I know, I know, aw/ss and she was born almost two weeks ago, but I'm just now at a point to write about the whole ordeal. It was... Amazing.
At 5:45 a.m, I was laying in bed with my husband, He had his hand on my tummy and we were morning cuddling like usual, and As soon as we settled in to sleep a while longer, I felt pressure and said "honey.. We gotta go. Now." And he looked at me and I said "my water just broke. Call the hospital." And as soon as I stood up, yeah- game on. He called labor and delivery, both our parents, and we were off to have a baby!
They tested to make sure I did indeed rupture (as if the soaked pants and towels weren't proof enough) and they checked my cervix- 1 cm, not effaced. I knew it'd be forever. They started Pitocin. Labor was underway. I had so many people there to help me, including a close family friend who happened to be visiting from Canada. The first 4 cm took forever. 13 hours to get the Epi. And everyone was sure it'd be longer once I got it, but I went from a 4 to a 9.5 in an hour, and my DH who just stepped out to pee got a call saying "better hurry up. Your wife is pushing in just a few minutes." Everyone had to leave per my request except DH. They all wished me well, and the last thing my daddy heard me say I later heard made him so proud. As they cleared out, I looked at the nurse and said "let's get to work."
40 minutes. The nurse had my baby in 40 minutes. And she delivered her one handed! Instead of her head getting past the bone and calling the doc, her head got past the bone... And everything followed. She had her cord around her throat and ankles, so the nurse directed my husband to get her various things and then scream out the door for the doctor, all the while getting her own phone destroyed on the table with me. My doc quickly and efficiently rescued my girl, fixed me up while nurses got her breathing and I coached my crying husband through the fear. In the end, we had Anna Elizabeth- 6 lbs 4 oz, 19 in! The perfect little girl. Labor was intense, long and painful,but every second is an incredible memory. I am better having gone through it.
Thanks everyone! I love reading y'all's birth stories too, when I can. little ma'am also had jaundice after being released and had an additional hospital stay last monday.. I felt so sad watching her like that. She is doing better today. We seem to be finally getting the jaundice out. Here's a couple from when she was born, and the last is from right now.
Me: 35 DH: 34 Married 07/2012 DD born 07/2014 DD2 born 10/2018 DS born 10/2022
IF history: TTC #2 since January 2016 June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018 FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
Re: Anna Elizabeth's birth story!
BFP#1: 08/30/12 EDD 04/30/12 m/c 09/04/12 6wks
BFP#2: 01/27/13 EDD 10/06/13 missed m/c 02/25/13 9wks
BFP#3: 10/30/13 EDD 07/05/14 Our little dude was born on 07/10/14 @ 2:19p
DD born 7.27.2014
BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
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Married 07/2012
DD born 07/2014
DD2 born 10/2018
DS born 10/2022
IF history:
TTC #2 since January 2016
June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN
Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis
Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing
Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018
FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks
FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22