Friday Throat Punch

Re: Friday Throat Punch

• [Deleted User] member

  July 2014

  Happy 4th everyone!
  ------- PG mentioned ------
  
  
  
  TP to the friend we're staying with this weekend. Her SIL is currently pregnant, had been married 8 months and she wanted a baby but DH (friends brother) didn't so she lied about being on her pills so she'd get pregnant "on accident".
  
  But TP goes to the friend for not shutting up about it! She keeps calling the girl a bitch, and saying who gets PG after only 8 months, she's ruining everything cause she's due in my f*"**** birthday. Come to find out the SIL got pregnant the same time after marriage I did and is due on my EDD.
  
  Given, the friend doesn't know I miscarried or was due that day, but hearing about it constantly is making this weekend really difficult.

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• BethKate2 member

  July 2014

  Happy 4th of July!!

  
  

  I'd like to TP the weather that's ruining so many plans for people today. I wanted to go to the beach, but the rain is preventing that. Also, today's Red Sox game is postponed until tomorrow, so now the game I'm going to tomorrow night is the second game of a double header which means the game will probably suck. Boo.

  
  

   

  TTC since July 2012 
  BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

  RE consult: June 2014

  DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

  Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

  November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

  BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15
  

  Blogging to stay sane

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• BethKate2 member

  July 2014

  @YorkieLove83, ((hugs))

  
  

   

  TTC since July 2012 
  BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

  RE consult: June 2014

  DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

  Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

  November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

  BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15
  

  Blogging to stay sane

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• Km380 member

  July 2014

  @YorkieLove83‌ (((hugs)))
  @BethKate2‌ it's raining here in Philly too and it stinks! Makes me want to go back to bed. Sorry about the sox game
  
  This is more of a rant bc I can't complain to mh about it bc he'll just get angry and decide we can't be friends with these people which isn't helpful at all. And if I don't have a child It would be nice to at least have friends.
  
  ***babies & pg*** mentioned
  
  
  
  
  Friends on our street had a baby a few wks ago. When we were still fresh off our 2nd loss they hesitantly told us they were pg. She had her baby about3 wks after my 2nd edd. They know about our losses. Yesterday I finally summoned the courage to go see her and drop off a gift, intentionally left mh home. She kept going on about how hard labor was and how the baby screams for hours every night etc. she asked if I wanted to hold her I said no, I can't. So she went on and on about how some people are afraid to hold new borns. Not the reason I said no, and I clearly don't need to explain my reasons here. Then she starts telling me how she thinks she's old to just have had a baby (she's 31!) and she went to some class and the women there were "old - like 35 and up!" During all of this all I said at 1 point was "well that's the trade off for being able to sit here with a child." The old comment finally pissed me off and I said "look, I'm 34, 35 is around the corner so those women are not old. I will be at least 35 at this point." Now I know 34 isn't old and neither is 35...but hearing her say that after everything else she was oblivious to. Longest 15 min visit ever.
  And today we're off to a BBQ where mh's pg cousin will be. And I guarantee someone says something insanely stupid to us.
  End rant sorry. Just needed to get this out somewhere and don't feel like pissing off mh. If I knew how I would now reward you with an image of a tasty treat!

  PgAL welcome

  
  

  Married 6/11/2011
  

  Me & Hubby: 34

  TTC journey started 12/2012

  BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

  BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

  Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

  Also have hypothyroidism

  Started TTC again 12/2013

   

  IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

  IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

  Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

  http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498
  

   

  
  

  
  

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• blackbird818 member

  July 2014

  Big big (((((hugs))))) @Km380 people are so stupid and ignorant sometimes. I hope you can shake it off and enjoy the bbq!!
  
  If all else fails, Drink!!! <:-P

  TTC since Sept 2012
  M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks
  AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera
  Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13
  Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely
  BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/14...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14
  

  
   
   
  
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• TVLily member

  July 2014

  HoldingOutHope said:

  Huge TP to The Bump! I have updated my profile multiple times, and I can't get the "Your Belly" emails to stop! Thanks for reminding me that I would have been 10 weeks along today, you stupid douche canoes! (

  (((Hugs))) I never got them to stop from my first EDD either, I now get parenting ones. I wonder if emailing them or pming bj is the proper step?

  EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
  EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
  IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI 

  Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW

  

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• Km380 member

  July 2014

  Big ((hugs)) Hoh. Is there a help email or something you can contact to make sure it's updated?

