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sarah2jane
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2nd intro new name
sarah2jane
member
Hello!
I wanted to write a new intro with my new screen name, I had previously had my maiden name as part of my SN and found that when I googled myself these posts came up. I am now able to freely talk to you all and not worry about family and friends finding the posts 
Sorry for the confusion, I'm happy to finally be able to start new discussions with all of you.
Together since Jan 2010, Married in Nov 2013 , TTC since May 2014
It Works Distributor and Domestic Engineer
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Re: 2nd intro new name
Married: 1/2008 ~ DD#1: 3/2012
TTC #2: Started 4/2014 BFP 7/30/15 MC 8/3/15 BFP 9/4/2015 EDD 5/16/2016
Thank you!
@PHNJenna , my new fear is my SIL ( whom I talked about in MIL nightmare ) might be on this site as she and my BIL are TTC. Fingers crossed both of our in laws aren't aware of this community
Together since Jan 2010, Married in Nov 2013 , TTC since May 2014
It Works Distributor and Domestic Engineer
TTC 10/2013
RE Help from 10/2014-10/2016 (11 failed IUIs, a corrective surgery, and a donor embryo cycle)
9/2016-transferred two donor embies
BFP 9/29/26 EDD June 11
Yes! I posted it in the original thread but I've copy and pasted it :
My problem isn't my direct in laws BUT my SIL & Mother. When my DH parents divorced he and my BIL and MIL would go to my SIL parents house to celebrate holidays..... 11 years later they still celebrate together along with my FIL and his new wife ( I have no idea how my MIL is so strong and can do this with a smile on her face, god bless her) My SIL mother most recently verbally attacked me on a city street b/c I didn't agree with her being mad at my MIL for a petty issue. I was chased down a street, backed against my bicycle and then told I do not know what family is and how dare I miss two holidays in 5 years, two!!!! One I was working and one I was with my family. She said because of that I don't cherish family and that she was going to call my MIL and tell her I don't love her. When I did try to speak up and defend myself my SIL got in my face and pointed her finger at me and told me I wasn't "allowed to talk". It was insane and the most disrespectful thing I've had done to me. I called my MIL right away and she was very supportive. I still haven't gotten an apology, I feel like I'm the reason the family doesn't get together now but in reality if she would just apologize I would let it go. It's been an awful situation.
This happened 3 weeks ago so I'm still trying to figure out how to deal with it. Sorry that was a lot of information!
***update* Talked to my SIL per my DH request, she will NOT apologize. I had to be the bigger person and tell her that we just have to agree to disagree and not let this happen again. I made plans with her so we can see our beautiful niece and I told her I will not be okay around her mother for the time being. The only good thing that has come from this stressful situation is the love my MIL has shown me. She is so proud that I stuck up for her and I would do it again in a second.
Together since Jan 2010, Married in Nov 2013 , TTC since May 2014
It Works Distributor and Domestic Engineer
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BFP#1 7/13/11 EDD 3/16/12 DS born 3/16/12
BFP#2 5/16/14 EDD 1/23/15 CP 5/21/14
BFP#3 6/25/14 EDD 3/2/15