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TTCBabyJ
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IUI# 1 BFN & No I don't want to see a baby!
TTCBabyJ
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So yesterday I started spotting at 16dpo, I knew it was too late for implantation spotting. So this morning AF is in full force. I'm so disappointed because my RE said this was the perfect IUI. Well hours after this my brothers comes over with his friend. And my brother's friend brings her 7 month old baby. Now I just got off the phone with him this morning and I specifically told him how upset I was over BFN. He comes in my bedroom and says his friend is here with her baby. I calmly say okay. As if I can't hear DH in the living room gushing over the baby. Then my brother pushes the envelope and then says are you going to come out and say hello. I said I don't want to see a baby right now. Then he says, "Don't be like that..." And I lost it! After that they abruptly left then DH came in the room and said I told your brother not to come in here. I mean really so insensitive!!!! When I'm out I don't run from babies but my home is my sanctuary! Respect it!
So yesterday I started spotting at 16dpo, I knew it was too late for implantation spotting. So this morning AF is in full force. I'm so disappointed because my RE said this was the perfect IUI. Well hours after this my brothers comes over with his friend. And my brother's friend brings her 7 month old baby. Now I just got off the phone with him this morning and I specifically told him how upset I was over BFN. He comes in my bedroom and says his friend is here with her baby. I calmly say okay. As if I can't hear DH in the living room gushing over the baby. Then my brother pushes the envelope and then says are you going to come out and say hello. I said I don't want to see a baby right now. Then he says, "Don't be like that..." And I lost it! After that they abruptly left then DH came in the room and said I told your brother not to come in here. I mean really so insensitive!!!! When I'm out I don't run from babies but my home is my sanctuary! Respect it!
Me: +35 DH: +35
TTC: Since January 2013
DX: PCOS. Severe Endometriosis, Unicornuate Uterus w/only left tube and left ovary, Pedunculated fibroid (on the outside of uterus) and Anovulation. All conditions diagnosed 8/13
TX: Metformin
DH DX: MFI - low morphology, low motility
Ultrasound shows both kidneys in spite of UU.
HSG showed clear tube on the left side.
Lap Surgery performed 1/9/14 to remove fibroid and endo (Stage 3)
- IUI# 1 June 2014 started 100 mg of Clomid - 7dpiui Progesterone: 13: BFN
- IUI#2 July 2014 started 100 mg of Clomid - 7dpiui Progesterone: 5.75: BFN
- Natural Cycle - so shocked to be in 2WW - 7dpo Progesterone: 15.5: BFN
- Working with new RE starting injectables in late August.
- IUI #3 August 2014 w/ Menopur: BFN
- Finally ovulating on my own!!
Waiting to start IVF hopefully
**********All Are Welcome**************
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Re: IUI# 1 BFN & No I don't want to see a baby!
How rude! I would want to scream.
I am currently hiding out, too - just couldn't take AF coming this morning and going to my little nephew's birthday party this afternoon. : (
Hang in there.
NTNP for 3 years 2008-2011
TTC since Nov. 2011 (BBT, Charting, OPK's)
"Actively" TTC since Feb. 2014
HSG Feb. 2014 - all clear
SA - all good
Mar. 2014 Clomid 50 mg days 3-7 - BFN
Apr. 2014 Clomid 50 mg days 3-7 - BFN
May 2014 Clomid 50 mg days 3-7 - BFN
Learned Clomid unmonitored is a NO-NO
July RE appointment - finally!
Official diagnosis: Unexplained IF. I am 32. I have low ovarian reserve (low AMH), and poor egg quality. I've also been diagnosed with mild glandular developmental arrest (lining problems, detected with EFT).
We are using open ID donor sperm. IUIs #1-7=BFN. IVF September 2014 antagonist protocol, 8R,5M,3F, 5 day transfer of 1 morula = BFN. IVF#2 planned for January 2015 (antagonist protocol + HGH).
2008: HSG (normal), couple rounds of clomid through gyno
2008 - 2010: dragging my feet out of fear and procrastination
October 2010: first consultation with RE, dx PCOS and fibroids (DH slightly low count/motility)
Oct. 2010 - Dec. 2012: In DENIAL! avoided the issue because I was scared of surgery
January 2013: returned to RE, fibroids grew significantly
February 2013: second HSG, fibroids pushed on tubes which blocked them somewhat
March 2013: MRI to determine what type of surgery may be necessary
July 29, 2013: fibroids (5) removed via robotic laparascopy
August 2013 - Nov 2013 : benched due to recent surgery
IUI #3, Feb. 25, 2014 BFN
IUI #4 canceled due to lack of response to letrozole
IUI #4.1 April 28, 2014, BFN
May 16, 2014: wtf consult, start prepping for IVF in June and add injects for one last IUI in the meantime
IUI #5 started letrozole and bravelle but canceled after HSG led to new diagnosis
May 21, 2014: third HSG, tubes blocked, one at the beginning, one hydrosalpinx??
IVF #1 August 8, 2014 - 3dt of 2 embryos, BFN
September 17, 2014 - 4th HSG, the right tube is very patent (open!!) dye went straight through this time. Weird!
October 2, 2014 - started metformin treatment
November 14, 2014 - blood work, brought A1C down from 5.8 to 5.5
November 26, 2014 - RE finally back from vaca and reviewed my chart, no more IVFs for rest of calendar year
December 1, 2014 - Right after Thanksgiving, I called a new clinic and got in right away! Plan for IVF
December 17, 2014 - ER! 29 retrieved (!!), 16 mature, all 16 fertilized (ICSI)
IVF #2 December 20, 2014 - 3dt of 3 embryos, BFN
We are done with treatment unsuccessfully.
Me: 26 (IC/PCOS-2000mg of Metformin daily)
June 2014- HSG=clear
DH: 27 (SA results were great minus the slightly low morphology)
Started dating DH in 2002 at 14 years old
Married on 03.01.2014
Officially TTC since April 2014
January 2013- Surprise BFP, m/c at 6 weeks, D&C 2 Weeks later
April 2014- First RE appointment
July 2014- IUI#1-Canx due to scar tissue and polyps. TI with the help of Ovidrel. BFN
August 2014- Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue and polyp
September 2014- IUI #1.1-100mg Clomid, Ovideral, 11.5 million swimmers=BFP
EDD-6/3/15- Our sweet baby Ryan was born on 1/6/15 and is in the arms of an Angel
Dx with IC on 1/6/15