  PgAL welcome

  
  

  Married 6/11/2011
  

  Me & Hubby: 34

  TTC journey started 12/2012

  BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

  BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

  Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

  Also have hypothyroidism

  Started TTC again 12/2013

   

  IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

  IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

  Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

  http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498
  

   

  
  

  
  

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• jennadesigns member

  July 2014

  HoldingOutHope said:

  Huge TP to The Bump! I have updated my profile multiple times, and I can't get the "Your Belly" emails to stop! Thanks for reminding me that I would have been 10 weeks along today, you stupid douche canoes! (

  I'm sorry. I had to unsubscribe to the emails numerous times (like probably five times) before they finally stopped coming. It's a horrible slap in the face to see that sitting in your inbox. Made me feel like even checking my email wasn't safe anymore. ((hugs))
  

  BFP 3/30/13, MMC and D&C 4/19/13
  BFP 4/8/14, MMC 5/5/14, D&C 5/9/14
  BFP 8/26/14 Due date 5/8/15
  
  

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• Frenchteachermama member

  July 2014

  ** pregnancy mentioned**
  
  TP to hearing today that my SIL is 7 weeks pregnant. Now all of my SILs and sister are pregnant. TP to people not being sensitive to what I'm going through enough to give me a heads up instead of having to hear the news in front of a big group of people on our vacation. With my bfn and this announcement I'm ready to go home and hide.

  
  

  
  

  
  

  

  
  

  My FF Chart:

  http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
  TTC #3 since June 2013
  BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
  BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14
  IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
  IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
  IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN

  IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.

  FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect

  Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele

  3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15

  Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015

  2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN

  MOVING TO ADOPTION!  

  
  

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• O2girl member

  July 2014

  HoldingOutHope said:

  Huge TP to The Bump! I have updated my profile multiple times, and I can't get the "Your Belly" emails to stop! Thanks for reminding me that I would have been 10 weeks along today, you stupid douche canoes! (

  Holy moly I thought I was the only one having this issue!! ((((Hugs)))) and major TP to the bump for this shit

  Me: 38
  DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant
  
  DH: 34
  MFI due to Testicular Cancer
  
  Married March 2012
  IVF w/ICSI #1
  10 little polar bears
  FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN
  FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
  Beta 1= 276
  Beta 2= 662
  4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
  5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
  5/3/14 ~ D&C
  FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
  October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
  Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y
  
  
  
  
  January 2015 Siggy Challenge TTCAL
  Animals Interacting with Snow
  
  
  
  

  
  

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• Km380 member

  July 2014

  @Frenchteachermama‌ I'm sorry sweetie (((hugs))) is it vacation cocktail time at least?

  PgAL welcome

  
  

  Married 6/11/2011
  

  Me & Hubby: 34

  TTC journey started 12/2012

  BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

  BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

  Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

  Also have hypothyroidism

  Started TTC again 12/2013

   

  IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

  IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

  Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

  http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498
  

   

  
  

  
  

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• Frenchteachermama member

  July 2014

  Km380 said:

  @Frenchteachermama‌ I'm sorry sweetie (((hugs))) is it vacation cocktail time at least?

  It's about to be!

  
  

  
  

  
  

  

  
  

  My FF Chart:

  http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
  TTC #3 since June 2013
  BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
  BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14
  IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
  IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
  IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN

  IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.

  FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect

  Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele

  3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15

  Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015

  2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN

  MOVING TO ADOPTION!  

  
  

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• bmblebea member

  July 2014

  @HoldingOutHope‌ and @O2girl‌ I third your throat punches! I f-ing hate those emails. I had to upgrade like 8 times before they stopped. If I get another one my head might explode.

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• [Deleted User] member

  July 2014

  ((Hugs)) to everyone! Im mobile and slightly drink.... so getting all the names is difficult! @Km380‌ @HoldingOutHope‌ @Frenchteachermama

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• stinybean member

  July 2014

  @YorkieLove83‌, @Km380‌, and @Frenchteachermama‌ I'm sorry it sounds like insensitivity is catching lately. A big TP to all of those "ladies."
  
  @HoldingOutHope‌, @O2girl‌, @bmblebea‌ that happened to me too. It's ridiculous!
  
  @BethKate2‌, @Km380‌, @bluedaisy0627‌ Sorry for the weather issues. It's been nonstop rain here since Wednesday too.
  
  ((Hugs)) to all.
  
  

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