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Poor little DD
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DD got pink eye and a double ear infection for her birthday. I can't get her to sleep anywhere but on me. 
But, as promised, I'm going to tell you guys about BD:
I got a text from him on DD's birthday, but not "tell her happy birthday" or "can I see her?"... He asked me if he could buy her a bond. I mean, he's supposedly a grown ass man (at least he claims to be), why does he need to ask my permission to buy her a bond? Also, why couldn't he just say "happy birthday"? I assume he knew that it was her birthday the day he texted me. I mean, a bond is a good idea, I told him that I couldn't stop him, but that it would be *his* responsibility, not mine, to find a safe place for any bond he purchases. I did not get another text after that.
His brother has got some major sand in the vagina because I didn't invite him to the party. Not because I said it was a "family party" and technically he's family but because the word "party" was in the label. He's so irritating. He told me a while ago that he didn't acknowledge DD as his niece but is now butthurt because I didn't invite him to her 1st birthday. What the fuck ever, dude. Anyway, that's a smidge of news, it's late, I finally got DD into her crib without her waking up to latch back onto me, so I'm going to go to bed! Hopefully I can get on a computer tomorrow and finish!
But, as promised, I'm going to tell you guys about BD:
I got a text from him on DD's birthday, but not "tell her happy birthday" or "can I see her?"... He asked me if he could buy her a bond. I mean, he's supposedly a grown ass man (at least he claims to be), why does he need to ask my permission to buy her a bond? Also, why couldn't he just say "happy birthday"? I assume he knew that it was her birthday the day he texted me. I mean, a bond is a good idea, I told him that I couldn't stop him, but that it would be *his* responsibility, not mine, to find a safe place for any bond he purchases. I did not get another text after that.
His brother has got some major sand in the vagina because I didn't invite him to the party. Not because I said it was a "family party" and technically he's family but because the word "party" was in the label. He's so irritating. He told me a while ago that he didn't acknowledge DD as his niece but is now butthurt because I didn't invite him to her 1st birthday. What the fuck ever, dude. Anyway, that's a smidge of news, it's late, I finally got DD into her crib without her waking up to latch back onto me, so I'm going to go to bed! Hopefully I can get on a computer tomorrow and finish!
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Re: Poor little DD
I feel your pain, though. BD's crazy rich aunt went around telling anyone who would listen that BD isn't DD's dad. I think I told y'all about that before. Anyway, I got in her shit and told her that was fine and she'd NEVER have to see DD EVER and told her not to ever buy her anything. She still sends DD cheap clothes now and then and told BD I was very disrespectful for not inviting her to DDs bday party or responding to her occasional rude card. Whatev.
Your bd is a piece of work
Throwing leaves
Throwing leaves
As for BD, bonds are really hard to get these days. You need social security numbers and lots of other info. Many people bought them for DS1 but then come DS2 it was just such a hassle he didn't get any at all.
He should have said happy birthday. That's the worst. And dealing with their families, sigh, just part or the territory I guess.