Stargirlb

NatureLovers · July 2014

So, you're openly bisexual. Also, you're in a polyamorous relationship with 2 men? Are you just making this stuff up?

jennyhatt · July 2014

I love January 15!!! Lol
I hope she isn't bc I love @Stargirlb‌ even more now!

Roxycc55 · July 2014

Wait, where was the poly amorous relationship thing stated? I need to go look...

Stargirlb · July 2014

Lol yes bisexual, yes in an open relationship. But no, not with two men. I am not with my daughter's father, but I am with my son's father (and father of this baby)

motherboy · July 2014

This feels a little too much like a call out thread for someone's sexual orientation and lifestyle. ...This makes me uncomfortable.

Stargirlb · July 2014

I can only aspire to that level of coolness :P

NatureLovers · July 2014

No, I am not calling her out for her lifestyle. I could honestly care less. I'm just saying those are one of many inflammatory, drama seeking type posts, and I'm wondering if she's real, or just here to try to stir things up.

llbne · July 2014

Ugh this is nasty - why would bisexuality be something worthy if suspicion? I accept a pregnancy in a poly amorous relationship is pretty unconventional but still, this op is so judgey and closed minded!

motherboy · July 2014

I've had my issues with her in the past but i think she's very strong, willing to stand up for herself, and I'm glad she's part of Jan 15.

And when I saw the photo shopped siggy pic, I spit my drink out laughing.

NatureLovers · July 2014

llbne said:
Ugh this is nasty - why would bisexuality be something worthy if suspicion? I accept a pregnancy in a poly amorous relationship is pretty unconventional but still, this op is so judgey and closed minded!

You're misunderstanding the point of my post. I am very pro LGBT and could not give two shits what consenting adults do. I'm saying is that it appears that she keeps trying to start drama, like continuing the spicy thread despite the shit storm that it caused. So is she really who she says she is, or is she just saying those things with the hope of starting more drama?

jennyhatt · July 2014

I'm in the mood for an episode of sister wives right now

Stargirlb · July 2014

Who would I *really* be? A nun in a convent getting some shits and giggles on a pregnancy board in my spare time?

Stargirlb · July 2014

Nature lovers maybe justs wants to be girlfriends

llbne · July 2014

Ok... But why even go there? If someone says they're in a heterosexual relationship you don't go 'I wonder if that's true or they're making it up for some ulterior reason'. I think even the fact it flagged for you as improbable is a bit odd. (Edit - @naturelovers )

NatureLovers · July 2014

jconno said:

NatureLovers said:
No, I am not calling her out for her lifestyle. I could honestly care less. I'm just saying those are one of many inflammatory, drama seeking type posts, and I'm wondering if she's real, or just here to try to stir things up.
I'm not saying it was your intention, but it seems like you are the one making posts to stir things up. That's how this comes across.

You're right, I think she's full of it but I should have just ignored it.

Stargirlb · July 2014

Too good to be true!?!

that's how I took it. hehehe

jennyhatt · July 2014

Lol x a million @Stargirlb‌
I officially have a cyber crush

NatureLovers · July 2014

llbne said:
Ok... But why even go there? If someone says they're in a heterosexual relationship you don't go 'I wonder if that's true or they're making it up for some ulterior reason'. I think even the fact it flagged for you as improbable is a bit odd. (Edit - @naturelovers )

I mentioned those two statements because they're the last two that I saw in recent threads, but it has nothing to do with anything LGBT. I also recall some statements she made regarding that raised my eyebrows, like child leashes being akin to domination, etc.

MusicFanatic · July 2014

I think I missed a bunch while I was away.

Stargirlb · July 2014

This thread turned into an unexpected warm blanket hug. Thanks

NatureLovers · July 2014

::eyeroll:: This has nothing to do with her sexual orientation, and I have amply clarified that. Stop being willfully obtuse.

Regardless, I really should not have said anything, and just ignored her attempts at creating drama. By the way, is there a block feature? I can't find it on mobile.

Stargirlb · July 2014

Actually just what I needed after a long day of crop top nausea

llbne · July 2014

@naturelover I get what you are saying. However, it would be neat if we could get to a place where people's sexuality and relationship (no matter what type) is not a surprising or unlikely fact at all. Your OP was clearly sceptical of the truth of these facts. Imagine if we could get to a place where sexuality was as mundane as profession or hobby - something definitely not triggering a 'raised eyebrow'.

LadyXaverian · July 2014

NatureLovers said:

::eyeroll:: This has nothing to do with her sexual orientation, and I have amply clarified that. Stop being willfully obtuse. Regardless, I really should not have said anything, and just ignored her attempts at creating drama. By the way, is there a block feature? I can't find it on mobile.

