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Secondary IF
SassFrass
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Mixed emotions (BFP warning)
SassFrass
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in Secondary IF
So. Here I am.
First of all, I want to express my deepest gratitude to each and every single one of you ladies! Without your experiences and advice, I would have not ever made it this far. Ya'lls support has been such a great blessing for me!
Yesterday DH asked if I had started yet, or if I had tested recently and I told him no, the last one I took was a few days ago and it was negative, but I still haven't started. I had a DS cheapie stashed away and so at his insistence, I went and POAS.
BFP.
I am still kinda numb to all of this, I am so worried and not even sure I want to leave you ladies yet, but a dig confirmed it this morning. So, right now. I'm pregnant. I want to be soooo excited, I just don't even know how to be excited yet, especially since I have had a bit of spotting off and on, all brown, but still discomforting since it ended badly the last time spotting was involved with my pregnancy.
I am scheduled to go in for a beta tomorrow morning before we go out of town... I won't be on most likely over the weekend though since we are going to visit family. I will post an update when we get back though.
Here is to fingers crossed for a sticky baby...
First of all, I want to express my deepest gratitude to each and every single one of you ladies! Without your experiences and advice, I would have not ever made it this far. Ya'lls support has been such a great blessing for me!
Yesterday DH asked if I had started yet, or if I had tested recently and I told him no, the last one I took was a few days ago and it was negative, but I still haven't started. I had a DS cheapie stashed away and so at his insistence, I went and POAS.
BFP.
I am still kinda numb to all of this, I am so worried and not even sure I want to leave you ladies yet, but a dig confirmed it this morning. So, right now. I'm pregnant. I want to be soooo excited, I just don't even know how to be excited yet, especially since I have had a bit of spotting off and on, all brown, but still discomforting since it ended badly the last time spotting was involved with my pregnancy.
I am scheduled to go in for a beta tomorrow morning before we go out of town... I won't be on most likely over the weekend though since we are going to visit family. I will post an update when we get back though.
Here is to fingers crossed for a sticky baby...
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Re: Mixed emotions (BFP warning)
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
@mrscastillo, I know it can be totally normal, just freaks me out a little bit, since through my whole miscarriage almost, that is what they told me is that it was "normal." I am just trying to stay positive.
BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).
the universe can fuck off.
"You are overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you." -lastsliverofhope
TTC #3 since June 2013
BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14
IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
Lots of BFN's & failed IUI's w/clomid and/or femara
Finally BFP with femara & t.i.- son born 6/17/2010
Started TTC again around when DS was 3ish
Lots of BFN's with femara & t.i & ovidrel
Tubes clear, S.A came back low motility but high count
About to switch to injectables w/femara, did one last cycle with just femara & an IUI with ovidrel- stupid motility was fantastic in the sample, but count was 700,000 AFTER wash! Had to sign a paper to even still do IUI- BFFP (big fat freaking positive) Go figure!
1st Beta 13dpiui 54, 2nd beta 48 hours later 115, 3rd beta 48 hours later 310, 4th beta 72 hours later 1748.
Congratulations and I hope this is it for you!!!
June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
BABY BOY VINCENT!
We can't wait to meet you!
Conception:
TTC #2 since 1/1/13
I am just trying to not freak myself out, and take things easy! DH and I did have sex in the shower like 2 days ago, and I have had the spotting since then, so I am for, now chalking it up to that. I have a desk job so I am stayin put as much as possible and drinking that H2O, read that it can help out., plus hydration is always important.
I am still looking forward to our weekend, just now I am gunna wanna chill out, but no sense in putting my life on hold right! Maybe the bike run and graduation party will help ease my tension! It is a good thing I don't drink too much, otherwise, my MIL would know something was up, we don't plan on telling people IRL until like at least 12 weeks, just in case, personally, I want to wait until there is just no denying it with "I've just gained weight" and you can clearly tell I'm KTFU!
TTC #2 since 6/2010
10/2012 DH diagnosed with Epilepsy
A few failed IUIs summer 2012 and 2013.
DH taking clomid and waiting to see if he needs another vericocele repair.
Hoping for a 2015 baby or babies.
Wishing, hoping, waiting.
PCOS and MF
Two failed rounds IUI in 2010
IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12
FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13
FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14
IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265;
11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571;
12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134)
Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15
TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck
Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man. Born 12/2/11
TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended
Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good. Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.
Back with RE as of January 2014...
5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy
April 2015 IVF#1
5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!
Oh and I'm a major Harry Potter Nerd
DS #1: April 2010
DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis