Bleeding, Frustration and worry. UPDATE

QueenOfSpades622 · June 2014

I have had more bleeding than I believe anyone should in pregnancy and most of the people in my life that have been pregnant haven't had any. I had a pretty significant bleed last night after a pretty "normal" sex session-by that I mean nothing to crazy. I had some spotting afterward on Monday but last night it was enough that it took 3 wads of tissue to clean up and it was on DH groin and abdomen. I have a call into my OB but am pretty sure it was just sex related as it has not continued and there was no cramping. I'm more frustrated that I may have to stop sex than anything-Once I know baby is ok of course. But, even though I believe it's sex related it still puts me back in the worry until I go in next week phase. UGH. My last significant bleed was at 10wks and it was nothing compared to this and have seemed to have off and on spotting with sex every couple weeks. I wonder if I could have possibly burst a blood vessel in my vagina, if that's even a thing. So over this bleeding and worry I just want a normal bloodless pregnancy. Sorry guys I just needed to vent and get my worry off my chest while I await my doctor response. Thanks for listening, is anyone else having bleeding still? UPDATE Doctor is only slightly concerned given my health and this has happened before with sex. I have an appointment next week already said just to keep that and no sex. Sex is only allowed once a week after so I don't cause to much harm to my cervix. That's the answer I was expecting and am ok waiting since the bleeding stopped and has been no cramping. Thank you everyone for all you kind words.

BrainCellSup · June 2014

I'm really sorry you're dealing with this. It does sound as though your cervix is just extra-tender--it will be good to have a definitive answer from your doctor about why this is happening so you can know what to expect and maybe avoid.

CandEChicago · June 2014

Oh no. Sorry to hear but glad that you have called your OB already.

hellopartyof5 · June 2014

No experience, but I can definitely see how that would be extremely frustrating and scary. I'm sorry you have to deal with this

Cryssteen · June 2014

I have also had more bleeding than anyone should every have to experience. It does sound like this is related to sex, but I totally get your worrying - and frustration. We weren't allowed to do it for weeeeeeeks. Good luck, keep us posted.

ninee88 · June 2014

I'm sorry you are dealing with that! It sounds frightening and frustrating for sure. I had some serious bleeding early on (before I was really on here) and it was very nerve wracking. Good luck and hopefully you'll have some answers soon!

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MeganK81410 · June 2014

I'm sorry you're going through this. It sounds like maybe your cervix is just extra vascular, so the blood vessels break a little easier

I'm glad you have a call in! Hopefully your OB can put your mind at ease!

sugarstar1784 · June 2014

I have an SCH, which started out as brown spotting after sex. I hope you can get an appointment and figure out what's going on! I've been bleeding daily for 11 weeks now.

rshamos · June 2014

Sending you T&P. hopefully all goes away. Let us know!

caden1206 · June 2014

I am sorry. FWIW, during my last pregnancy I had a little qtip swab that made me bleed like nobody's buisness. My doctor said it was normal bc of how vascular the cervix is. I hope everything is ok.

QueenOfSpades622 · June 2014

@twolittledogs‌ It was red Monday and bright red fresh last night. My last u/s was at ten weeks after I had this kind of bleeding before, albeit it was less. If my doctor hasn't responded by noon I will be calling again.

krystrist2014 · June 2014

I totally get your frustration! I have had everything from bright red to light light brown spotting in the last week. Its super frustrating and scary. Mine has been on and off - like yesterday I woke up and it was more rusty red blood than I had had in a few days and this morning it was practically non-existent, Thursday morning last week I woke up and it looked like I started my period (I thought for sure I was loosing my baby and turned into an emotional wreck - turns out baby bean is perfectly fine in there).

I unfortunately don't even get to blame my bleeding on sex because my SO is in AZ while Im here in VA and I will see him for the first time since he knocked me up tomorrow! Part of me is nervous to have sex when I see him... but so far I have just told him that he will have to be gentle to see how the first time goes.

Sigh. Sorry you have to go through this too! It is definitely scary to be constantly worrying about baby all the time, but try not to worry too much since baby also feels all your stress too. Take the reassurance from the doctor and think positive thoughts

>:D<