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GTKY Have you ever been in a fight?
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Re: GTKY Have you ever been in a fight?
I do get into discussions on fb about politics though. Im THAT person. I tell myself it's OK though because I stay calm, don't resort to name calling or petty insults, and stick to logic and facts to win the debate. ...I probably still annoy people though.
I was standing in the door way separating the two, and the one girl just kept repeating "bust a grape" over my shoulder, nothing else. She was very forceful with it, and I actually starting laughing because it was so ridiculous.
I'm a pansy or as some people and my H say, "too nice and a pushover". I have never been in one. I had one wild streak through middle school days and got in a "verbal" one before a friend pulled me away from the girl, it was in the locker room at gym time. Classy, right? As I got older it was like I got more scared of people and I'm not sure why.
As an adult, the only fight I got into was a fake one. I was going to a really small college and this girl who I also worked with thought it would be a good idea to stage a fight. (I really don't remember why we thought it was a good idea at the time). So one night after we got home from work we pretended to be pissed at each other, then the next morning at school we "fought" each other. It was not cool. We made someone cry.
Mom to S-07/22/10 & Q-12/14/11 L-8/23/14
There was one time when I guess i pissed my ex off and he literally bit my arm. He bit it so hard the entire area was black and blue and it took weeks to heal. You could see each tooth in the bite bruise too. I didn't throw a punch or yell as pissed as I was about it, I just looked at him, looked at my arm then told him we were done and walked away.
physical altercations....only with future SIL. We used to be ok however she lost my respect when she chose alcohol over her own daughter. FI family lives far away and when we visit we have to rent a hotel room. She was put up in our room then proceeded to drink hard liquor that night. We went back to the hotel room and she thought oh hey free sitter and continued to go to the hotel bar and get drinks...and come back...She did this over and over and i was getting tired of it. The last she came up FI took her drink away and told her to shut the f up. When she didn't and kept making comments about how her daughter was fine she can do whatever the f she wants i yelled "i would NEVER..."she lunged and started throwing punches, FI caught her mid air and told her she better lay the f down and go the f to sleep. She did and she has been cut out since. She didn't even let me finish...i was gunny say I would never leave my son to get trashed. I don't care if someone is there to watch him, I refuse to allow my child (ren) see me in a situation where I have no control over myself.
I was at a house party drunk of course. I was outside and through the french doors I see someone shove one of my friends across the room. I busted in with both hands up flipping everyone off and yelling WTF IS GOING ON. I was immediately grabbed by a couple people. My friends and I had to leave and things were a bit tense the next time I saw any of them.
Apparently I threatened someone with a frying pan one time. Don't remember, but my friends love to tease me about it.
Also physical fights with an ex-boyfriend but he always won.
Verbal fights it has been a while but I have a bit of a hot mouth and temper.
Other than that, when I was in college I was at a house party once and had some random dude grab me between the legs as I was walking through a crowded room. I immediately punched him in the face and grabbed him by the back of the head and drug him out of the house, throwing him out of the party. Apparently he had done the same thing to a friend of mine's girlfriend minutes before, and she had gone outside to get him to throw him out. When the couple guys came inside to find the creep to confront him, they walked in right as he did the same thing to me and saw my reaction. They followed me out and backed me up in not letting the guy sneak back inside, and also said it was freaking hilarious to see the guy looking mortified about getting his ass handed to him by a girl, they thought it way more fitting than if they had done the same thing
Now my best friend got into a fight and I'm worst friend cause I'll I did was hide behind my boyfriend at the time. I just kept telling him save her. She got a few cuts but the chick who started it pushed her on a hill. But she filed a report and it all worked out.
Once in early high school I can't remember what I did, but I probably made some snide comment to the wrong girl. A few minutes later, her gang of 3 other girls joined her and were debating whether or not to beat the crap out of me. Thankfully one of them had been friends with me in elementary school before everyone started segregating themselves by race/ethnic group. She called the rest of the group off so I didn't get my butt kicked. I was scared for a bit, though.