I plan for LO to be 3-3.5 before having another. Although I definitely have baby fever right now, I want to be a family of 3 for a while before having another child. Plus DH and his sister are 3.5 years apart and are still close. I feel like any farther apart in age is pushing it.
I lvoted before LOs birthday buuuuuuttt... It really depends on how things go in August. If DH makes Chief than we will probably hold off until he's 3 since we'd be going overseas
DD is probably going to be our one and only. I'm about 99% sure. We will wait a couple years and talk about it again. DD has been a handful, and I can't imagine going through it with another.
i want to get pregnant before he is 1 but i dont want to have a baby before he is one because well i would already have to be knocked up
Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect 4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11 Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:( Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11 Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c
Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13 Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP Baby #8. BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number
4th septum resection on 5/31/13. Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!
My miracle baby was born March 5 at 9:33am. He was 8 lbs 12.5 oz and 21.25 inches long!
This is our last. We have a girl and a boy. There are several reasons we're done. The first is that I don't think we could maintain our level of happiness, sanity, finances, and overall balance with three. The second is that I don't want kids closer in age than 2 years. I'm 34 and the idea of having another baby at 36 just isn't appealing. Lastly, I cannot do another newborn. I think it would just break me.
We won't even think about another IVF cycle until DS is a year old, then we will have to come up with finances. In don't like thinking about it because there's a very real possibility we will be one and done, and it makes me sad because I feel like that decision was ripped away from us.
Me 28 DH 30
Married 08-11-07
TTC since 07/11
HSG 01-21-13 Left FTB
Seeing RE 1-28-13
RE 1-28-13
Both tubes blocked
LAP surgery 2-15-13 Both tubes removed Started IVF #1 June 2013 Meds: BCP, Lupron, Gonal-F, Ovidrel, Medrol, Doxycycline
If I had more help and more money and could stay home if start trying yesterday. However there is this thing called reality that I live in and Sloan is costing us a fortune. I knew it would be expensive but didn't think this expensive.
On top of that I'm really struggling through the newborn/ infant stage. I love her to death , I'm just not that great at playing for hours on end when playing doesn't consistent of much
lovethatdirtywater no, well if I am it would be less than 24 hours past conception... I answered when do I want one and that is when. I am in my fertile phase so...
lovethatdirtywater yes I am a little crazy but we are older so no time to waste, all best wishes would be appreciated as I'll probably test right at/before my 42nd bday 7/26
We aren't preventing as of this month, but we did IUI to have lo, so if we need treatments again we will start those in September. We will be losing a quarter of our income in January, so we need to do it sooner than we wanted, originally wanted to start when lo turned one.
Re: When do you want next baby?
Our English Bulldog, Ulga born 4/9/2013
Baby Boy Xander born 3/13/2014
Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away
Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect
4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs
Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11
Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:(
Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11
Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c
Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13
Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP
Baby #8. BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number
4th septum resection on 5/31/13.
Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!
My miracle baby was born March 5 at 9:33am. He was 8 lbs 12.5 oz and 21.25 inches long!
Pretty much exactly this.
I have a tween and 2u2.
Not to mention I'm 41.
If we have another I'm sure I will have 3u3 because we waited so long for the vasectomy appointment...sigh...(still waiting).
On top of that I'm really struggling through the newborn/ infant stage. I love her to death , I'm just not that great at playing for hours on end when playing doesn't consistent of much
lovethatdirtywater yes I am a little crazy but we are older so no time to waste, all best wishes would be appreciated as I'll probably test right at/before my 42nd bday 7/26
We will be losing a quarter of our income in January, so we need to do it sooner than we wanted, originally wanted to start when lo turned one.
Never mind, I didn't read. MOTN fail!
ETA:GOOD LUCK!!!