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****TFAS Check In****

I feel like there have been many intros TFAS!

Age of LO(s):

How long trying for a sibling (TFAS):

Rants/raves/chart stalks:

GTKY: What do you do for you time?

Me: 25 DH: 26
Married 11/12/11
BFP 12/17/11
DS 8/29/12 via C-section
TFAS 3/2014
BFP #2 5/25/15 EDD 2/4/2016
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Re: ****TFAS Check In****

  • Age of LO(s): 22 months

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): since the beginning of April.

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: I don't really know when I ovulated. I lost my thermometer after it was confirmed but today is 52/21 and BFN so don't think that I did O. I'm ready for CD1 at this point.

    DS figured out how to climb out of his crib this weekend :( getting him to stay in his toddler bed now is a real chore. Any advice for this would be appreciated! It took an hour and a half for him to fall asleep last night!


    GTKY: What do you do for you time?
    I read like crazy. If my DS isn't awake that is what I am doing 98% if the time. I really enjoy crocheting too. But I have a business so I'm not sure if I consider that me time.

    Me: 25 DH: 26
    Married 11/12/11
    BFP 12/17/11
    DS 8/29/12 via C-section
    TFAS 3/2014
    BFP #2 5/25/15 EDD 2/4/2016
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  • Robi1Robi1 member
    I feel like there have been many intros TFAS!

    Age of LO(s): 11 months

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): 3 months actively, NTNP for a while before that.

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: Nothing much this month, just O'd on Sunday, so starting out the 2ww. 

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? Bikram yoga, reading and writing
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  • I think I will come play over here!

    Age of LO(s): 3 1/2

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): This will be cycle 3

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: Not really. Temping is off to a good start for the cycle so hoping I have a prettier chart this time

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? What's that??  I guess I work out and muck around in the garden.  Moving slow today so no gym for me... I'm a slug



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  • I feel like there have been many intros TFAS!  Ok, how about this (hopefully) will be the 2nd for my husband... my God willing 6th child

    Age of LO(s): 16, 14, 12, 11 and almost 4 months!

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): 3cycle

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: nope just hoping to maximize our timing, last cycle we only had sex 1x during fw... need to up that for certain

    GTKY: What do you do for you time?  I love to read!  My kindle is on the fritz so I'm rereading some tacky book at the moment.  I also love walking with my dogs and being outside.
  • Robi1Robi1 member
    @Bee1112 - I write a lot of stuff. Lately, I mostly write in my own journal, and I have a journal for each child that I write in (one for my daughter, one for the next baby) about things that are going on, hopes and dreams, anything really. In the past I've written fiction as well as articles about educational philosophy and children, which is my field of interest. I don't get a lot of time for that though. What are you writing about?
    #1 7/2013
    #2 3/2015
    #3 3/2017
    #4 10/2019
  • @redbluepurple isn't that the best??!!



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  • Robi1Robi1 member
    @Bee1112 - Also just wanted to weigh in on the bed situation. My recommendation is to make the whole room very safe and also not too exciting. We just have a small shelf with a few books and toys in the room, and nothing else that's very distracting. At bedtime, we put her in the bed, shut the door, and that's it. She can play or do what she wants in there, but we're not going to come get her (unless there's something serious). Having a video monitor helps a lot to know what she's up to. Consistency with this is really the only thing that will help - if he knows he can cry or knock on the door or call for you and you'll come, then he'll do that all night! If he learns that it's up to him when he goes to bed, soon he'll start appreciating that and just go to sleep. Obviously every kid is different, but this has worked for us! 
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  • kdE2010kdE2010 member
    edited July 2014
    @Bee1112 I don't have any advice, but I dread the day my daughter climbs out. I'm pretty sure it'll be impossible to keep her in bed. Good luck!

    @redbluepurple That's sweet. My DD says all kinds of things, but not "I love you".

    Age of LO(s): 23 months

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): 2 months

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: FW is during the 3 day weekend and we don't have much planned, so I'm thinking it's going to be great timing. FX!

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? Me time is always during nap. DD sleeps really well (which is why I'm scared of a big-girl bed), so that's when I read, craft, watch TV, and garden.


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  • I'm TFAT!

    Age of LO(s): A month shy of 3 & almost 15m

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS):
    This is my 2nd cycle TFAT.

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: I had a big dip past the CL yesterday & today a huge spike past all my other temps. I'm obviously hoping it was implantation! I'm on the crazy train.

    GTKY: What do you do for you time?
    I sew and embroider every chance I get!
  • Can I hang out here even though we aren't trying for another month or two?
    Age of LO(s): 14 months & 2 1/2

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS):  Not trying for #3 until Aug/Sept

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: Nothing yet....

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? Pilates, spruce up our house and nap!

