked amazing for me. BC I'm BF'ing, I can't do it and I won't go on formula just so I can lose weight. Time is always an excuse but for me, it really is. I work 8am-7pm so when I get home, I have to start E's night routine and put her down. Since she is in the living room/dining, I can't do a video and there is no room in my bedroom to do one. Gym only has daycare on Saturdays, no Sundays so that sucks too. I guess I will have to just bring my Jillian DVD to work with me and do it there in front of the annoying 12 year old and the 8 year old. I def want to lose the weight prior to trial at the end of October. Anyway, it's just really starting to bother me. I've never been this overweight for this long.

    PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
  • edited July 2014
    @eg214‌ I can totally relate to feeling fat and being overweight when you used to be skinny. I was always able to wear bikinis and show my midriff and look great. Right after getting married, I started to gain a bit. Then the kids came and it was like whoa! Now I'm back down like 4 dress sizes since January but the flip side to that is that it all shifted. I try to get to the gym a few days per week (ok, I'm lucky if twice) and I started to drink slim fast for breakfast which has helped but my gut, thighs, and arms look shit. I even got a few sessions with a personal trainer so I hope that helps. I want to look good and feel good.
    What's the hcg diet? Also, my excuse to myself is that I've had 2 c sections so my tummy muscles will never be the same again and neither will my belly.
  • eg214eg214 member
    Thanks for making me feel not alone! :) I keep trying to tell myself to be easy, just had a baby...it changes your body, etc. But then I am like ummm that was 5 months ago. It's also hard as hell since as single parents, we don't have the help a "normal" mom would to be able to go to the gym. I miss just being able to get up and go run whenever I feel like it. I don't have a jogger and can't afford one. I've been looking for a second hand but even those are usually snatched up fast or $100 or more.

    HCG is human chorionic gonadotropin aka the pregnancy hormone. Sounds odd I know...but I took mine via drops and each time, lost like 12-18 lbs in a matter of a month or less. First while going through my divorce and second right before I got pregnant. It's highly controversial bc along with it, you consume only 500 calories a day so most people say it's that that makes you lose weight. All I know is I don't care about the drama. It worked well for me and I always kept the weight off no probs. I've done the Body by Vi shakes too and that was awesome. I think I did those along with the HCG last time. I did those more for the replace a meal value. I'd like to try that again but not sure I can while BF'ing. @freeatlast2014

    PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
  • @eg214‌ I wouldn't mess with any of that stuff until you are way done with bf. It's not worth it, your supply will tank, you will not feel healthy, and you'll end up buying formula on top of it all. Give yourself more time...

    My youngest is almost 2 and I just started working on me. It's totally ok.
  • tig594tig594 member
    eg214 said:
    Uhhh I don't know if I can really play bc I'm obsessing over watching Capitol Fourth right now...BUT...

    I guess my confession would be I feel like a major fat ass and wish I had the time/energy to work out and the will to stop consuming sugar. I was super skinny prior to getting PG with E. BUT...anytime I've ever gained weight (twice in my life), I went on the HCG diet (don't hate please), and it worked amazing for me. BC I'm BF'ing, I can't do it and I won't go on formula just so I can lose weight. Time is always an excuse but for me, it really is. I work 8am-7pm so when I get home, I have to start E's night routine and put her down. Since she is in the living room/dining, I can't do a video and there is no room in my bedroom to do one. Gym only has daycare on Saturdays, no Sundays so that sucks too. I guess I will have to just bring my Jillian DVD to work with me and do it there in front of the annoying 12 year old and the 8 year old. I def want to lose the weight prior to trial at the end of October. Anyway, it's just really starting to bother me. I've never been this overweight for this long
    Does your laptop have a DVD player in it?  You could use that in your room when LO is sleeping?
  • eg214eg214 member
    It's not the dvd player issue...its the space. I literally have like two feet to the side of my bed for room to do the DVD. I could do sit ups and push ups and that sort of thing but not a DVD where you move side to side and all that. I don't think I would even have room in my bathroom. Must wait until I move her crib into my room and have the dining area. @tig594

    PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
  • For those of you who are active on other boards you know what this is for every one else! Its friday confess your sins. It may or may not be flammed depending on what your confessing. My confession bf was trying to sext with me while. Was talking to @jellybean529 and online shopping so i barely participated in the sexting. Oops. But i got a really cute dress and had a great talk with jellybean :-Dimage
    LOL I'm late to this party but sorry I interrupted your sexting ;)
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  • For those of you who are active on other boards you know what this is for every one else! Its friday confess your sins. It may or may not be flammed depending on what your confessing.

    My confession bf was trying to sext with me while. Was talking to @jellybean529 and online shopping so i barely participated in the sexting. Oops. But i got a really cute dress and had a great talk with jellybean :-Dimage

    LOL I'm late to this party but sorry I interrupted your sexting ;)

    Its all good. Bf didnt know the dofference

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