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suddenly falling in love.

suprsuzsuprsuz member
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I have loved this baby every step of this pregnancy. After my surgery I felt a stronger bond because she was strong enough to handle my brain surgery and all the trauma. Ever since I found out that she's a girl, I have been falling head over heals in love with her. How is it even possible to love her so much? Is this normal?

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  • suprsuzsuprsuz member
    It certainly is different. I was not prepared for this. But I love it.

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  • lct2008lct2008 member
    And what is truly amazing is that you fall even more in love when you see them and hold them for the first time.
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  • meggiev123meggiev123 member
    It really is amazing, and when you think you love them as deeply as you can, they continue to grow and developmore of a personality and then you love them even more. It can't keep going on like this can it?


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  • crystal8503crystal8503 member
    Sometimes I feel as if I love my son so much it hurts. I can't imagine my life without him, even on his worst days. He melts my heart time and time again, and I also worry about loving this baby as much. It's getting easier to imagine another child to fall completely in love with now that I'm feeling so much movement.

    Motherhood is seriously the greatest part of life. It's amazing how quickly you get that mama bear instinct and love for your baby. The truest form of love, that's for sure!
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  • Lele74Lele74 member
    I'm totally bawling right now!! But in a good way!
    I'm so excited for October :x


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  • yella726yella726 member
    That's so amazing and so beautiful! When we got a BFP, it was more like, "Okay! We're pregnant!" in a very calm way than an emotional way. When we saw the baby for the first time at our first ultrasound, I bawled the entire time (I couldn't stop). When we heard the heartbeat for the first time, it made me smile, but not emotional. And now that I've been feeling kicks for the past week and a half, I've been falling more and more in love. I can't wait to meet this little one, but I am enjoying every second of this feeling of pregnancy! :)
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  • asarem93asarem93 member
    I have always loved my baby, but since I can feel him, and have named him, I want to cry every time I think about him never I love him so much.
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  • lrobi13lrobi13 member
    I am too full of hormones for all these warm and fuzzies! This thread has made me start to cry!!
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  • slsl509slsl509 member
    So agree with the PPs. I was never a kid person either, still am not really but I love DD so much it is almost painful. I have never loved anyone so much; I love DH and I love my family but God, your kids it's just different, primal love.

    I always hated when people said things like "you won't understand until you have kids" especially when I didn't think I wanted them and then wasn't sure I could have them - but it's absolutely undeniably true. My life is infinitely richer now in a way that cannot be possible with any other type of love (something I don't say to people who are childfree by choice or not by choice).

    So yes! Totally normal! And when she is here you won't even believe how much more love you feel.
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  • suprsuzsuprsuz member
    This group is so awesome. I love that we all have this one huge thing in common and that we are all pretty much at the same stage in our pregnancies. Its so much easier to relate to you all than it is to try to relate to other people and their unsolicited advice and opinions. This week has been the most emotional time for me so far. I imagine it's probably just beginning... God help dh. :)

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