What do you do for a living? Do you like it or do you wish you were doing something else?
I am a Lead Multimedia Designer by day (fancy way of saying I am a web design/graphic design/social media expert/videographer/photographer geek), and then I also own my own design firm on the side. At this design firm, I am the Art Director who oversees a team of 7.
Now-- I love what I do, but I really really wish the day would come when I can quit my day job and JUST do the design firm. My day job is getting in the way of me finding better clients and even though it sounds fun, the products I deal with are boring and this company is very masculine and I often feel like the outcast.
One day...no more corporate America.
Re: NTTCR: Let's talk about careers
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
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Ahhh…I see. And a 3 hour drive? Forgetaboutit. Couldn’t do it.
Well—just see this as a temporary job fix for now. That is how I see my day job. Just a job to give me benefits, my bread and butter pay and to be here until my side company becomes a success. We just have to keep our heads up and our wine glasses full!
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TTC#1 since June 2012
Dx: Unexplained Infertility / AMA
BFP after 4th IUI cycle with Gonal F + Ovidrel on March 2014 | EDD 12/7/14 | MMC on 4/14/14
IUI#5 with Gonal F and Ovidrel trigger on 6/6 - BFN
On to IVF #1 with a new RE. Started Gonal F and Menopur on 8/15. Added Ganirelix on 8/24. Trigger on 8/26 for ER on 8/28. 8R 7M 3F. Transferred all 3 on 8/31. BFP on 9/11 | EDD 5/20/15 - Beta #1: 56.7. Beta #2: 97. Beta #3: 1148. Beta #4: 3559. Beta #4: 7678. MMC confirmed on 10/13. D&C on 10/14 at 9w. Confirmed male with Trisomy 14.
On to IVF #2 in March. CCS Testing on 2 embies. No go. Waiting to start IVF #3 in July. Surprise BFP on 6/14! EDD - 2/20/16 - Beta #1: 121.4. Beta #2: 236.4. Beta #3: 2014.
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I work for the District Attorney's Office as a victim advocate. Very trying, but very rewarding work (most of time.) It's especially hard when I have to work with young, molest victims.
I've been with the DA's office for 10 years now, but I've worked in every clerical position possible. I've been doing the victim advocacy for 3.5 years now.
A lot of times I wish I had become a hairdresser or a makeup artist since I love both of those things. Now I feel like I'm too old. Booooo!
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
Me: 43, DOR FI: 44, SA normal
TTC Since Nov 2013
01/2014: Meeting with RE to discuss options
02/2014: Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
03/2014: on the bench
05/2014: meeting with RE to discuss Donor IVF options
09/2014 - IVF#1 - converted to IUI - BFN
If god forbid anything ever happened to my husband I'm screwed. That is why I'm trying to stress the need for a good college education for my daughter. I never want to see her in my position. Unfortunately I don't think it's sinking in.
Me:39, DH:40
DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04
TTC#3
NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13
Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks
CP 2/14
All welcome
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
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ME: 38, DH: 42, stopped BCPS 1/2013, TTC #1 2/2013, AMH 0.4, started acupuncture: 7/2013,
BFP: 10/07/2013; MC 10/15/2013 @ 7 wks (natural), focused on health issues for 7 months.
TTC again: 6/2014, 2nd round Letrozole, BFP 7/7/2014!!! --- EDD 3/18/2015!!!
@URMySunshine77 - Thank you, but I do feel too old in the sense that I would be in beauty school with a bunch of young girls straight out of highschool AND I would, in a sense, be competing with some hairstylists/make up artists, who have been doing this for years!! That's they way I look at it.
I do enjoy what I do. I actually always wanted to be a cop, but what stopped me was that I didn't want to be out working at night while my family was at home. So working for the DA is a good alternative for me.
My DH is a General Contractor and he's been wanting me to help him more with office stuff so I've started trying to learn how to do his Quickbooks. Some of the stuff is way over my head, but I'm trying!!
BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14
I am a SAHM now but up until last spring I was an elementary teacher, general and special ed different years. I am on leave but my leave was not renewed so we are figuring things out as a family.