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Chelseai2010
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does anyone have experience with this in court?
Chelseai2010
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okay ill try to keep this short.. my ex and i have two kids, a almost 4 year old and a 10 month old. when the 10 month old was 2 months we split. that was in november. he moved out on february 1st. he wasn't around much. never helped with anything. he believed paying rent and buying groceries was his only job and he didnt need to change diapers or any of that stuff. and because i was breast feeding he hardly acknowledged the baby. fast forward to now i filed for custody and support. (he doesnt believe he needs to pay support because hes struggling ) he has a full time job and so does his girlfriend that hes living with. i dont have a job right now i couldn't find one but i will be starting full time school in september. he basically threatened me and lied through his whole "answer" to what i filed for. threatened that if i pursued my claim he will file for full custody and give me visitation and he wants the judge to impute an income because i can get a job im just not trying hard enough and he shouldnt have to support us because of that.
now i just found out from my 4 year old that his gf is pregnant. i asked him about it and he said it was true. i already know that his claim wont get him anything. and hes now sucking up to me because im not backing down with my custody and support claim. hes used to having control and now i have it. my question is. how will him having another baby affect me getting custody of the kids. and has anyone else gone through something similar?
sorry its so long..
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Re: does anyone have experience with this in court?
But like @tig594 said your on the right track, keep plugging along. And nope, him having another child will not affect the custody case.
The only reason i know there is a chamce with cs being smallet is because what bentley is supposed to be getting in cs is not alot because his bd makes minimum wage and has four kids with his ex