Update on me and apology

Helenahhandbasket · June 2014

Hi ladies.

This week has been draining. H moved out yesterday. It is really bittersweet- because I am super sad for him and for DD, but I am so relived for myself. I feel like I can breathe and I literally feel like a thousand pounds have been lifted off of my chest. I can't stop thinking about all of the possibilities that are ahead of me and it makes me smile.

He was a mess yesterday. I am convinced he thought I was bluffing and did not expect me to follow through. He did cool down and stopped by the house this morning and we were able to calmly discuss practical things like untangling finances, him packing the rest of his stuff up and putting together papers for a mediator.

Now for the apology-- I know I have been MIA a lot this week and haven't been able to give support to others that have been also going thru sumshit-- and for that I am sorry. I promise to be around more in the coming weeks.

Thanks again for all of the support. I feel really loved and grateful to have found this community.

jellybean529 · June 2014

I'm so sorry you're going through this

I know how relieving it can be, but sad at the same time. If you ever want to talk to someone who's BTDT, I'm just a facebook message away

dmlk413 · June 2014

I'm sorry you have to go through this but glad that you are able to find the positives in the situation.

Helenahhandbasket · June 2014

Thanks @jellybean529! I may take you up on that.

JackoftheBox · June 2014

lildis09 said:

First off, you don't need to apologize...at all...ever. You have a lot on your plate right now. Second...I'm so happy that you're happy. As always, here for support as needed.

Couldn't have said it better!

Chapter79 · June 2014

Nope, never a need to apologize! Life happens. For all of us.

((((((((hugs))))))))

Helenahhandbasket · June 2014

Thanks LRMM. That means a lot coming from you because I know you are also dealing with this now. Hugs all around!

eyenigh · June 2014

You know you're doing the right thing when you feel that relieved. Hugs.

Helenahhandbasket · June 2014

eyenigh said:

You know you're doing the right thing when you feel that relieved. Hugs.

Exactly!

hopefulmom81 · June 2014

Myaflowers · June 2014

2013mommy said:

No need to apologize! You haven't been around for good reason. I am happy for you though I do understand it must be bittersweet! It sounds like this is the right move for you to be happy. Hugs! We are always here when you need us

^^^This^^^ Also (((Hugs)))

PB102012 · June 2014

Like the other ladies said, no need at all to apologize. I am so happy that you feel a sense of relief through this. (Hugs)

[Deleted User] · June 2014

It is good to hear that things are progressing well for you. I hope it continues to go smoothly.

TiffanyBerry · June 2014

**hugs**

meo34 · June 2014

No apologies needed. Happens to some of us from time to time. I dropped out of sight for 2 weeks. Sometimes life gets busy or you have stuff to deal with. Happy for you that you have taken the steps to move forward. Being in limbo and not knowing is the worst. Even though it is hard you are taking action to a more positive life!

legalbeagle1 · June 2014

Haven't been around much recently but just wanted to pipe up and say I'm thinking of you and hope you still have that wonderful relieved feeling. You are strong!

legalbeagle1 · June 2014

@lildis09 stupid work computer won't let me reply! I'm sure some sort of security thing so I only mobile bump or on weekends. I wanted to respond to your situation with your DH on fitness since I am in the opposite situation -- I am the "fitness bully" in my relationship and it made me realize that I don't want my husband to feel bad about himself. I really just want him to be healthier all around but I should watch what I say!

gwendarling · June 2014

I'm so glad everything is going in the right direction for you!!

I feel like I need to apologize too, I'm holding off on bumping or facebooking at my new job so I only get to bump on the phone, and weekends are spent packing up for our upcoming move - GUYS KNOW THAT I'M STILL HERE!!

anyways, HUGSSSS.

TittsMcGee · June 2014

I just read this. hugs to you @Helenahhandbasket‌. Please, don't feel like you need to apologize. You know you've made the right decision when you're happy about it.

Helenahhandbasket · June 2014

Thanks ladies!

Well, I survived my first weekend as a single mom. It was tough and draining at times, but we made it! I am tired but still smiling this morning.

jellybean529 · June 2014

Helenahhandbasket said:

Thanks ladies!

Well, I survived my first weekend as a single mom. It was tough and draining at times, but we made it! I am tired but still smiling this morning.

That's going to be par for the course...tired, but smiling. That's me today too! XOXO congrats on surviving!

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