Single Parents
20thirteen
member
Options
Oh, sweet, BD's mom *is* in town...
20thirteen
member
Clearly, that was sarcasm. Unfortunately, one of BD's mom's best friend's father died (RIP), so she and her husband flew in today to be here for the funeral. I extended my condolences, and then she asked if she could come over Friday. I said fine and told her that I'm working until 5 so I wouldn't be home until 5:30 at the earliest. And that was a problem because BD's bro is their ride to the wake which is way way far away so she asked to swing by tomorrow. Fun.
BF and I had a convo earlier today about her, I just got a picture book in the mail and after the week I had, the contents kinda of irritated me. The pics of my parents have parts of their faces or heads cut off (while BD's parents are unscathed), some pics that have me included are either the worst pics ever or have parts of my head/face cut off. Any other day I don't think that would offend me, but she did not include *any* pics with DD and BF. not a single one. She has one, and I have several accessible on my Facebook. BF said he didn't care, that he doesn't want her having any pics of him but that just gets under my skin because she will sometimes tell me about how her son is a great father and how he'd do *anything* for DD. Odd. Because he hasn't tried to see her since March, hasn't contacted me since April, aside from asking permission to buy a bond. So, currently, I'm takin care of a toddler who has a double ear infection after having pink eye. Who, by the way, fights/struggles/screams/cries every time I come near her with medicine. I've tried mixing it with food/milk, I've tried giving it to her straight, we went to the doc to get a different medicine and she still won't take it. Where is BD and his great fatherlyness? How is he helping this situation? What is he doing for DD right at this moment? That is a question we can't answer, but we can only guess he's drunk at a bar. Class act, BD, I'm glad he's here for her. ~_~
Anyway, since BD's bro is her ride, I'm probably going to have to see his butthurt self tomorrow too. Makes me wonder if it'll be a family affair with BD trying to weasel his way into the visit. You know, because I'm keeping him from seeing her and all.
And I just want to say, thank god BF is as understanding and supportive as he is... He's always been able to be around when they come over and it is such a relief that, when it's all over, he's there. He's a wonderful dad and such a great person to put up with all of this.
Ugh, I'm already panicking about tomorrow...
BF and I had a convo earlier today about her, I just got a picture book in the mail and after the week I had, the contents kinda of irritated me. The pics of my parents have parts of their faces or heads cut off (while BD's parents are unscathed), some pics that have me included are either the worst pics ever or have parts of my head/face cut off. Any other day I don't think that would offend me, but she did not include *any* pics with DD and BF. not a single one. She has one, and I have several accessible on my Facebook. BF said he didn't care, that he doesn't want her having any pics of him but that just gets under my skin because she will sometimes tell me about how her son is a great father and how he'd do *anything* for DD. Odd. Because he hasn't tried to see her since March, hasn't contacted me since April, aside from asking permission to buy a bond. So, currently, I'm takin care of a toddler who has a double ear infection after having pink eye. Who, by the way, fights/struggles/screams/cries every time I come near her with medicine. I've tried mixing it with food/milk, I've tried giving it to her straight, we went to the doc to get a different medicine and she still won't take it. Where is BD and his great fatherlyness? How is he helping this situation? What is he doing for DD right at this moment? That is a question we can't answer, but we can only guess he's drunk at a bar. Class act, BD, I'm glad he's here for her. ~_~
Anyway, since BD's bro is her ride, I'm probably going to have to see his butthurt self tomorrow too. Makes me wonder if it'll be a family affair with BD trying to weasel his way into the visit. You know, because I'm keeping him from seeing her and all.
And I just want to say, thank god BF is as understanding and supportive as he is... He's always been able to be around when they come over and it is such a relief that, when it's all over, he's there. He's a wonderful dad and such a great person to put up with all of this.
Ugh, I'm already panicking about tomorrow...
This discussion has been closed.
Re: Oh, sweet, BD's mom *is* in town...
Well at leaat he sees her whenever possible and gives her hugs and kisses... oh darn he doesnt do that either.
Hope this meet up isnt to aweful. And for the record thats really effed up about thw picture book
And dont forget to do this
And dont forget this about bds mom
Throwing leaves
Throwing leaves
As for dehydration, maybe just syringe the pedialyte. Do not give Gatorade, they are too little to handle the electrolytes. That's what my pedi said.
Oh and give Tylenol or Advil for the pain like clock work.
Good luck!!