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Stressing/panicking...

whiteroses05whiteroses05 member
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I have no reason to feel this way. Baby Riley has been moving all over this weekend (19 weeks Wednesday) and I had an early a/s that was good at 17ws. But I have two appointments this week. One tomorrow is just a regular ob check with Doppler but Friday is the one I am stressing over. It's our followup ultrasound with the MFM specialist that did the last scan. It's not even a big deal but I don't care for ultrasounds until they are over with. I never had a good experience with them until this pregnancy and we are also coming up on our loss milestone of 20/21 weeks. At 20 weeks is when we discover a problem with our angel and 21 week we said goodbye. I don't know if I will every feel 100% positive about this pregnancy until I am holding my baby boy in my arms and he's healthy. No really point to this but I know you all would get it.

BFP#1 9/7/11 EDD 7/23/11 mc @21 weeks caused severe bladder obstruction on 3/14/12
Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
BFP #2 9/9/12 EDD 7/19/13 started to mc @ 8w1d on 12/7/12 ended up with d&c 12/18/12, stopped developing @5w5ds

Unexplained IF
BFP#3 3/3/14 After 1st iui and clomid cycle
beta 1: 137 beta 2: 268
Beta 3:1248
Lilypie Pregnancy tickers


****Hoping for a rainbow baby!!!****
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  • 2redtulips2redtulips member
    The milestones are often the hardest. Sending you lots of good thoughts for both appointments. 

    Remember your mantras, keep breathing and focus on some good self-care. Hugs.

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  • rox825rox825 member
    I'm sorry that you're stressing, I imagine it must be hard coming up on your 2nd tri milestone.  Sending hugs!

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    TTC since Sept 2011, Unexplained IF
    Oct 12 - Jan 14: 3 clomid/TI cycles, 2 hysteroscopies, 2 IUIs, 1 BFP (MMC @ 12w), 2 more IUIs
    Feb 14: Gonal-f + IUI #5 = BFP! (EDD 11/4/14)
    Baby boy arrived 11/13/14!

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  • alleycat39alleycat39 member
    Sending you love and positive thoughts for this upcoming appointment.
    PCOS & ute crew member
    BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
    DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
    RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal
    BFP #4: 9/6/14 EDD 5/16/15 Praying for our RAINBOW!
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    I'm sorry you're feeling anxious and stressed. T&P for you that all goes well!
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  • ToriGirl2014ToriGirl2014 member
    just lotsa big (((hugs))) to you!
    BFP#1 - M/C on 12/23/13
    ~*~*~December 2014 PGaL ~*~*~
    Rainbow baby born on 12/19/2014

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  • jess123456jess123456 member
    Thinking of you! You gave me such great advice with my anatomy scan. I know how hard milestones are but try to cling to all the great ultrasounds and news you have had so far with this baby. I think it's normal after loss especially when we approach our milestones to think negatively or to go back to what it felt like before but remember that this is a different pregnancy. I'm thinking of you and sending you so many positive thoughts and prayers.
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  • JessicaG220JessicaG220 member
    Thinking of you!  I completely understand your fears.  I have an monthly appointment today and all my doctor will do is check for her heartbeat.  Even though I have a Doppler at home and I use it every day, I am still nervous for the appointment.  Past experience drives our emotions, unfortunately.  I am sending good thoughts your way!

    Ava's Story
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    BFP#2 10/18/13  Blighted ovum 11/25/13

    BFP #3 1/31/14 EDD 10/18/14 -- It's a GIRL!

    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers

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  • princezjkprincezjk member
    Sending you so many ((((hugs)))) as you approach your loss milestone, they can be so rough.  Also, wishing you lots of luck for great appointments!

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  • whiteroses05whiteroses05 member
    Thank you ladies! It puts me at ease knowing I am never alone in the way I am feeling. I will post an update when I am done with each of my appointments. I did go home at lunch and listen to his heart beating away. That really helped and also the strong kicks he gave me as I ate my lunch. But most of all was reading your responses. So thank you again!

    BFP#1 9/7/11 EDD 7/23/11 mc @21 weeks caused severe bladder obstruction on 3/14/12
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP #2 9/9/12 EDD 7/19/13 started to mc @ 8w1d on 12/7/12 ended up with d&c 12/18/12, stopped developing @5w5ds

    Unexplained IF
    BFP#3 3/3/14 After 1st iui and clomid cycle
    beta 1: 137 beta 2: 268
    Beta 3:1248
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers


    ****Hoping for a rainbow baby!!!****
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic

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  • whiteroses05whiteroses05 member
    jess123456 said:

    Thinking of you! You gave me such great advice with my anatomy scan. I know how hard milestones are but try to cling to all the great ultrasounds and news you have had so far with this baby. I think it's normal after loss especially when we approach our milestones to think negatively or to go back to what it felt like before but remember that this is a different pregnancy. I'm thinking of you and sending you so many positive thoughts and prayers.

    Jess I am glad I was able to help you feel better about your scan. When is it again? I think that you are right negative experiences can cause us to think negatively on the happens of now. I will try to do as you and others have said here which is to remember this time is different! Huge ((hugs)) to you.

    BFP#1 9/7/11 EDD 7/23/11 mc @21 weeks caused severe bladder obstruction on 3/14/12
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP #2 9/9/12 EDD 7/19/13 started to mc @ 8w1d on 12/7/12 ended up with d&c 12/18/12, stopped developing @5w5ds

    Unexplained IF
    BFP#3 3/3/14 After 1st iui and clomid cycle
    beta 1: 137 beta 2: 268
    Beta 3:1248
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers


    ****Hoping for a rainbow baby!!!****
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic

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  • voplovoplo member
    I totally understand your stress. Milestones are awful. I really wish you this weeks go fast and all your appointments go beyond great :) Hugs!



    Mummy to 2 wonderful children
    Noah (2011) & Lily (2014)
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  • mmsweeney1mmsweeney1 member
    I think the absolute worst thing is that we all have fears in the back of our minds. Mine definitely surface around big appointments, so I know how you feel! I'll be looking forward to your updates :)

    first son stillborn 7/20/13 at 39 weeks due to Acute Fatty Liver of Pregnancy
    It's a girl! Baby Anna was born August 3, 2014!

     
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