I am currently living in NKY, and I have been traveling up to michigan to see my OB/GYN that I saw in the past. Initially the plan was to be moved back to Michigan by the end of this summer, now it looks like we will be staying in the Northern KY region or moving down to TN, which is going to put me way to far to make the drive to and from my old doctor once I start getting to my every other week/ weekly appointments. I don't know what to do to look for a hospital in an area I am not familiar with or even how to look for a new doctor. Any suggestions are appreciated. I have been seeing a group of specialists since I was pregnant with my son and I kept going to them because they knew my health history and I was comfortable with them. I am really nervous to seek out a new doctor, but I can't be 7-12 hours away from the hospital I planned on delivering from. Also I am having a repeat c-section, if I go into labor how in a different area how to I make sure I have another c-section and they don't try to make me have a vag
inal birth. Lots of questions, not sure where to start finding answers.
Thanks for any advice, ERIN
Re: Moving-Doctor/ Hospital Change
For me when it came to picking an OB I wanted someone who was familiar with IF issues, high risk pregnancies, and had privileges at a hospital with a high level NICU. We also wanted a hospital that was family friendly and had lactation consultants on hand.
Maybe make a list of what is most important to you in your OB/hospital and then look for reviews in the area that have those items?
Married 8/27/2011
BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
This is such a hard choice. I'm going through something similar. My family is from Michigan, but my husband and I live in Chicago. We just moved to Chicago and haven't really developed many social relationships. We have no one to care for DD when I go into labor, and I am scared to complete labor and delivery by myself while DH is at home caring for DD. So now we are faced with moving in with my mom (who lives in southwest Michigan) for a month or so while we wait for LO to arrive, which means I would have to change my doctor and hospital. My husband's job will allow him to work from a Michigan office for a month or so, and he gets a few weeks leave for new baby. The option of switching is feasible, but not desirable. It is very hard to switch when you have developed a good relationship with your health care providers.
This sucks. Best wishes with whatever you decide.