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brendisimmabrendisimma member
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I was at the horse races for Dads day and had been spotting a bit when I felt a jolt of a cramp. Went to the bathroom and felt a gush and found a clear, firm sac that resembled a large white grape with nothing inside but clear liquid. I was diagnosed with a blighted ovum a few weeks ago and was hoping for a natural m/c, now I'm passing tissue and have slight cramps, feels like a heavy period. Has anyone passed and seen their blighted ovum? Calling my doc tomorrow morning. Can't believe this is really happening and feel guilty for feeling slightly relieved.
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    KingLEDKingLED member
    I've not had experience with a BO, but I recently had a natural mc at 8 weeks and I saw the sacs when I passed them.

    Feeling relived that your body is doing its thing so you can move forward and heal and feeling relieved that you had a BO instead of a successful pregnancy are completely different. Don't feel bad for feeling relieved that you can begin to heal. It's a hard enough situation to deal with, no need to make it harder on yourself.

    Take care.
    Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
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    tlc35tlc35 member
    I'm sorry for your loss.  I had a D&C but also felt relieved when it was over.  Try not to feel guilty because relief is a normal emotion.
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    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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    brendisimmabrendisimma member
    talked to the doctor, he wants an u/s Thursday then he will determine if I need a d&c..I am prepared for whatever needs to happen..staying strong
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    salsa_wifeysalsa_wifey member

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a BO but I had a D&C. (((Hugs)))

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    BFP #1: 11/25/2007, EDD 7/28/2008 - Missed m/c (blighted ovum) 12/6/2007 6w3d, D&C 1/3/2008.
    BFP #2: 4/2008 - Natural m/c at 6w.
    Met with RE in 5/2008 full cycle analysis and SA normal. Not considered high risk for blood clots but prescribed 1 baby aspirin a day precautionary during TTC and Progesterone suppositories during 1st trimester of pregnancy.
    BFP #3: 10/17/2008. EDD 6/23/2009,  Third time's the charm! Healthy baby boy born 6/27/2009 via emergency c-section.
    BFP #4: 6/14/2011. Healthy baby boy born 2/16/2012 via elective c-section.
    BFP #5: 1/15/2014. EDD 9/22/2014.     2/17/14:.We have a BABY!!! Heart rate 167 and measuring on time. 3/10/14 u/s #2 baby measuring perfectly at 12 weeks at heart rate of 166. NT u/s was normal. Maternit21 blood draw on 3/5/14. Results back on 3/19 - Normal.  It's a BOY!!!  4/10/14 at 16 weeks, 3 days discovered baby's heart stopped at 15 weeks, 6 days. D&C 4/11/14.  Pathology results were all normal.  New information on 8/11/14 - blood test revealed 1/3 of babys blood was in mine caused, most likely, by a tear in the placenta from extreme coughing.  Doctor believes this to be the cause of death.  Repeat D&C and Hysteroscopy scheduled for 8/19/14.  My Chart

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