irrational sperm swap fear

Re: irrational sperm swap fear

• Momarazzi007 member

  June 2014 edited June 2014

  So I think that is one of the questions they must get asked a lot- for my IVF they always tell me- "and you know we triple check that they are your embryos we will be placing back in you!" And had they never said that I would have never gone through 9 months carrying DD wondering if there was a chance she was going to come out another race? Especially after seeing some epidisodes of Private Practice. Lmbo- I think that has to either be the biggest backslap reassurance but I think they might be legally required by their legal department to say that. Doesn't help, but it seems standard in all instances of IF help.

  January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
  June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
  
  November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
  January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
  
  SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
  November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
  April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
  FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
  BABY BOY VINCENT!
  
  
  We can't wait to meet you!
  Conception: Potato Love!
  

  
  

  

  
  

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• HawaiianSunset09 member

  June 2014

  LOL Oh I so forgot about this from the first time we did IUI and got pregnant with our son. But yes, I had a similar irrational fear...and only AFTER they said something LOL! However our son is a spitting image of both me and DH so they did their job lol. 

  .Became a mama to my sweet little boy after 3 years of waiting and praying in October '12. 

  
  

  Miscarried twins from our first IUI cycle. D&C on August 14th, 2014

  Second IUI cycle: BFP

  Beta #1 (13dpiui): 74 Beta #2 (16dpiui): 505 Beta #3 (18dpiui): 1205

  First Ultrasound- 6w2d 110BPM! Our baby has a heartbeat!!

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• designer303 member

  June 2014

  Yes I do worry about this, my office has procedures like when you drop off they give you a sticker with a color and I usually watch them put the sticker on the specimen and then when they come to do the IUI the catheter has the same color sticker and they also ask to see my sticker to make sure it mathes, but I still worry especially last cycle when DH's numbers were much better than normal and I kept thinking they must have the wrong one.

  TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck

  Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man.  Born 12/2/11

  TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended

  Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good.  Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.

  Back with RE as of January 2014...

  5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy

  April 2015 IVF#1

  5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!

  Oh and I'm a major Harry Potter Nerd

  

   
    

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• Frenchteachermama member

  June 2014

  LOL I've had the same fear!!!  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  

  
  

  My FF Chart:

  http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
  TTC #3 since June 2013
  BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
  BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14
  IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
  IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
  IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN

  IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.

  FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect

  Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele

  3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15

  Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015

  2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN

  MOVING TO ADOPTION!  

  
  

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• lawmom747 member

  June 2014

  My husband was the one with this irrational fear - ha ha.  But when our daughter was born she looked too much like him for there to be any question. 
  

  Me: 35 DH: 35 - Married 10 years
  PCOS and MF
  Two failed rounds IUI in 2010
  IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12
  FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13
  FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14
  IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265;
  11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571;
  12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134)
  Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15
  
  

  

  

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• Steph1673 member

  June 2014

  designer303 said:

  Yes I do worry about this, my office has procedures like when you drop off they give you a sticker with a color and I usually watch them put the sticker on the specimen and then when they come to do the IUI the catheter has the same color sticker and they also ask to see my sticker to make sure it mathes, but I still worry especially last cycle when DH's numbers were much better than normal and I kept thinking they must have the wrong one.

  I don't know ours' process yet until later in my cycle. I hope they have something similar!

  

  
  
  
  

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• sailorgal member

  June 2014

  Well now I have a fear that I never considered. Haha.
  
  Would never have crossed my mind!
  

  Me: 32, DH: 33
  DS #1: April 2010
  DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
  

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• Bananappeal145 member

  June 2014

  This is one of my biggest fears about this whole process. Glad I'm not the only one.
  

  
  
  
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• Steph1673 member

  July 2014

  Going in tomorrow! FX for proper labeling ;-)

  

  
  
  
  

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• Bananappeal145 member

  July 2014

  big big FX!
  

  
  
  
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• topaz7777 member

  July 2014

  We made big jokes when I was pregnant with DD.  My sister had a baby 6 months earlier and her DH is half Phillipino, so we sent her picture to my DH's friends that were giving him a hard time as the announcement...  They were very quiet for a while until we let thim in on it being a joke.

  Factor V Leiden Homozygous, Advanced Maternal Age

   

  TTC #1, 5 yrs, PCOS, Femera + Ovidrel.

  IUI#3 BFP, DD 5/31/2012

  

  TTC #2, 2 yrs, PCOS, Femera+Ovidrel

  IUI#2 BFP!

  

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• Steph1673 member

  July 2014

  topaz7777 said:

  We made big jokes when I was pregnant with DD.  My sister had a baby 6 months earlier and her DH is half Phillipino, so we sent her picture to my DH's friends that were giving him a hard time as the announcement...  They were very quiet for a while until we let thim in on it being a joke.

  Ok, this is funny, because the only other couple getting an IUI today was a male of a different race, so DH and I were joking in the room that if they mixed it up, at least we'd know right away ;-)

  

  
  
  
  

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• Bananappeal145 member

  July 2014

  @Steph1673 Everything go OK today? Or have you gone yet? Not sure what time zone you are in.
  

  
  
  
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• Steph1673 member

  July 2014

  Yes, we had it yesterday morning. FX! Now I'm in the 2ww.

  

  
  
  
  

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• Bananappeal145 member

  July 2014

  Yesterday huh? Shows how well my brain is working. Glad it went well. FX!!
  

  
  
  
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• Steph1673 member

  July 2014

  Bananappeal145 said:

  Yesterday huh? Shows how well my brain is working. Glad it went well. FX!!
  

  It looks like timezones on my time stamp of my posts may have been confusing since I often post before bed :-) It was the morning of Wed 7/2 :-)

  

  
  
  
  

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