TTC After a Loss

Ladies In Waiting

*~*~*Ladies In Waiting*~*~*          ((BFP Warning below the Question of the Week))
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Welcome to Ladies In Waiting. This is a group designed for all the ladies in the various stages of waiting after a loss: waiting to miscarry, waiting for AF to arrive, waiting to TTC again, and waiting for a BFP. Since this process is such a true test in patience, it is nice to have the support and friendship of other women going through similar experiences and emotions. 

-Check in is every Thursday - New members: Post an intro and your current TTC status. - Current members: Post updates, link to your chart, upcoming appointments, prayer requests. - Weekly check-in's will include an inspirational quote or verse and a question of the day (QOTD).

Please do not worry if your name is not on the check in, I only put those that participated in the previous check in. Please make sure that if you get a BFP to PM me. I try to check PGAL, but sometimes I may miss it. 

I look forward to getting to know you! 

Love, Megrae12 
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@BookishMomma I am sorry about your betas, how is editing your new book going? 
@BackstreetPixie Still on target for bench burning in July?
@DenaMaree I am sorry about your betas, any sign of AF?
@shandorfml2 Your chart looks good! FX you confirm O soon! How are you?
@ashtog Any sign of AF? How are you feeling?

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Question of the Week: What is your favorite summer dish? 

BFP warning below:




Congrats to @racegurl87 on her BFP! Wishing you all the best on PGAL!! 
Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much
All Welcome


Re: Ladies In Waiting

  • ashtog said:
    @megrae12 thank you for the check in! how are you holding up this week??

    AFM I have been taken off the bench. all looks well and they told us to just go for it, so still waiting for AF or now to O, no clue what is going on.. I was in the hospital for several days to do gallbladder attacks and had forgotten to temp so there are a few large blank spots, but we are bd'ing and I'm taking OPK's just waiting waiting waiting... the dr agreed to let me keep ttc if I stay on a strict low fat diet to keep the stones at bay, so grilled ck breasts and salad it is!

    QOTW: I love bbq ck with backs attached, corn on the cob and cucumber salad.. mmmmm although I can't eat any of it
    I am ok, still crazy stressed, but somewhat better now that my AC is getting fixed! Yay for TTC!! That is awesome!! I am sorry about the diet, but look at it this way, it can some unintentional weight loss ;) 
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much
    All Welcome


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  • @ashtog GL to you as you burn the bench! I have to say, I think you are so incredibly brave and strong. I had my D&C on the same day your DS was delivered. I'm so happy for you that you're able to try again and I really hope you are successful sooner rather than later!

    @megrae12 Yay for getting your A/C fixed! I imagine it is hot hot hot where you live.

    As for me... work on the book is going pretty well. I've made some good progress the last couple of days. I've got more than half of it edited. I should be in OK shape for my Aug. 15 deadline for turning it in. Of course, it always takes me longer than I think it will! 

    QOTW: My favorite summer dish is anything to do with fresh tomatoes when they are at their peak in late summer. Seriously, I could gobble down gallons of super ripe, colorful tomatoes of all colors, drizzled with good olive oil, salt and pepper. Mmmmm.
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    DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser
    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
    In search of a image


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    @megrae12 Yay for getting your A/C fixed! I imagine it is hot hot hot where you live.

    As for me... work on the book is going pretty well. I've made some good progress the last couple of days. I've got more than half of it edited. I should be in OK shape for my Aug. 15 deadline for turning it in. Of course, it always takes me longer than I think it will! 

    QOTW: My favorite summer dish is anything to do with fresh tomatoes when they are at their peak in late summer. Seriously, I could gobble down gallons of super ripe, colorful tomatoes of all colors, drizzled with good olive oil, salt and pepper. Mmmmm.
    It is very hot down here! I am so glad things are moving along so well on your book! I can only imagine what a labor of love that is. 
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much
    All Welcome


  • DenaMareeDenaMaree member
    edited June 2014
    @megrae12 I can not imagine going a day without air conditioning..ugh! So glad you were able to get it fixed quickly!
    @Ashtog, Yikes...I'm so glad to hear your feeling better!! Yey for the weight loss! Intentional or not, losing a few pounds always makes a person feel good! So hope you get your BFP soon!
    @BookishMomma, WooHoo for making your deadline! Keep up the great work!

