Since We're going "there" with a bunch of other posts, might as well start this one while we're at it.
Who's had one, Who's hoping for one?
I'm a candidate assuming this baby doesn't go breech like DD, and since I progressed to 6cm in all of 40 minutes last time (although in pre-term labor), I am hoping this one will move just as quickly since my OB requires a med-free VBAC. She did however say, I can always ask for a c-section at any point if I feel it's necessary. Would love to hear other experiences!
Re: VBAC?
Waited a long time, tried a lot of stuff, science made me a mom.
Bringing them both home...UPDATE...The girls are home!!! 1/7/15 after 20 days in the NICU!
My previous ob, like many in America was paranoid about law suits and keen on surgery (perhaps for the money). But the reality is that the maternal mortality rate is 3 times higher for repeat cs than vbac. I would only do it if absolutely necessary!
I'm excited! I didn't have a bad experience with my CS and I won't be devastated if I can't. I just would like to try if I can.
BFP #5: 6/15/21 CP 6/21/21
BFP #3: 6/4/20 MC Blighted Ovum D&C 7/9/20
I am trying not to think about it, but I do worry sometimes. I would theoretically love to do a vbac, and we switched from my scalpel-happy OB to a midwife group with an 85% vbac success rate for that reason. I do worry a lot about the actual logistics of it, though. We don't have a lot of close friends in the area that could watch DD at a minute's notice, so that is tough. I also worry about complications. I know that there are some scary C-section statistics, but we live in a great area with amazing hospitals, so I feel like those nationwide statistics are more doom and gloom than what happens in my actual hospital. Obviously there are risks either way, it just seems like C-sections have more doctor-controlled risks than nature-controlled risks.
So, I don't know. I almost pray it's taken out of my hands with a fast labor or a breech baby :-/ My first C-section was horrific, and I've thought about talking to a counselor about the whole thing because I still cry whenever I talk about it.
This is my worry. My friend who delivered vaginally 5 weeks before I had my CS was still having issues when I had mine and I was healed and good to go within 2 weeks! I really had no issues with my CS. I just (think) I would like to have the experience.
BFP #5: 6/15/21 CP 6/21/21
BFP #3: 6/4/20 MC Blighted Ovum D&C 7/9/20
Love hearing everything you ladies are saying regarding this subject.
Dx: MFI- 3% morph
IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.