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Newbie with a Question

Hi All,

I am new to the discussion boards. Don't know where to start...
DH and I have been married and TTC for about 16 months now with no luck :(
In May of 2014 I unfortunately was diagnosed with PCOS by my OBGYN. I am now on my second round of daily Metformin and Clomid (first round - BFN). I am not seeing an RE, but am being monitored by my OBGYN with blood work and ultra sounds. I have been overweight for about 3 years now and have been trying to eat healthy and work out for the past year (obviously didn't loose any weight before I was diagnosed and began treatment for PCOS). I guess my main concern is that I have been reading that exercising too much can stress the body out and cause more fertility problems but I know I need to to loose the weight to increase my chances of getting pregnant. It's like a catch 22. Any thoughts or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
We have not tested DH for any infertility problems yet, but have decided that if this round of Metformin + Clomid does not work we will be getting him tested. 

Thanks girls!  
Me: 26 (PCOS - Diagnosed May 2014) DH: 30 (Normal - In the process of testing)
Married: 03.16.13
TTC Since: April 2013
Treatment: Daily Metformin + Clomid Days 5-9 each Cycle
May 2014 - June 2014: 50 mg Clomid + timed BD = BFN
June 2014 - July 2014: 50 mg Clomid + timed BD = BFN - progesterone test 1.6
July 2014 - August 2014: 100 mg Clomid + timed BD = CANCELLED due to bleeding on day 14
August 2014 - September 2014: Unfortunately not medicating as we are waiting to see an RE in September!!!

17 People Who Are Having A Worse Day Than You (18 GIFs)


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    Welcome! I am a bit of broken record with this suggestion, but I whole-heartedly recommend removing wheat from your diet. In the past 7 months, I'm down 40 pounds despite 2 clomid IUIs and 1 IVF. My husband is down 65 pounds. There is a book called Wheat Belly and a very informative FB page. Good luck!
    Me: 34 | He: 40
    TTC since 08/2012
    DX: DOR




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    Welcome to the board! These ladies provided excellent advice. Best of luck!
        BFP: 2/24/14 | EDD: 10/22/14 (triplets) 
    US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)

    US (with RE) 4/7/14 No Heartbeats :(  | D&C 4/8/14
    BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta  #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
    DX: MTHFR hetero C677T


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    edited June 2014
    Thanks for all the suggestions! I will definitely check out Wheat Belly RonniesGirl1981. 
    I have not had a HSG yet. OBGYN has not recommended I get one. I have a pretty textbook case of PCOS, every symptom you can have (minus the diabetes) I have; oily skin, acne, high levels of testosterone, 12-16 cysts in each ovary, positive blood work, overweight with difficulties loosing the weight, etc...
    OBGYN will be referring me to a RE after 4-6 rounds of failed Metformin + Clomid. Next time I see him I will ask about a HSG.
    Me: 26 (PCOS - Diagnosed May 2014) DH: 30 (Normal - In the process of testing)
    Married: 03.16.13
    TTC Since: April 2013
    Treatment: Daily Metformin + Clomid Days 5-9 each Cycle
    May 2014 - June 2014: 50 mg Clomid + timed BD = BFN
    June 2014 - July 2014: 50 mg Clomid + timed BD = BFN - progesterone test 1.6
    July 2014 - August 2014: 100 mg Clomid + timed BD = CANCELLED due to bleeding on day 14
    August 2014 - September 2014: Unfortunately not medicating as we are waiting to see an RE in September!!!

    17 People Who Are Having A Worse Day Than You (18 GIFs)


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    Hi!  I don't have any advice, but just wanted to welcome you to the board.  Good luck.
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    No advice, but welcome and good luck

    Official diagnosis: Unexplained IF. I am 32. I have low ovarian reserve (low AMH), and poor egg quality. I've also been diagnosed with mild glandular developmental arrest (lining problems, detected with EFT).

    We are using open ID donor sperm. IUIs #1-7=BFN. IVF September 2014 antagonist protocol, 8R,5M,3F, 5 day transfer of 1 morula = BFN. IVF#2 planned for January 2015 (antagonist protocol + HGH).

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    As long as you don't suddenly change your activity level and listen to your body, I think exercise is good. That means if you are increasing your activity level, do it gradually. If you already exercise a lot, listen to your body if it tells you it's too much. I know that's not as satisfying as a cut-and-dry answer, but I've found it is the best guideline.