    I'm on day three of the heaviest period of my life! The cramps have been killer! And yet I'm so happy to have my AF that I couldn't care less. Bring on the midol and heat pads ;) . I'm still benched through the next period (praying I continue to have them between 29 and 32 days) and we are a go to TTC with my ovulation in early Aug. My Hubby booked us at Planet Hollywood in Vegas august 7th to 10th and if my cycle and ovulation cooperate we get to hopefully begin the TTC while there!

    QOTW: I love grilling! My favorite this summer has been grilled salmon and asparagus.
        BFP: 2/24/14 | EDD: 10/22/14 (triplets) 
    US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)

    US (with RE) 4/7/14 No Heartbeats :(  | D&C 4/8/14
    BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta  #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
    DX: MTHFR hetero C677T


  • @DenaMaree I can't remember, is this the first period after your D&C? If so, I'm not surprised that it has been heavy, given your circumstances.
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    DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser
    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
    In search of a image


  • Yes, BookishMomma! It arrived eleven weeks to the day post D&C. I was pre-warned by many great friends on here that I could expect my first AF to come with a vengeance and they weren't kidding ;) .
        BFP: 2/24/14 | EDD: 10/22/14 (triplets) 
    US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)

    US (with RE) 4/7/14 No Heartbeats :(  | D&C 4/8/14
    BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta  #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
    DX: MTHFR hetero C677T


  • DenaMaree said:
    @megrae12 I can not imagine going a day without air conditioning..ugh! So glad you were able to get it fixed quickly!
    @Ashtog, Yikes...I'm so glad to hear your feeling better!! Yey for the weight loss! Intentional or not, losing a few pounds always makes a person feel good! So hope you get your BFP soon!
    @BookishMomma, WooHoo for making your deadline! Keep up the great work!

    I'm on day three of the heaviest period of my life! The cramps have been killer! And yet I'm so happy to have my AF that I couldn't care less. Bring on the midol and heat pads ;) . I'm still benched through the next period (praying I continue to have them between 29 and 32 days) and we are a go to TTC with my ovulation in early Aug. My Hubby booked us at Planet Hollywood in Vegas august 7th to 10th and if my cycle and ovulation cooperate we get to hopefully begin the TTC while there!

    QOTW: I love grilling! My favorite this summer has been grilled salmon and asparagus.
    Yes! I am so glad AF is here!! I hate that she is being particularly crappy. Just one more cycle and it's bench burning time!! ((Hugs)) sweetie, hope those cramps ease up soon. 
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much
    All Welcome


  • Hey all! Bff and her hubby are here visiting woo!   

    Yes Still on target so far to start tcc july 1! woo hope it stays that way. 

    Question of the Week: What is your favorite summer dish?   Does a snow cone count as a dish? lol
    -Megan


    Started dating Hubby May 17 2005. Married since Aug 20 2011 
    Me:30   Hubby:31
    TTC since May 2012 
    HSG Dec 2012 Fill no spill on left side, right side normal (most physically painful experience of my life..)
    Metformin Started May 2013
    PG#1: BFP 10-21-13. EDD 6-17-14 mmc 12-9-13 m/c occurred with cytotec on 12-11-13 
    PG#2: BFP 07-25-14.  EDD 4-5-15   *Hoping this is my rainbow*
    Diagnosed with PCOS, Hypothyroid,IBD/UC, (UC in remission as of July 2014)
    *I will always love you Fetey the first.* 
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    ALL WELCOME!



  • Ugh still waiting for my pos opk. Hopefully tonight with o tomorrow. I feel ive been gearing up for like 4 days

    Qotw: hmm. Bbq....smores!

