June 2013 Moms

Well it happened

My hubby just got word from his Chief that he is deploying again come August. My hubby is going to miss yet another birth. I'm in shock that once again this has happened. I'm now terrified to have 2 under 2 all by myself for a few months until he gets home. Any spare T's&P's y'all have would be greatly appreciated. This was def not the news I wanted to find out in the middle of our vacation.

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DD1 5/16/2006 8lbs 3oz 21" (2 days late, 36.5 hour labor)
M/C 12/08/09 6w5d
DS1 6/27/2013 7lbs 9oz 19.5" (1 day late, 17.5 hour labor)
M/C 12/18/13 6w1d Twins
BFP#5 4/6/13 EDD 12/16/2014




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  • That seriously sucks.  I'm so sorry.  You're a strong mama and you'll get through it!
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  • That sucks, no way around it.  Hugs to you and your family!
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  • That royally sucks.  I'm so sorry!
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  • So sorry, honey!  ((HUGS))
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  • I'm sorry!!


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  • oh man, this sucks :( I'm sorry 

    Is there *any* chance that he could leave early, and be home in time for the birth? 

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  • That sucks :( At least you know you can do it, since you did it once before!
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  • Ugh, I am so sorry to hear this. Hang in there momma!
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  • This seems so unfair, I'm so sorry. Hang in there you will get through it.
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  • So sorry. Sending prayers your way for strength
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  • Thank you ladies! Y'all were awesome support for me last time and knowing your here for support again this time is a great feeling.

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    DD1 5/16/2006 8lbs 3oz 21" (2 days late, 36.5 hour labor)
    M/C 12/08/09 6w5d
    DS1 6/27/2013 7lbs 9oz 19.5" (1 day late, 17.5 hour labor)
    M/C 12/18/13 6w1d Twins
    BFP#5 4/6/13 EDD 12/16/2014




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    edited June 2014
    Bummer:( I have the utmost respect for all of you military wives. It must be incredibly difficult going through a pregnancy and then birth alone without your spouse there. My friend's husband was deployed when age delivered and I know it was really hard for for her.
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  • Lurker chiming in! Just wanted to say I'm so sorry and I have so much respect for you. It takes a strong woman to be a military wife and mama!
  • ((Hugs)) will pray for y'all!
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  • I'm so sorry to hear that! I have so much respect for military wives and moms doing so much alone! Hopefully you have someone close by for support? You can do it!
  • So sorry to hear, vent away, I would probably be a mess. Hopefully you will have tons of support in the delivery room. Didn't you get to skype last time, can you do that again?
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  • I'm so sorry! Ugh! This really sucks :( lots of t&ps and hugs for you!
  • @RiansMommie -- any idea how long the deployment will be? Do you have family close by?

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  • I'm sorry :(





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  • Thanks again for all the support ladies.

    I'm gonna try to answer all the questions now that I have a moment to sit down.

    @Beary+Ghastly‌ unfortunately the Navy will not allow/pay for him to come home early.

    @fabumama‌ closest family is my MIL who is 8hr away, unfortunately she is very unreliable. With Jameson she was supposed to be in town a few days before he was born but she kept changing her plans and her last excuse was she didn't want to waste her time. She didn't leave her house until about an hour after she knew Jameson had arrived.

    @weddinginthecove‌ you are correct, we were able to skype last time and will hopefully be able to do it again.

    @CTGirl30‌ it is nice to have the time to get my support system in place, it's def tougher this time though because my sister is due with her first 8 days before me.

    @ChicagoChic82‌ I wish we could appeal it, but when he signs the contract to stay in the Navy means that the Navy is his number one priority over everything else. I knew what I was getting into when we got married but had no idea we would draw the short straw two times in a row.

    @AZMagnini14‌ the deployment will be for a full 6 months again, so he won't be home until Feb (baby will be somewhere between 6-8 weeks old). Closest family is my unreliable MIL, then my FIL and his wife are 16 hours away and all my family is on the west coast. Hoping to get my mom out here to watch my littles while I'm in the hospital but it's upsetting my sister because she is due with her first 8 days before me, she wants my mom there for her as well. It's an ugly situation to say the least.

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    DD1 5/16/2006 8lbs 3oz 21" (2 days late, 36.5 hour labor)
    M/C 12/08/09 6w5d
    DS1 6/27/2013 7lbs 9oz 19.5" (1 day late, 17.5 hour labor)
    M/C 12/18/13 6w1d Twins
    BFP#5 4/6/13 EDD 12/16/2014




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  • So sorry to hear that :(

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