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    Me: 29; DH: 53
    TTC since February 2013 --- mild thin PCOS (or not, depending on which RE you ask), MFI

    TI#1: BFN (April 2014; Clomid 50mg x5 days, Estrace x5 days, Clomid 50 mg x4 days)
    IUI#1: c/p (May 2014; Letrozole 2.5 mg x5 days, Estrace x5 days, Bravelle 75 IU x10 days)
    IUI#2: abandoned... O'd early & DH hormone issues (June 2014; Letrozole 2.5 mg x5 days, Bravelle 75 IU x2 days)
    IUI#2.1: BFN (July 2014; Letrozole 2.5 mg x5 days, Bravelle 75 IU x4 days)

    Moving on to IVF. (Why we're moving on to IVF)

    IVF#1 (w/ICSI): BCP 9/9-9/23. Gonal-F, Ganirelix, Low-dose HCG (antagonist protocol). 41R/35M/32F... 2 transferred on 10/14, 14 frosties! On cabergoline to help avoid OHSS. BFN, possibly because of 90% drop in estrogen and progesterone a few days after ET.
    FET#1: Transferring 2 on January 8. BFP! beta#1 (1/17): 408, beta#2 (1/20): 1310, first u/s scheduled 2/5

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    Welcome! I'm sorry you find yourself here, though. I'm glad you are getting monitoring on Clomid for your safety.

    Like PPs said, an RE is a far better bet. With an HSG, SA, and the best interpretation of the many hormones involved (on your side and YH's side), an RE can give every cycle the best possible chances for you, since they are so invasive and expensive.

    Around 5-10% of women have PCOS, so it's pretty common, and it's very possible that it is not the only factor involved. It's frustrating to see how many women on the board had OB's just take a "good enough" approach and put their patients through a lot for nothing. For example, if YH has even mild male factor (like mine - and as PP said, it's quite common!), your chances with TI are about 3% per cycle, but with IUI concentrating the sperm and getting it to the uterus, it could be 20%+ per cycle.

    The thing is that some women with PCOS do get pregnant after trying a while, so the ones who don't are more likely to have a partner with MFI.

    Either way, I am glad you have monitoring! Good luck. :)

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    Me (29), DH (30) TTC actively 54 55+ cycles | All BFNs
    MFI (low everything) | Endo Stage 1 & Stenotic Cervix (treated) | PCO
    Married - July 2008 | Started TTC - Jan 2009RE Visit #1 - Mar 2014 
    IUI #1 ICI #1 - June | IUI #1.1 Laparoscopy - Aug
    IUIs #1.2, 2, 3 - Sept, Oct, Nov (Letrozole) - BFNs 
    IUI #4 - Dec (Bravelle) | IUI #5 - Dec/Jan (Bravelle) - 5 follies + TI - BFNs
    IUI #5.1 - Jan (Bravelle) Cancelled 
    Planning to start IVF in March!
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    Thanks for all the suggestions! I will definitely check out Wheat Belly RonniesGirl1981. 
    I have not had a HSG yet. OBGYN has not recommended I get one. I have a pretty textbook case of PCOS, every symptom you can have (minus the diabetes) I have; oily skin, acne, high levels of testosterone, 12-16 cysts in each ovary, positive blood work, overweight with difficulties loosing the weight, etc...
    OBGYN will be referring me to a RE after 4-6 rounds of failed Metformin + Clomid. Next time I see him I will ask about a HSG.

    Hi and welcome! I'm sorry you have to be here though. I would recommend not waiting 4 cycles before going to an RE. Will your OB be doing monitoring on the clomid cycles? You should see an RE because they are specialists and would insist on an HSG and SA before starting treatment. Good luck!
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    Me: 26 DH: 27
    TTC #1 Since Aug. 2013
    Cycle 1: O CD 25=bfn
    Cycle 2: O CD 48=bfn
    Cycle 3: Anovulatory/Provera =120 days!
    Cycle 4: Anovulatory/Prometrium=127 days! RE consult 6/16
    Me: Anov/poss. pcos?  HSG=normal/SA= Normal 
    July/Aug. 2014= Femara+trigger+TI=BFP!!
    Beta #1@ 16dpo=626!! Beta #2=1510
    Ultrasound @ 5w6d=heartbeat at 110!
    Ultrasound @ 6w6d =heartbeat at 131!


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    Hi and welcome! Ditto everything above about seeing an RE... obgyn's are not specialists in this. I have pcos, too, and she was able to explain to me what that meant for my overall health to stay healthy 30+ years from now and beyond! when your body isn't as able to absorb some of the hits it can deal with now. She recommended The Fertility Diet to me - it is based on research out of the Harvard Medical school. I thought it seemed helpful.
    Me (33), PCOS. Bloodwork normal, AMH slightly high, HSG clear 
    DH (40) SA good 
    Trying since 1/2012, RE 6/2014 
    Letrozole & TI June 2014-September 2014 -BFN
    October 2014 - IUI #1, lertozole - BFN
    November 2014 - IUI cancelled due to holiday, TI & Lertozole - BFN
    December 2014 - TI 
    January 2015 - IUI #2 - ?

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