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        My Blog

    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
      

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP# 1 7/7/12 Beautiful DD born still at 36 weeks 5 days on 3/2/13
    Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013

    BFP # 2 8/7/14 EDD 4/22/15
    Please be our rainbow!!

    **All AL Welcome**

  • Yay @ashtog‌ for being off the bench!

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        My Blog

    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
      

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP# 1 7/7/12 Beautiful DD born still at 36 weeks 5 days on 3/2/13
    Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013

    BFP # 2 8/7/14 EDD 4/22/15
    Please be our rainbow!!

    **All AL Welcome**

  • Hey all! Bff and her hubby are here visiting woo!   

    Yes Still on target so far to start tcc july 1! woo hope it stays that way. 

    Question of the Week: What is your favorite summer dish?   Does a snow cone count as a dish? lol
    Yay for friends visiting!! So glad you are still on target for TTC!! I love snow cones!! I havent had one in ages. 
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
    imageimage
    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much
    All Welcome


  • Ugh still waiting for my pos opk. Hopefully tonight with o tomorrow. I feel ive been gearing up for like 4 days Qotw: hmm. Bbq....smores!
    Ugh! That is so frustrating! FX you get a +OPK soon. 
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
    imageimage
    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much
    All Welcome


  • ashtog said:
    @shandorfml2‌ fx for a pos opk soon! It's so frustrating not to know what our bodies are doing :( {{hugs}}
    thanks for the fx cause I just got my pos opk haha *high five!*

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic   image image

        My Blog

    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
      

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP# 1 7/7/12 Beautiful DD born still at 36 weeks 5 days on 3/2/13
    Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013

    BFP # 2 8/7/14 EDD 4/22/15
    Please be our rainbow!!

    **All AL Welcome**

  • @ashtog  They just left this morning... feeling kinda blue now.. all alone in the house with hubby at work and friends gone. ::sigh::
    -Megan


    Started dating Hubby May 17 2005. Married since Aug 20 2011 
    Me:30   Hubby:31
    TTC since May 2012 
    HSG Dec 2012 Fill no spill on left side, right side normal (most physically painful experience of my life..)
    Metformin Started May 2013
    PG#1: BFP 10-21-13. EDD 6-17-14 mmc 12-9-13 m/c occurred with cytotec on 12-11-13 
    PG#2: BFP 07-25-14.  EDD 4-5-15   *Hoping this is my rainbow*
    Diagnosed with PCOS, Hypothyroid,IBD/UC, (UC in remission as of July 2014)
    *I will always love you Fetey the first.* 
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    ALL WELCOME!



  • Hi everyone- first post on this check in, so as far as an intro goes- Surprise BFP 5/16/14, light brown spotting 6/16/14, first OB appt 6/24 (9w1d by Ovulation date), no heartbeat and baby measuring 8w. Had confirmation US the next day. D&C today 6/27/14. So for now I'm going to be in the waiting for AF category. Dr said we can TTC after 1 cycle. Thank you so much. Looking forward to getting to know everyone.
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    DS1 born 4/17/11
    DS2 born 2/22/13
    MMC 5/16/14@8w2d
    DD due 5/9/15 Please be our
    RAINBOW


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  • mpiemont said:
    Hi everyone- first post on this check in, so as far as an intro goes- Surprise BFP 5/16/14, light brown spotting 6/16/14, first OB appt 6/24 (9w1d by Ovulation date), no heartbeat and baby measuring 8w. Had confirmation US the next day. D&C today 6/27/14. So for now I'm going to be in the waiting for AF category. Dr said we can TTC after 1 cycle. Thank you so much. Looking forward to getting to know everyone.
    I am so sorry for your loss. Make sure you intro on the main board so that all the ladies can get to know you. Lots of ((Hugs)) sweetie and I hope your recovery is easy. Take some time to grieve and rest, ok?
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much
    All Welcome


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