Me: 22, RN
DH: 30, Corrections officer
Wedding Date: 9/06/14
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Re: Jealous and immature rant ahead...
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
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Me: 22, RN
DH: 30, Corrections officer
Wedding Date: 9/06/14
BFP: 9/15/14 !!
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Told you it was childish!! Lol
Me: 22, RN
DH: 30, Corrections officer
Wedding Date: 9/06/14
BFP: 9/15/14 !!
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... and you're having a hissy fit because someone got pregnant before you chose to start TTC, because you chose to have a wedding before TTC?
I really, truly don't understand your reaction and it doesn't sound like anything more than an immature bridezilla moment. Sorry, can't relate or empathize here.
I realized that it was childish and stupid for me to feel that way. I can't really help the way I felt when she told me. I was very supportive despite that.
Reading my post back, I can see how it appears that I believe that the whole world revolves around me. That's not the case and I am actually very upset that I came off that way.
I feel like I've ruined this experience of being a part of this TTC community with only my second post, and I'm sorry for that. I know you ladies are a tight knit community.
I'll stop now.. Sorry again and thanks.
Me: 22, RN
DH: 30, Corrections officer
Wedding Date: 9/06/14
BFP: 9/15/14 !!
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Are you trying to make me feel like an even bigger dumbass? I posted above that I was sorry and realize how ridiculous it was that I even posted this. I am actually a nice, caring person who really wants to be a part of this group.
Me: 22, RN
DH: 30, Corrections officer
Wedding Date: 9/06/14
BFP: 9/15/14 !!
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Well since you already know how childish and bridezillaish this post came across I hope you learned something from the responses given.
With that said I don't think you need to vanish from the board just think before you post..
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
But, Bridezilla or not, I'd be pissed if a bridesmaid mentioned taking my spotlight on my wedding day. That just doesnt need to be said. She'll be three months along, it's not her fucking baby shower, why should she be expecting/mentioning a spotlight at all? Is she going to write her announcement into her speech or something? There's something creepy about the comment, it's not a big deal to have a pregnant bridesmaid, even one who's 7 or 8 months, but it is a big deal if you have a bridesmaid that's considering your wedding as her personal announcement venue. That would be my only concern and you might want to discuss it with her beforehand since three months is when people normally announce it. If anything, having a talk with her about how this is going to play-out will put your own mind at ease and maybe the comment was just her own fear of hurting you and you're reading too much into it.
TTC since March 2014
BFP#1 09/25/2014 EDD 6/4/2015
As you found out, this particular board is a spectacularly bad venue to discuss something like this. I'm glad your response was to reflect on the answers you've gotten instead of telling everyone off. It shows you're not an asshole. Buy your friend a nice baby gift and continue to be a supportive friend.
...Or maybe OP has acted like a crazy person in the past and gave the friend reason to believe that OP would think having a pregnant person in her wedding would "steal her spotlight."
I can't jump on board this...I get wishing you were TTC and wishing it were you being pregnant but...no.
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Me: 31 DH: 29
DX (me): Inborn error of metabolism - protein restriction, metabolic formula & weekly blood tests
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7/3: Metabolic clinic gave the green light to TTC - holy crap!
TTC since March 2014
BFP#1 09/25/2014 EDD 6/4/2015