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  • @Bee1112‌ No advice about the toddler bed, but I had a friend that just took out the bottom spring portion of the crib. She put the mattress on the floor inside the crib & her DS couldn't get out. That last a year.
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  • Age of LO(s): 18mos

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): 3 actively trying, NTNP since she was about 6 months old

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: CD 3 today, blah...only hit 0-2 last month. I don't know how else to let my H know the importance of timin

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? Jog, veg online, watch TV, spend time outside
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  • NoeliaVNoeliaV member
    edited July 2014
    Age of LO(s): 19 months

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): 4th cycle, post-m/c

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: meh. I think that all of baby girl's night wakings are messing with my temps. I'm getting a pre- and post- o temp pattern, but  they don't align with my secondary fertile signs. I'm now wondering if our timing is not as good as it could be because of this.

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? Ha. Hahahahahaha. I sleep. Or talk with my local internet friends on our board. All of my roles combined (wife, mother, sister, employed staff) take up all of my time otherwise. I don't even have time to freaking volunteer. Sorry. This is a particular sore point for me at the moment.
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  • @NoeliaV‌ I'm sorry you aren't getting the me time you need and deserve. :(

    Me: 25 DH: 26
    Married 11/12/11
    BFP 12/17/11
    DS 8/29/12 via C-section
    TFAS 3/2014
    BFP #2 5/25/15 EDD 2/4/2016
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    @NoeliaV‌ I'm sorry you aren't getting the me time you need and deserve. :(
    Thank you, mama. I guess I didn't realize how sore of a point it was until the question was asked.  Oops. Perhaps a mental health day is in order asap?
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  • Age of LO(s): DS will be 2 on August 9th!

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): this is month #2

    Rants/raves/chart stalks:  I'm the one that wanted to wait to TTC until DS was 2 or a little later...but now that we are trying, I want it to happen NOW.  I'm not taking my temp or using OPK's so I'm not exactly sure when O happened - but I am having some cramping and ovulation pain today!  So that makes me think today!  :)

    GTKY: What do you do for you time?  Read!  Catch up on Parenthood.  Book club once a month with ladies, AKA wine club.  :)

     

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  • triciaj1triciaj1 member
    edited July 2014
    Age of Lo: 5

    How long TFAS: this time we are 6 months if NTNP. But 3 months trying. Before that I tried for 19 months with ex husband years ago

    Rants/raves: if we have a baby I am worried about the age spacing. Seems 5 is older than most to start trying again. Makes me sad and nervous.

    GTKY: I read a ton and I love shooting a bow.
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  • Age of LO(s): DS will be 2 on August 9th!

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): this is month #2

    Rants/raves/chart stalks:  I'm the one that wanted to wait to TTC until DS was 2 or a little later...but now that we are trying, I want it to happen NOW.  I'm not taking my temp or using OPK's so I'm not exactly sure when O happened - but I am having some cramping and ovulation pain today!  So that makes me think today!  :)

    GTKY: What do you do for you time?  Read!  Catch up on Parenthood.  Book club once a month with ladies, AKA wine club.  :)

    We just started parenthood a little bit ago! We love it. I want to binge watch it since I'm a SAHM but my H would kill me!

    My DS will be 2 in August as well! The 29th. :)

    Me: 25 DH: 26
    Married 11/12/11
    BFP 12/17/11
    DS 8/29/12 via C-section
    TFAS 3/2014
    BFP #2 5/25/15 EDD 2/4/2016
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  • Thanks for starting this thread!

    Age of LO: 17 months

    How long TFAS: Around four months after PPP started

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: I'm on 8DPO. I don't have any hope this month because we only had sex on O+1 because DH was out of town during my FW. I have high hopes for July. Also, DH is better informed about the conception process this month (e.g, one time might not be enough). 

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? I like to go to a cafe or arrange an acupuncture appt.

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  • Age of LO(s): 16 months

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): First month trying.  I'm currently in the 2WW!

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: I'm 8DPO. I'm going to test on 11 DPO because that's when we got our first positive for my first child.  Also, if it's negative I can drink for the 4th.  I have a feeling this is not our cycle, but I'm letting my mind play games with me.

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? My favorite thing to do is get a mani/pedi.  Or just relax!


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  • sandj918sandj918 member
    edited July 2014

    Age of LO(s): 
    She turned 9 in March. 

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS):
    Just started in June

    Rants/raves/chart stalks:
    Not much except that we're leaving tomorrow to go visit my SIL and her husband. They're doing a "sex reveal" party for their baby who's due in November. I'm dreading faking being excited when really I'm jealous as hell. Although we just started trying in June, I've been ready to try for 2 years. DH was not. I'm a little tired of waiting. I'm just a bit cranky about it today. 

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? Read, go for a walk/jog, drink a good wine. 



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  • Age of LO(s): 2

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): 2 cycles

    Rants/raves/chart stalks:  I think I said this last week, but who remembers.  I'm frustrated that my charts and cycles were more consistent before we were TFAS.  It's almost as if they're intentionally being weird now that we've started. 

