Ok, I am SICK of people telling my how I am going to feel in my third trimester and how I am going to feel after having the baby... its none of your business and if you are a man # 1 - how the hell would you know...and # 2 if you are a woman and have only had one kid, do not tell me how I will or will not feel. you are not ME!! All women are different ok!!
People need to learn to keep their opinions to themselves! I'm talking to you lady in the checkout line at Target! I don't care how many kids you felt was appropriate. I want a large family and you can go suck lemons with your perfect family with 2 kids.
I'm talking to my great-aunt who keeps snarkily asking if I'm going to keep having kids until I get a girl. Yes, I would love a girl, No I don't resent my boys for not being girls, No I'm not going keep having kids until a girl arrives, 4 is my limit! I'm sorry you couldn't have more than one kid and that you're jealous that my grandma (her sister) was able to have a large family who loves her. Not my fault your one kid and your grand kids can't stand you! (Gee, I wonder why? 8-| )
Finally, I'm also talking to the mom at the park this morning who kept telling me that Si (DS#2) was going to resent me for making him a middle child and that he is going to have a hard time growing up in the middle. Bitch, I don't care that you were a middle child and always resented your parents and siblings and never felt loved. Lots of people grow up a middle child and have happy childhoods and lives.
The courtesy officer at work is overly interested in my pregnancy. He's asked me to send him ultrasound pics to his personal email and comes in every day asking, "How's my godchild?" He apparently discusses me at home with his girlfriend? He's told me that she asked if he needed to tell her something because he seems overly excited about it. He even told me she asked if he gets turned on by pregnant woman. WTF. It is all too weird and uncomfortable.
The courtesy officer at work is overly interested in my pregnancy. He's asked me to send him ultrasound pics to his personal email and comes in every day asking, "How's my godchild?" He apparently discusses me at home with his girlfriend? He's told me that she asked if he needed to tell her something because he seems overly excited about it. He even told me she asked if he gets turned on by pregnant woman. WTF. It is all too weird and uncomfortable.
Woah. Stranger danger!!
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The courtesy officer at work is overly interested in my pregnancy. He's asked me to send him ultrasound pics to his personal email and comes in every day asking, "How's my godchild?" He apparently discusses me at home with his girlfriend? He's told me that she asked if he needed to tell her something because he seems overly excited about it. He even told me she asked if he gets turned on by pregnant woman. WTF. It is all too weird and uncomfortable.
The courtesy officer at work is overly interested in my pregnancy. He's asked me to send him ultrasound pics to his personal email and comes in every day asking, "How's my godchild?" He apparently discusses me at home with his girlfriend? He's told me that she asked if he needed to tell her something because he seems overly excited about it. He even told me she asked if he gets turned on by pregnant woman. WTF. It is all too weird and uncomfortable.
Okay, that is totally ew creepy! That might be something I'd be talking to HR about.
@ADH0906 and @dorothyzbornak97 It does creep me out!! He's a nice guy in his 50s, and I think he has good intentions.. But his comments are just too creepy for me and I have a hard time even being nice now.
Hey deaf people, if you can't hear on the phone why in the hell are you calling me. You need to come into my office so I can yell at you in person! Also pissing me off, people who tell you one thing, and then proceed with the opposite.
Hey deaf people, if you can't hear on the phone why in the hell are you calling me. You need to come into my office so I can yell at you in person! Also pissing me off, people who tell you one thing, and then proceed with the opposite.
Got back from a weekend at my parents with a letter from my HOA trying to charge us $25 for grass/weeds. We have no weeds, and our grass is still too short to be cut. This livid pregnant lady gave them a piece of my mind!
@MRSclarke08 I'm sorry about your diagnosis. It can be like suddenly taking on a second job when you're not used to tracking your food and planning your meals and logging your blood sugars. We have some very supportive diabetics in this group, so please reach out if you need anything.
@MRSclarke08 you can do this. I GD is hard to get used too. But once you get it, it becomes second hand. Take it one day at a time and one meal at a time. I still have trouble with it. It take supportive team around it goes a lot smother.
The courtesy officer at work is overly interested in my pregnancy. He's asked me to send him ultrasound pics to his personal email and comes in every day asking, "How's my godchild?" He apparently discusses me at home with his girlfriend? He's told me that she asked if he needed to tell her something because he seems overly excited about it. He even told me she asked if he gets turned on by pregnant woman. WTF. It is all too weird and uncomfortable.
Red flags! Red flags!!! That is really creepy! And to make it worse he is who you would call if you had a problem. Have you done a little google background check on him? I would think it was creepy if any of my co-workers asked me to send my u/s pictures to their personal e-mail. The fact that his girlfriend also thinks his behavior is odd and that he still doesn't think he is being odd would make me nervous. Some guys have a thing for pregnant women. I actually get hit on more when pregnant. It's really weird!
I had my unwanted rear-end visitor evicted a short while ago. He was the size of a medium strawberry (holy crap!) The lidocaine has since worn off, and I am in more pain than after any of my vaginal births. Worse yet, I need to poop, but I'm totally scared to. (
We're still looking for homes for my dogs and getting absolutely nowhere. I'm mentally and emotionally exhausted from the toll it's taking on me. And our next step is taking them to the SPCA. We're literally OUT of options.
I hate my commute. I stayed at work until 8 PM for eighth-grade promotion (this equals a 13 hour workday), then got stuck in 45 minutes of traffic (to go 4 miles) because of an accident that shut down both directions of the freeway. Thank you, Seattle.
The 522 wreck?! It. Was. Madness.
**ETA**
I just heard about the bridge madness in Seattle and realized you said freeway. Reading fail on my part, lol.