@NatureLovers I think you click on the person's profile and there is an option there to "ignore".

ETA: Yep, if you click on their profile, up next to the "private message" button, there is a drop down menu, and "ignore" is one of the options.

I totally encourage anyone and everyone to use this option if personality differences are too much to endure. I personally can't imagine anyone getting to me that much, but if it helps you to enjoy the board more, you should definitely do this.

Stargirlb · July 2014

Sorry nature lovers I actually feel your pain for how badly this thread turned out. Don't block me now, I'm sure I'll drop some juicey bombs that will give you you chance to flame me adequately

NatureLovers · July 2014

llbne said:
@naturelover I get what you are saying. However, it would be neat if we could get to a place where people's sexuality and relationship (no matter what type) is not a surprising or unlikely fact at all. Your OP was clearly sceptical of the truth of these facts. Imagine if we could get to a place where sexuality was as mundane as profession or hobby - something definitely not triggering a 'raised eyebrow'.

I agree. I can't wait for the day when someone's sexual orientation is as relevant as their hair color. It bothers me greatly that anyone could think I'm anything less than 100% pro LGBT, but I guess that's my fault as I should have used different examples to explain my point, but it's too late now.

llbne · July 2014

That's a pretty awesome reply, @naturelovers. We all say dumb stuff without thinking sometimes. Let's move on!

NatureLovers · July 2014

ExcitedMama2 said:
@NatureLovers‌ I don't think you should block her, I think you guys should be labor buddies!

@LadyXaverian‌ thanks! It worked.

@ExcitedMama2‌ believe it or not, she's the exact reason why I voted against it. I have been on the knot/nest for many years (different username), and I saw some incredible shit go down between people who trusted frequent posters, and those frequent posters who pretended to be someone other than they claimed. Stalking, contacting people's husbands, bosses, etc. it's also the reason why I refused to join the FB group. Most people on here are sane, but it's those outliers you gotta watch out for. It's unfortunate.

luciddreamer106 · July 2014

I don't think it matters the reason for the callout, though it seems that you just think she's full of shit and just starting drama. It's NOT ok to start a thread to specifically call someone out. If you have a problem with someone, ignore them, PM them, or mention something in the thread that prompted the call out.

Now, if you want to call someone out to give some love, that's a whole different story!

LadyXaverian · July 2014

NatureLovers said:

@NatureLovers‌ I don't think you should block her, I think you guys should be labor buddies!
@LadyXaverian‌ thanks! It worked.

Great!

Stargirlb · July 2014

Well, I'm in the Facebook group AND my Facebook profile is public, so if you feel you need to investigate me to ensure I'm not a crazy husband stalker (offensive insulation, much?) then be my guest!

SpaceGirlSpiff · July 2014

I probably disagree with most everything Stargirlb believes in (there may be a few unity issues here and there), but ...I think I can retract my previous assumption that she's a trolly troll. I think she's quirky and even funny many-a-time, even though we've disagreed and probably will again

Everyone has their thing.

As far as I'm concerned she's welcome here.

LadyXaverian · July 2014

Can you feel the love tonight?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aF4CWCXirZ8

joujouwish · July 2014

I think I just lost a bunch of brain cells reading this thread.

I never in my wildest dreams imagined such a conversation could happen on a pregnancy forum. WOW! Who gives a flying f*ck.

Stargirlb I feel like you're my sister from another mister... in some strange way.

kaybeeknits · July 2014

I don't think this one thread takes away @NatureLovers‌ being an ally of the LGBTQ community. She got wrapped up in calling out stargirlb, and I think she didn't consider the way it would come across.

kolaczka · July 2014

So let's all hug, make up and go to a drag show? After all, the world would be a much worse place without a few crazy weird people who are happy and confident in who they are. Virtually of course...who knows who you people really are.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nqw08BBqUSE

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NatureLovers · July 2014

aditigirl said:

NatureLovers said:
No, I am not calling her out for her lifestyle. I could honestly care less. I'm just saying those are one of many inflammatory, drama seeking type posts, and I'm wondering if she's real, or just here to try to stir things up.
Psst. If you could care less it means you care.

Yikes! How did the English major in me overlook that gaffe?

Lanatir · July 2014

kolaczka said:

So let's all hug, make up and go to a drag show? After all, the world would be a much worse place without a few crazy weird people who are happy and confident in who they are. Virtually of course...who knows who you people really are. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nqw08BBqUSE

Ohohohohoh! Can I bring my uncle and his partner? Drag shows are THE BEST when you go with gay men. It gets sooooooo catty it's downright hilarious.

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