cross posting this from the PTO thread, so hopefully it will get some views/responses (thanks to another member for suggesting that!).
Does anyone know the best way to find companies that have more generous PTO policies and are more working-Mom friendly? Like perhaps websites like
glassdoor.com etc? I didn't ask nearly enough questions when interviewing for this position (and I totally own that), but if I had known how little PTO you get I would never even have applied, let alone accepted the position (at least not without negotiating my butt off). My offer letter did not stipulate PTO, so i should have asked. Live and learn, I'm stuck until baby comes now

Going to look for another job next year so I thought it would be worth asking this! Sounds like everyone else has a TON of PTO...LOL
Re: Mom-Friendly Companies!
For what its worth..I work at a large organization (a bank) and its on that list of best places to work for moms....as a mom...i can tell you its not.....
thanks all for your input!
and no, shannm i did not mean anything by that - my DH actually DOES work for a very family friendly company, i just do not. And no i don't think family duties should be just the mom's responsibility, any caregiver is capable and should be able to achieve a work-life balance. I apologize for my lack of political correctness.
I think the best way to approach this would be to seek employment opportunities within your network (obviously this could vary from industry to industry). Sometimes who you work for (your direct manager) is more important than the company you work for. My company has pretty crappy benefits but my direct manager is very flexible with my schedule so it doesn't affect me too much. I would start by looking at companies that friends/acquaintances in your industry have worked at, ask them if there are any opportunities they know of, interview, and then ask around for the reputations of the hiring manager.