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? I had to read this over and over to figure out what it meant.  I kept reading it in toddler speak as "what do you do for your time" and I didn't know what that referred to.  I have very little "me" time.  I guess playing around the computer is what I do when I have a free moment or two.


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  • Age of LO(s): 2


    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): 2 cycles

    Rants/raves/chart stalks:  I think I said this last week, but who remembers.  I'm frustrated that my charts and cycles were more consistent before we were TFAS.  It's almost as if they're intentionally being weird now that we've started. 

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? I had to read this over and over to figure out what it meant.  I kept reading it in toddler speak as "what do you do for your time" and I didn't know what that referred to.  I have very little "me" time.  I guess playing around the computer is what I do when I have a free moment or two.

    I had to read that question a few times, too.
  • Age of LO(s): 2 1/2

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): first cycle! Excited to make DD a big sister

    Rants/raves/chart stalks:  Nothing really yet, only on cd3 so just waiting to get started 

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? The usuals are read or crochet. When I have some true me time I like to play my piano. DD is very very in to helping right now, so there isn't much consistent practice that happens unless I have the house to myself. It doesn't happen often though!



  • Age of LO(s): 16 mos

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): since May but either didnt O and bad timing each cycle.  Hoping to get a better idea of O this cycle but AF still wacky due to BF.

    Rants/raves/chart stalks:  Today on CD1 (spotting) I found out my sister is expecting...funny/shitty timing for me.  Im happy for her but my heart sunk a bit when I found out even though I knew she had been trying.  I had had a feeling she was just some kind of intuition...wish i would get a feeling that I will be pregnant again!

    GTKY: What do you do for you time?    mainly spend with DD, read, dance

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  • @NoeliaV- Are you a December 2012 mom? Your name and avatar look so familiar. I was one for a cool minute until I M/C.

    I'm going to try to check in here more!

    Age of LO(s): 10 months.

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): This is our first month. Whoop whoop.

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: My chart has been so erratic. I know for a fact I'm o'ing either now, or very soon. my CBFM said peak fertility and I got super positive wondfos this morning. However, no temp dip.

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? I nap when the baby naps. Orrrr I catch up on MTV trash like 16 and Preg.

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    DS2- 11/2015 (Second round IUI)

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  • Age of LO: 26 months

    How long TFAS: 15 months

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: I never know if I'm doing the BBT thermometer right. And I hate whenever people ask me if my dd is our only child, and then give me weird looks when I say yes...

    GTKY: What do you do for you time?
    Swim, shower, play on the internet, watch my shows. All after DD goes to bed. Lol
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    BFP - May 11th 2013 - MC on May 15th 2013<br>
    BFP - June 22nd 2013 - MC on June 30th 2013<br>
    BFP - September 2013 - MC September 2013<br>
    BFP - October 31, 2013 - December 17th - found out baby stopped growing at 7wks - natural MC December 20th 2013

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  • RN1175RN1175 member
    Age of LO(s):11 and 1

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS):4 months/3AL

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: This is my first cycle charting BBT using FF. I got dotted CH for CD 25, which is very late for me. What totally sucks is that our timing sucked big time and I stopped using OPK because I ran out or I could have had MH come home if I would've known that O was coming. (He travels for work). Hoping for better luck with timing next cycle.

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? Exercise, couponing, and all the wine. :)

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  • Age of LO(s): 5 yrs.

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): Since February of this year

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: We are currently buying our first home. We close next week. yay

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? Lurk here on the bump, read and keep DD entertained.

      


  • Age of LO(s): 17 months

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): 6 months

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: My house is in shambles--- we are in the middle of a kitchen reno so all the stuff that used to be in our kitchen is scattered around the house in boxes. This is tough with a crazed toddler running around.

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? read, gym, sit at starbucks, go on walks with the pup and usually my daughter too.
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  • Age of LO(s): 2.5 years

    How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): On our 7th cycle

    Rants/raves/chart stalks: Testing by my OB indicates some issues, so we are going to the RE this month since I have low progesterone, short luteal phase and am just about to turn 35. Ugh.

    GTKY: What do you do for you time? Exercise, drink mimosas on the weekends, and play with DS. :)
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    BFP #1 3/17/11 - DS born 12/4/11
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    BFP #2 - 3/23/14 - CP 3/26/14
    BFP #3 - 8/20/14 - Natural Miscarriage 9/22/14
    BFP #4 - 1/28/15 - DS2 born 10/13/15
    Surprise BFP# 5 - 9/2/16 - Due 5/13/17

  • Hope you ladies don't mind if I join this thread. I feel like there have been many intros TFAS! Age of LO(s): 16 months How long trying for a sibling (TFAS): this is our first cycle NTNP Rants/raves/chart stalks: I'm just excited that my cycle finally seems back to normal after having my mire a out a few month ago. GTKY: What do you do for you time? spend time my DH and DD, I run/ exercise, and crafty stuff
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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