Pregnant after a Loss

Hello, anxiety! :(

I woke up feeling super anxious this morning, and it hasn't really let up so far. I cooked for a bit, which helped, and I am trying to focus on calming activities. 

It must be normal at this stage of pregnancy, right? (almost 35 weeks for those on mobile)
Like my brain and my body know what's coming soon? It's not really pgal brain - it's just a general sense of nervousness. 

I have a huge amount of work to do for clients today and tomorrow (and over the next couple of weeks, really), and it is so hard to focus. I am also worried I will run out of time to get everything done. 

SIGH. 

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First-time mom, 35+, parenting after a loss (mmc Oct. 2012 @ 8 wks), ttc for a year after loss

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Re: Hello, anxiety! :(

  • I'm sorry you're feeling anxious.  But at least it's related to the arrival of your baby boy rather than anticipating something bad happening!  That's a good sign   :)  I have to admit that I'm jealous!  I look forward to being that far along and stressing about baby coming...  but easier said than done in my shoes.  Try to relax and remember that your son won't know if things are finished or not.  All he needs is your love and protection!  Hang in there!

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  • Sending Big ((Hugs)) your way. I am sorry you are feeling so anxious. Try to relax and enjoy your last few weeks of pregnancy.
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  • Big ((hugs)) and calming vibes headed your way! You're almost done, hang in there just a little bit longer!
  • Birch113 said:
     I know if I try to work straight through, I'm not as productive as I would be if I had taken some time to turn my brain off (silly movies help!). I hope you feel better soon!
    That's really true for me as well. I would normally take a break and go for a long walk, but I can't right now (on light duty, per my doctor). I need to find something else that makes for a good break. I work from home, so maybe some time in my garden.

    I am not normally a list person, but I do think that would help me right now. Just crossing things off the list would make me feel like I am making progress. 

    Thanks for the advice! 

    Thanks everyone for the hugs and encouragement as well. I appreciate that a lot.

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    First-time mom, 35+, parenting after a loss (mmc Oct. 2012 @ 8 wks), ttc for a year after loss

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  • I think it's normal to be a little nervous as you get so close to the end!  At least you're not having 7w panic attacks/ freak-outs like this little lady had last night!  You're almost there!!

     

  • Yep. We've made all our big purchases: crib, car seat, etc. We'll put the decals up in the nursery this weekend, and that's pretty much all we have left other than my shower in a couple of weeks. 

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    First-time mom, 35+, parenting after a loss (mmc Oct. 2012 @ 8 wks), ttc for a year after loss

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  • Big hugs! I think it's normal to be anxious and the anticipation is almost killer! Lol I'm a list person so I can check off everything ...when I see a line I let out sigh of relief:) your almost to the end mama!
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  • I'm sorry you're feeling anxiety at this stage, but know that you're not alone (((hugs))); it's really starting to sink in that we'll be meeting our little lady sooner than not, and it's freaking me out. 

    But here we are, still hanging in there :) and you're so close! You are strong and amazing! I hope you find something that helps you relax, whether it's watching silly movies or making lists as PP have mentioned, going for a walk, listening to music, "nesting" around the house, hanging out with a friend...let me know if you find something that helps!
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  • I think it's normal at this stage for anxiety to take over sometimes. I have been so nervous and focused on just getting through this pregnancy and knowing we're almost there brings on a new set of worries - we will actually have a baby this time! We don't know what to do with a baby!

    I also think the unknown of when/how labor will start makes us nervous. It's like trying to be prepared for anything at any time, and that is bound to make you a little crazy!

    Hope you can find something to calm you a little bit!

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  • I also think the unknown of when/how labor will start makes us nervous. It's like trying to be prepared for anything at any time, and that is bound to make you a little crazy!

    Oh. it's this for sure. I woke up with mega lower back pain this morning, so of course I was wondering if this could be "it." Nope - turns out a run to the restroom was all I needed. I'm fine now. 

    Being a first-timer especially, I think I am extra paranoid about wondering if I'll know when it's time. Based on everything I've heard, though, I will KNOW. :) 

    Although I have been full-on nesting, I still am having a hard time wrapping my brain around what daily life will be like with a baby. It's too overwhelming to think about it much right now.

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    First-time mom, 35+, parenting after a loss (mmc Oct. 2012 @ 8 wks), ttc for a year after loss

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