I hate my commute. I stayed at work until 8 PM for eighth-grade promotion (this equals a 13 hour workday), then got stuck in 45 minutes of traffic (to go 4 miles) because of an accident that shut down both directions of the freeway. Thank you, Seattle.
Oh my gosh, I heard about this on the radio today! I tend to avoid the I-5 as much as possible. Every time I get on there's an accident that practically shuts it down! Makes me happy to live on the Eastside! Sorry you got caught in it
We're still looking for homes for my dogs and getting absolutely nowhere. I'm mentally and emotionally exhausted from the toll it's taking on me. And our next step is taking them to the SPCA. We're literally OUT of options.
Sorry to hear this. Sucks when you can not find good homes. Is there a no kill shelter closer or a family farm that would take them? Fur babies are hard to find the right home for, when you love and care for them so much.
Hey deaf people, if you can't hear on the phone why in the hell are you calling me. You need to come into my office so I can yell at you in person! Also pissing me off, people who tell you one thing, and then proceed with the opposite.
Ummm
Well let me give you more info this guy calls and he cant hear in the phone and I end up yelling in the phone and he still can't hear me. He just needs to come in to the office and stop with the phone at least my yelling while he's in front of me he actually catches a majority of the conversation. So frustrating. I'm not like angry yelling at him. Just trying to get him to hear me! Haha
The
courtesy officer at work is overly interested in my pregnancy. He's
asked me to send him ultrasound pics to his personal email and comes in
every day asking, "How's my godchild?" He apparently discusses me at
home with his girlfriend? He's told me that she asked if he needed to
tell her something because he seems overly excited about it. He even
told me she asked if he gets turned on by pregnant woman. WTF. It is all
too weird and uncomfortable.
That is really creepy - I'd stay as far away as I could.
My bitchfest is on my mom. My folks came to town this weekend and they were overall great - spent tons of money on me and the Lo and were really happy to see me....BUT my mom really overstepped her bounds with my DH. First after I told her that we didn't want or feel we needed a nurse right after childbirth (she had one and apparently so did my sister, but no one else I know had one) - she took it upon herself to strike up the whole conversation with him separately while I was showering. She then also took it upon herself to strike up a baby names conversation talking all about tradition in Jewish families to use an initial from a parent or grandparent in first or middle name - after I told her we weren't discussing names until we'd made some decisions ourselves and that we were on the fence about that tradition (I'm not practicing, etc...) and then she took it upon herself to also ask him to please take off the Saturday of my baby shower (he works Saturdays) to keep my Dad company (who already said he'll enjoy a nice relaxing day at the hotel pool with his book) when she knows that Saturdays are very busy days and DH is trying to work as much as possible right now to save towards the fact that my maternity leave is unpaid.
It's like she ignored everything I told her and thought maybe she could appeal to guilt or something with DH. I give him credit though - he handled her well and managed to politely but effectively put her in her place.
Other than that, I'd like my left ankle to stop swelling.
Re: Monday Bitchfest
People need to learn to keep their opinions to themselves! I'm talking to you lady in the checkout line at Target! I don't care how many kids you felt was appropriate. I want a large family and you can go suck lemons with your perfect family with 2 kids.
I'm talking to my great-aunt who keeps snarkily asking if I'm going to keep having kids until I get a girl. Yes, I would love a girl, No I don't resent my boys for not being girls, No I'm not going keep having kids until a girl arrives, 4 is my limit! I'm sorry you couldn't have more than one kid and that you're jealous that my grandma (her sister) was able to have a large family who loves her. Not my fault your one kid and your grand kids can't stand you! (Gee, I wonder why? 8-| )
Finally, I'm also talking to the mom at the park this morning who kept telling me that Si (DS#2) was going to resent me for making him a middle child and that he is going to have a hard time growing up in the middle. Bitch, I don't care that you were a middle child and always resented your parents and siblings and never felt loved. Lots of people grow up a middle child and have happy childhoods and lives.
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Ummm
GD is hard to get used too. But once you get it, it becomes second hand. Take it one day at a time and one meal at a time. I still have trouble with it. It take supportive team around it goes a lot smother.
Tylenol doesn't do crap for pain!
I had my unwanted rear-end visitor evicted a short while ago. He was the size of a medium strawberry (holy crap!) The lidocaine has since worn off, and I am in more pain than after any of my vaginal births. Worse yet, I need to poop, but I'm totally scared to.
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**ETA**
I just heard about the bridge madness in Seattle and realized you said freeway. Reading fail on my part, lol.
My bitchfest is on my mom. My folks came to town this weekend and they were overall great - spent tons of money on me and the Lo and were really happy to see me....BUT my mom really overstepped her bounds with my DH. First after I told her that we didn't want or feel we needed a nurse right after childbirth (she had one and apparently so did my sister, but no one else I know had one) - she took it upon herself to strike up the whole conversation with him separately while I was showering. She then also took it upon herself to strike up a baby names conversation talking all about tradition in Jewish families to use an initial from a parent or grandparent in first or middle name - after I told her we weren't discussing names until we'd made some decisions ourselves and that we were on the fence about that tradition (I'm not practicing, etc...) and then she took it upon herself to also ask him to please take off the Saturday of my baby shower (he works Saturdays) to keep my Dad company (who already said he'll enjoy a nice relaxing day at the hotel pool with his book) when she knows that Saturdays are very busy days and DH is trying to work as much as possible right now to save towards the fact that my maternity leave is unpaid.
It's like she ignored everything I told her and thought maybe she could appeal to guilt or something with DH. I give him credit though - he handled her well and managed to politely but effectively put her in her place.
Other than that, I'd like my left ankle to stop swelling.