So my husband and I have baby fever and want to quit the birth control ASAP. I have been consistently eating healthy and exercising for a while now and am 10 lbs down so far, I but still have about 10-15 more to go before I would really be where I want to. It IS a reasonable weight,I assure you I am not trying to big stick thin. Is this something I shouldn't compromise on? Can you still lose fat while pregnant? Obviously I will gain weight (duh), I just don't want to put myself in a bad position health wise. Is it unreasonable to think that I could still make a little progress physically (build some muscle, lose some fat) while growing a little human? Any advice, anecdotes etc...please!

Me: 26 | Him: 31
BFP #1 | EDD March 2015

Re: Weight/Exercise and TTC/Pregnancy
US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)
BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)
BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
Hi!
I am in the same boat. After an op in May, I need to wait until Aug to start ttc. I am using this time to focus on my health. I'm not following a strict diet, but I am focusing on more nutritious food and portion control. I am back to my normal training, which is quite hard, but will definitely cut back when I get a BFP.
Sounds like you are doing things the healthy way - keep up the good work!
Proudly on the dark side
DS: June 2012
MC: July 2015 8w5d
As an avid weight lifter who watches every calorie I ingest, it is not recommended to focus on weight loss while pregnant.
If you are already overweight, you just try to not gain as much during your pregnancy. It is perfectly healthy to only gain 10-15lbs total while pregnant if you are obese or overweight. If you are normal weight, you can gain between 25-35lbs. The pregnant woman only needs to eat an extra 300 calories a day while pregnant. So—you probably will only gain baby weight and nothing extra if you stick to a strict diet and still eat your extra 300 cals.
Also—I plan to still weight lift and workout while pg. Sure…not as hard or heavy as I do now, but you bet I will still be in the gym 4 days a week.
GL!
My BFP Chart
maybebaby3
Thank you for your insight. Currently I am labeled obese by BMI standards although I do not feel obese and people who I tell that to are shocked. But I am definitely overweight but I really want to TTC soon. I understand the not loosing weight during pregnancy but I want to stay healthy and get healthier during my pregnancy and I wasn't sure if that was possible. So just maintain eating healthy, keep up with the exercise and keep the weight gain decent, esp not over the normal amount (try and stay around 25lbs or less). Of course don't starve diet if you are over but just cut the saturated fat type stuff. Make sure OBGyn knows and is supportive. Am I getting that right?
I will try although I hear about those craving problems, maybe I will crave salads. I had a friend who craved salads with her boys and sweet n' salty stuff with her girl.
But for the calorie counting. I am currently doing that with myfitnesspal and I am trying to net between 1.2k-1.8k per day. You have to eat 300 extra while pregnant so does that just make my range 1.5k-2.1k or are you suppose to eat as close to 2.1k (or greater than 1.8k)?
My BFP Chart
I too struggle with stress/anxiety, but I've noticed that when I exercise regularly and eat right (and cut out tons of coffee and soda) I feel so much better! Stress isn't good for TTC, the baby or us.
Also, I've already found a pre-natal studio close by with a variety of mommy-to-be classes. I'll start with the regular ones, then switch to pre-natal one I get my BFP. Everything I've researched says that you want to "train" for pregnancy. It's a mini marathon as it can last many hours, and you'll use muscles you never knew you had! The better shape you're in, the better!
I agree, I wouldn't focus to much on weight before hand because one, the scale is just not a good predictor if fitness (I can gain weight when I lost fat/build muscle : muscle weighs more than fat) and it does put some level of stress on your body and can affect fertility or ovulation or something (I forget which). Being healthier now will make your pregnancy easier and recovery smoother. Also, I've read that the longer you're able to breast feed, the quicker post baby weight comes off.
Good luck!!!!
Started Dating Jan 2004. Married Sept 2009. TTC Aug 2014.
BFP 10.30.14!!
Congratulations to you. Keep researching and making healthy choices.