Re: So mad right now!

• caballablanca member

  June 2014

  Wtf. I would be pissed. Why would anyone send it regardless?

  
  
  

  

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• Jentech84 member

  June 2014

  WTAF? That's beyond obscene.

  
  

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• babypants11 member

  June 2014

  That is beyond inconsiderate. I'm sorry

  

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• CanadianintheSouth member

  June 2014

  Ugh definitely not overreacting, I'd be pissed! Sorry she did that

  
  

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• HalseytoBe member

  June 2014

  I would be pissed regardless if I was in the hospital or not! You don't send pregnant women (who are always worried about the health of their baby - at least I am a worry wart) anything about things that could or have gone wrong! I had a student in class start telling me about her moms friend who had a stil birth and I had to tell her to stop, that I'd rather not hear about it.
  
  I hope you are able to put it out of your mind and focus on getting better- and trust that your doctors are putting you and your babies needs first! T &P coming your way!

  
  

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• MandMLeona member

  June 2014

  Not over reacting at all. I'd be pissed too! Honestly, I don't see any reason to share pictures of the deceased...let alone of babies. I understand why the parents of these children often want these pictures...and they are welcome to any comfort they can get...but no one has any business forwarding them around.

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• [Deleted User] member

  June 2014

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• wandsandwine member

  June 2014

  That is horrible! I would be so pissed! I'm sorry you're going through all this, t&p

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• Rannndi member

  June 2014

  OMG...no, I'd be unbelievably outraged...hospital or not!

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• rainbowwillow member

  June 2014

  Ummmm WTF, block this so called friend on FB!

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• Jennicillin member

  June 2014

  Wow.... what the hell was going on in her tiny little brain that made her think "I know, I'll send this to my pregnant friend who is having a shit ton of complications!"

  
  

  You're not over reacting at all

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• PecanSam member

  June 2014

  You shouldn't send that to anyone, much less a pregnant woman. Just chalk it up to the fact she wasn't thinking. And she didn't know you were in the hospital.

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• LilSip0611 member

  June 2014 edited June 2014

  WTF? You are most definitely not overreacting. I'm sorry your friend is an ignorant twit and thought that you would want to see that. I hope everything checked out okay at L&D.

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• Allison7 member

  June 2014

  Um, that is not something you forward to anyone. Wtf? I'd be pissed.

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• ellaef1984 member

  June 2014

  I'd be pissed too! It sounds like your friend has zero taste, no offense. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.

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• Third&goal member

  June 2014

  I would be blocking her on all social media for a while. 

  

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• mikescutie7 member

  June 2014

  If I were you i would go off on that "friend". She needs to know that is NOT ok

  
  

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• shaylagirl member

  June 2014

  How in the hell did your friend get a picture of someone's dead child?!  AND what was going through her mind that she should share it on Facebook?!! 
  
  Healthy boundaries?  Your friend lacks them. 
  
  I'm sorry she was so thoughtless.  And, I'd damn sure say something to her.  And I suspect what I'd say would NOT be nice.
  

  
  
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• GinnyJ2012 member

  June 2014

  I agree with @toratoratori, however I would have a hard time being so rational.  I'm really sorry you had to see/deal with that.  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• Raclla member

  June 2014

  Look at @toratoratori‌ being all adult and rational.
  I don't think I'd be rational at all.
  
  I think this was kinda what I was referring to in my UO last week.

  
  

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• Kferrell0201 member

  June 2014

  I responded last night saying essentially the same thing I said in my post here, asking her why she thought it was a good idea to send it to me. She replied a little while ago saying that she was sorry, and trying to justify it by saying that the lady who sufferred the loss had drank excessively during her pregnancy. She continued by saying that it wont happen to my baby and if she thought for a second it would she wouldnt have sent me the pic. She said that she sent it to me because she didnt know what to say to her friend and thought I would know. Then another message asking me to not be mad at her. I havent responded because Im not sure what to say to her.. They just dont sound like very good reasons to send that picture to me, but maybe I am being to harsh. IDK.

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• alphaxi614 member

  June 2014

  WTF is wrong with her?  she should NOT have sent that to you even if she didn't know you were in the hospital!  That is not something you share with pregnant women.  I would definitely let her know that you do not appreciate it, it's not appreciate, and please keep this to her self in the future.  

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• Russiandea12 member

  June 2014

  Terrible.  I don't wanna see that ever, especially pregnant when you are concerned about your baby.

  

  
  

  
  

  

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