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Lots going on Ts and Ps

eg214eg214 member
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Sooo court Wednesday. First time in court. Doubtful he will be there, but attorney will be for sure. Please pray/shoot rainbows and light to me as much as you can. I've stressed about this day since before LO was born. Should be nothing, but his atty is trying to make it into a case of me defending myself and all kinds of shit. I need child support. Please pray this happens...

Also, my dream job place called me this morning. They will forward my stuff to the hiring person for a possible interview. Please pray about this also. I have NO CLUE how I'd do daycare/sitter for E if I got this job. I don't have the money and with no CS...yeah. Plus at present, CS would be figured on no childcare..back to court for that one when it happens which will be another pulling teeth and monumental task. BUT...I can't not take this job because of E/Childcare. I just can't. It's been on my radar for over 2 years and I never even got a phone call until now.

PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
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Re: Lots going on Ts and Ps

  • 20thirteen20thirteen member
    GOOD LUCK! GOOD LUCK! GOOD LUCK! GOOD LUCK!

    Have you looked into subsidized childcare? I don't remember
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  • tig594tig594 member
    Fingers crossed!
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  • freeatlast2014freeatlast2014 member
    2 things - I agree with subsidized child care.

    Also, call around and take like 2 estimates to court for full time daycare. Let the judge know you are looking for full time work and maybe he can make a ruling on that while you are there - that he pay 50/60/70% or whatever of childcare on top of child support and medical.
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  • jellybean529jellybean529 member
    GOOD LUCK!!! 
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  • eg214eg214 member
    Thanks ladies. It will help me so much to know you all are praying/thinking of me on Wednesday.

    I have a call right now into the CDC on post, because my job would be on post, to see since she is a dependent of a retiree if she qualifies to be able to use the CDC. I am highly doubtful she can, but it would be excellent. If she can't, my next step would be to find a milspouse on post with an in home daycare to watch her, then someone to come to my house as the last. I just want to be prepared and be able to say YES if offered. Still a while away but as usual, I like to get the ball rolling and think positive :)

    PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
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