I have my 6 week PP appt next Thursday and I am thinking about getting an IUD but I have some questions that I feel like only women who have/had them can answer and not my male OB:
What do you like about an IUD? What do you NOT like?
How is bleeding/AF with it?
Did it hurt to have it inserted?
TIA for any insight you have!

BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
Re: IUD users come in
I liked the freedom and it was low maintenance. I was crampy for a few days after insertion and bled a bit, but not bad. I never had AF while on it. I don't know about insertion bc mine was placed during surgery.
I'm debating getting it placed again.
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
I haven't had much spotting with mine, and when I get a period it's basically brown discharge for a day or two. Nothing a panty liner can't handle.
I can't feel mine at all. I've had 2 CS, so my insertion did hurt, but it was a pretty quick procedure.
I had Paragard after DS was born. I loved that it was hormone free and that I didn't have to think about birth control as long as it was in, but I hated everything else about it. For some reason it just wasn't compatible with my body.
AF was a nightmare for me on Paragard. Intensely painful cramps, extremely heavy bleeding (worse than postpartum) for up to 10 days at a time, random midcycle pain, etc. It was truly awful.
However, I know several women who absolutely loved their Paragard and had no issues at all. One friend even said she had less cramping and lighter periods.
Even though I hated Paragard, I still like the idea of an IUD better than any other BC method. I'm getting Mirena next Monday. Fingers crossed that it works out better for me.
ETA: Having Paragard inserted was no more uncomfortable to me than a pap smear. I had 4 weeks of fairly heavy adjustment bleeding from it, but no insertion pain or cramping from the placement itself. Also my OB has patients take Cytotec orally the night before IUD placement.
DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in
What do you like about an IUD? I liked that it was a non-hormonal solution and that I didn't have to remember to take a pill daily. What do you NOT like? I thought I could feel it poking me internally for a few months afterwards. It didn't hurt, but felt uncomfortable. My acne got worse when I went off the pill.
How is bleeding/AF with it? Much heavier than while on BC pills. (again, I was using the non-hormonal IUD). Cramps were worse as well.
Did it hurt to have it inserted? A bit, but nothing too bad. I was pretty crampy the first several days after insertion.
1st BFP-8/17/12! Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US. D&C.
2nd BFP-2/13/13! Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
3rd BFP-5/22/13! By early June, progesterone plummeting. Another loss.
August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
Dear Son born 5/28/14
DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in
LCT - 5.15.14 ~ 9lbs, 22.5 inches
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14