Late Term and Child Loss

Intro - My Daughter Caroline

Hi all,

I have reached a point where I feel ready to join this board.  My daughter was prenatally diagnosed with Trisomy 13.  She was a true miracle and I was blessed with 58 wonderful days with her.  During our time together, I was able to get to know her little personality - she was never on strong pain medications and was a generally happy child.  She loved music, sunshine, and cuddles.  Although I wouldn't trade my time with Caroline for the world, it has made losing her that much harder.  I physically hurt and I have never been more sad in my life.  I know that she is in a better place without pain or feeding tubes, but I miss her so much.  My house is so quiet and all I want to do is take care of her but I can't.

Thank you in advance for the support as I journey through this.  I will do my best to be there for all of you as well.

Here is a picture of my angel:


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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • Im so sorry for you loss.... she was a beautiful little girl.  This board has a lot of wonderful women you can lean on for support. ((Hugs)).

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  • VyD81VyD81 member
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    I'm sorry for the loss of your baby Caroline. 
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    BFP #2, EDD 12/26/14, please be our rainbow.

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    I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Caroline.
    Baby Boy - 03/29/10
    Baby Boy - 08/02/12
    Baby Girl - 04/19/14 Missing her everyday.



  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet Caroline. Know that we are here whenever you need us.
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    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand the feeling of trying to find relief in knowing that your child is no longer hurting, and understand that it doesn't really make it much easier.  
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  • What a beautiful little girl. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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    IUIs # 1-5 = BFFN
    IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
    IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
    IVF # 3 (June 2013) = BFN 
    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
    3/21/14--TAC (transabdominal cerclage) w/Dr. Davis in NJ
    IVF # 5 (May 2014) = BFN
    FET (August 2014) = BFN

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    What a sweetie. So very sorry for your loss.




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  • Caroline is so beautiful, I am so sorry for your loss xo
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  She sounds like an amazing, strong little fighter.  She is a miracle.  Prayers and hugs to you.
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    Such a beautiful baby girl, I am so sorry for your loss.

    Me 32 (Stage IV Endometriosis, short luteal phase) DH 38

    Married 5/2010

    January 2014- DS born healthy at 35.4 weeks

    February 2014- DS passed away due to complications from adenovirus

    February 2015- Rainbow baby DD born at 36.3 weeks

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    I'm so sorry for the loss of sweet Caroline.  A beautiful name for a beautiful girl.  My heart hurts for you.  Please feel free to post as little or as often as you need to.  ((hugs)).

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  • What a beautiful little girl. I am so sorry.
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    Beautiful daughter Alyssa born April 23, 2011 
    Precious son Isaac born at 34 weeks in April 27, 2014 with Potters Syndrome Type 4 and Down Syndrome - trusted into the arms of Jesus after 3 hours.
    Pregnant again! Due August 8, 2015 please be healthy, little one!

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    Thank you for sharing your sweet girl with us. It's got to be so hard missing her! We're here for you.

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    It's a girl! Baby Anna was born August 3, 2014!

     
  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet Caroline.  ((hugs mama))

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    -5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)

    11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13

    8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

    IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties

    12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!!  One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15

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    I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl, Caroline.  (((big hugs)))














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  • She is beautiful. I am so sorry for your loss.

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    Baby #2 born sleeping at 20 weeks. May 6, 2014.

  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet Caroline. I hope we can provide some support when you need it.

    BFP #1- 4/2011; DD Brynn born 12/2011

    BFP #2- 7/13; EDD- 4/2/14; Lost DS at 20 weeks (11/16/13) due to cord accident

    BFP #3- 3/14; EDD- 11/28/14; Lost DD at 15 weeks (6/7/14)- cause unknown

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  • Thank you all so much.
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  • Very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Sending thougths and prayers your way.

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  • I'm so sorry for the the lost of your sweet girl, Caroline

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  • PerkyErkyPerkyErky member
    edited June 2014
    Welcome to the board. I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of your sweet daughter Caroline. This board is amazing and I hope you find the support you need.

    I "loved" your post because your daughter is beautiful and amazing. Thank you for sharing her with us.
    Married 11/23/11, TTC starting 10/12, BFP#1 11/30/12, Adoption of stepson finalized 03/19/13,Loss of our daughter at 20w4d due to incompetent cervix 03/27/13, BFP#2 06/28/13, DS2 born 3/1/14.

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  • BgirmaBgirma member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. She is beautiful.
  • BoraBoraBabyBoraBoraBaby member
    edited June 2014
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    I am so sorry for what happened to Caroline and to you. As a fellow Trisomy mommy (T18), I can relate to the devestation you felt, and the pain you continue to feel in an all too quiet house. I hear it gets better, let's hope this is true.

    Big hugs to you and thank you for sharing.
















  • I am so sorry for the loss of your Caroline.  What a beautiful baby and I'm so glad you got to spend such wonderful times with her.  However, I know it can never be enough.  I hope you can find comfort here.  I know that I have. 
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