Pregnant after a Loss

WWPgALD? Update in original post

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edited June 2014 in Pregnant after a Loss
I know I'm blowing up the board with questions but this is actually related to pregnancy.  We're going to Bermuda in July and I'll be 7-8 weeks along if things are going well.  The doctors have offered to do my first u/s at 6.5 weeks (right before we go) if my first beta comes back good (tomorrow) but I'm going to put off the u/s until after the vacation in case of bad news.  Now here's where my crazy comes in:  I want to ask to be put on progesterone until after vacation because my fear is that I'll miscarry on vacation.  During my last pregnancy I was on progesterone and I didn't start spotting until the day I stopped taking it.  The RE doesn't think I need it but I want it for peace of mind and/or to prevent miscarrying on vacation.  Is that crazy?  I can take it if it is; I'm hoping to ask the nurse when I talk to her tomorrow.

UPDATE:  I talked to my doctor and for now I'm not going to go on the progesterone, although he did tell me he is always willing to listen to any crazy request I have.  He also thinks we should do the u/s before we go because if it isn't good then I can get drunk (which I do agree with too).  He said if we get to the ultrasound at 6w5d and we talk about it more and I still want it then then we can do it but he is also concerned about the risks of progesterone & flying (i.e. blood clots) since progesterone (apparently) isn't risk free.  I'm ok with this.  I trust my doctor and am thankful for his laid back approach to all of this.  It definitely calms my crazy.  Thanks everyone!!
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  • Congrats to you! I would definitely request some. It can't hurt. Have a great trip!!
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    I agree with Hawkward. Not crazy and I would be persistent especially for peace of mind.

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  • Progesterone is one of those "can't hurt" kind of things...my RE would sometimes put people on it "just in case."  So I don't think it's crazy at all.  You deserve to enjoy your vacation!
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  • I agree with PP. If it will put your mind at ease I would ask for it. I am on it more so because it "can't hurt, might help" reasons as my progesterone levels came back relatively normal (20).






     


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  • I agree you deserve to enjoy yourself and if the progesterone is the trick then go for it! Certainly can't hurt to ask!

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  • I asked to be put on progesterone even though they didn't think I needed it. It can't hurt. Go for it.

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  • Another vote for, yes ask for the progesterone. I was also on it as a can't hurt/might help measure - and if I'm really being honest the re agreed to prescribe it for my peace of mind. With PgAL brain, I'll take any peace of mind I can get. So, if you think that the progesterone will help you feel better, ask for it and be persistent.

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  • I agree with everyone about the progesterone and we have made the same decision surrounding vacation. We decided to put out Tuesday U/S off until the following Wednesday when we return from our trip JUST IN CASE we get bad news. For now, we are pregnant and we are thankful. Have a great trip!!
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  • I would do it for peace of mind, but realize that you can't quit until 12-13 weeks once you start taking it.
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  • I would do it, if for some reason the doctor wouldnt give it (I'd look for a new one) - but I would use OTC topical cream if I felt strongly.... I know, sometimes I am just a rebel.  But good luck, and I agree that putting off the u/s is a good idea- because you'll see more when you get back, and if you didnt see enough, it would worry you all vacay- even if it was fine! ;-)
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  • I don't think it's crazy and if it will give you piece of mind then it's worth it.

    Can I just say how I jealous I am of your vacation? 
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  • I'm with everyone else and say yes! And it's ok to demand to stay on it until you're out of the first trimester, that's what I did. Even though the RE and OB didn't think it had anything to do with my losses, my levels were so low I wanted to be safe. It can't hurt.

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  • I don't think it's crazy, at all! Especially since it won't hurt to take it & it's worth the peace of mind!!
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  • I agree with waiting to do do the u/s but have you had your progesterone levels checked to see if a supplement is even needed? I'm no doc but I know hormone balance plays a huge role is a successful pregnancy so could adding too much adversely affect anything is what I would be questioning.

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  • I don't think you're crazy for asking. It's generally one of those "can't hurt, might help " things for peace of mind.
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  • So glad you and your doctor came to a plan you are comfortable with, and it sounds like he takes your concerns seriously. I had no idea about the risks of progesterone and flying, I will have to bring this up with my OB at my appointment next week. Thanks!






     


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