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Pregnant after a Loss
Flgrl804
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My Intro....
Flgrl804
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Hi Everyone. I am new to this group - I figured I would write a short intro on myself. I am a 3rd Grade Teacher, I am 30 years old. Currently, I have been pregnant two times, but both pregnancies have not been successful. My first pregnancy was about 4 years ago and I was a couple months along and my second was about 2 weeks ago. The doctor claimed it was a chemical pregnancy. I have never EVER heard this term before. I am just looking for a support group where I can connect with people who are going through the same issues as me. I feel like a failure at times because I lost 2 pregnancies. I don't know anyone who has had this problem. I am starting to become resentful towards the people who are able to carry a child. I feel like my time will never come. When I express my feelings to my family I can tell that they feel awkward and do not know how to respond. I am considering seeing a Fertility Specialist, I also have PCOS. Please bare with me, as I do not know what a lot of the acronyms on this site stand for. I will do my BEST to be supportive towards everyone in the group. Please be patient with me I have never been on a forum before and this is a very touchy subject for me.
Thanks for reading.
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Re: My Intro....
It sounds like you are still waiting for your "big fat positive" (BFP). Sending you good thoughts that it - and your healthy rainbow baby - come soon.
You might want to check out two other boards on The Bump:
Trying to Conceive After a Loss
Miscarriage and Loss Support
Both of those were very helpful to me after my loss and before my BFP.
Hugs.
January PAL siggie challenge; Good advice:
I remember very well the feelings you are going through right now, and my heart goes out to you. Women who have experienced losses are part of a sisterhood.
Nobody wants to be a member of this club, of course, but you will find the ladies on the loss boards to be welcoming and empathetic, I think.
January PAL siggie challenge; Good advice:
I agree with @2redtulips , the TTCAL ladies are wonderful and very supportive. I hope you get your take home baby soon!
BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
"Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience." Let it Be (blog) ♥ My BFP Charts
This time I'm not leaving without you.