Ok ladies, I need your help! My man and I are celebrating our 4 year wedding anniversary tomorrow, but also 11 years together in all. And I hate to say it, but we've lost our mojo! Since baby arrived last year, we've had maybe a total of 3-4 nights alone together. And our sex life is less than stellar
Tomorrow our plan includes dinner with E and just spending the day together as a family. But Friday we have an overnight sitter! Woop woop! As of right now, the plan for Friday includes dinner and drinks alone, and then meeting up with friends for a surprise birthday party. So here's where I need your help.... Any ideas to take this date night up a notch? I've already started sending him texts and emails while he's at work, telling him how excited I am for our night together. I just don't want to be a fuddy dud and fall asleep at midnight!
Do some things to make yourself feel good. Get your nails done, spray tan ( @pinottoparenthood has a good recommendation for you), get your hair blown out, new outfit etc The sexier you feel, the more likely you are to get into the evening and sexy time. Plus, your H will see your confidence radiating and it will turn him on too.
HOtel, champagne (but not too much!), stuff to make YOU Feel confident and sexy (hair, makeup, spray tan), and stuff for HIM (lingerie, brazillian bikini wax. ;-)
(But if you get a wax, do it 2 days before so you can have a day to heal in case you are sore).
Haha! Glad you asked! Thanks for all the great ideas ladies! Well I didn't splurge on a hotel room, but I did do a few things to make myself feel more confident and sexy! Got myself a pedi and bikini wax (happy anniversary to me!) and decided to spruce up our own bedroom for our sexy time. I also picked up a new lacy black thong for tonight and a grey lace and silk teddy for tomorrow night! I told him to prepare for a double feature! Two nights in a row will be out of the ordinary for us, so hopefully the excitement will start tonight and continue into Saturday! Thanks again for the ideas ladies, now if you don't mind, I will be in my bedroom for the next 48 hours! ">
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The sexier you feel, the more likely you are to get into the evening and sexy time. Plus, your H will see your confidence radiating and it will turn him on too.