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Frustrated and need to vent!

First I want to thank this board for all the information and encouragement you provide. Any time I come to this board with a concern, someone else has already asked the same question! It's nice to have this resource and know that I'm not alone. That being said, here's my rant: (sorry it got long!)

BFing has been going well by most standards since DD was born (now 7.5 weeks). I've been EBF and pumping a bottle for DH to feed her once a day. But she's had a big problem with gas, spitting up, WAY too many poop diapers, and a rash that seems to indicate a lactose issue. So I've been working with an LC since she was 5 weeks. I love her! We discovered her lip and tongue tie, which we've had corrected. I also have OALD and OS issues that we think are causing the other symptoms. I've stopped pumping in the morning and put my stash collection on hold to try to regulate my supply on DD'S actual demand. I also did 3 days of cabbage leaf compresses to help with this. Today was the last day, the LC told me to stop. I did notice a slight difference, however she did still gulp at the breast this afternoon. Tonight I changed her diaper and she had green mucus in her stool. Up till now it's been yellow and seedy.

I know this is a process, and identifying these issues is half the battle. Im just frustrated that I'm not seeing better results despite everything we've done these last few weeks. I really don't think this is a MSPI issue, neither does the LC. But we go back to the pediatrician in 2 weeks and I'm afraid he's going to tell me to cut dairy. I just want to get this resolved before then, for my and DD's sake. I have a message out to the LC letting her know about the green poop and asking for her insight and advice on what the next step is.

Has anyone else gone through this and have a success story or words of encouragement? Thanks for letting me vent!

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Re: Frustrated and need to vent!

  • jenn43jenn43 member
    Did your LC say anything about block feeding to correct oversupply?
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  • flclflcl member
    Not sure if I'm reading your post right but have you been dealing with OALD and OS for 2.5 weeks?  That's rough.  I had both issues with LO when he was about a month old.  I tried block feeding alone for a few days and that didn't make too much of a difference for me.  I ended up pumping both sides until empty first thing in the morning (and only then) and the block fed for the rest of the day (2 sessions on one side, then 2 on the other.)  I did this for 2 days and things were almost 100% fixed by the end of the 2nd day.  The 3rd day, I just block fed, no pump.  I stopped block feeding on the 4th day but only fed from one side during each feed.  Day 5, I would offer both sides.  I waited a few more days before adding a pumping session in to build stash.  GL... hope things get better for you soon!
  • Green poop is from lactose overload due to your oversupply.

    You definitely need to try and block feed. At least two sessions on one side. Just hold a bottle up to your other side so you can catch the natural let down, because you'll probably leak like crazy!

    I had this issue with both kids. When I stopped pumping and started block feeding her sleep, gas, poop, everything got so much better.
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  • Thanks ladies, I will try block feeding for a few days since the cabbage didn't seem to help. I do notice that by late afternoon I seem to be less full and DD handles the flow much better.

    @flcl when you pump in the morning, is that after you feed LO? Or do you pump and give a bottle? I've been waking up engorged for about a week and I try to feed her from the less engorged side and then pump the other just enough to feel relief. But neither her eating or the pump is enough to empty me out. However, even after a week of doing this my body hasn't gotten the message to make less. I ask because everything I've been told and read says that pumping will just keep telling my body to produce. Although I guess if it's going to do it anyway, then what's the harm, right?
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    @lunabug924: Yep, I read the same thing too about pumping and OS.  I stayed away from the pump the majority of the time I was engorged and when I tried block feeding alone.  The problem just wasn't improving and my poor LO would cry, scream, choke... it was so hard to see that every time I had to feed him.  So, I tried the method I described to you earlier.  I would wake up an hour before LO so I could pump first and then I would block feed him the rest of the day.  I believe I found this strategy on the LLL site.  GL... OALD and OS are no fun to deal with!
  • Thanks again ladies! I pumped both sides this morning like you suggested @flcl and got 11oz!!!! That is NOT ok. But it felt soooo good to be empty. I am going to start block feeding today as well and give it a few days. 

    I did run this plan by my LC and she supports it since nothing else has seemed to help so far. I hope we can get this under control soon! 
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