What do you do that's just for yourself? How often?
I am trying to make more time for myself, even if its going for a walk, reading a book or taking a nap. Every time I get a chance to do something on my own, I feel guilty for not being with DS as if I am going to miss something major while I am gone.
Funny thing is I don't feel this way when I go to work, mostly because I have to go to work. For some reason when I am at home, I feel like I need to spend every second with him to make up for the missed time.
Mommy guilt at its best.
Anyone else feel this way?
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DS - 2011
Re: Alone time
This.
When DS goes to bed I am too busy trying to prep for the next day and cleaning up.
But enjoy your vacation with just you and your H. Try not to feel guilty because both you and your H deserve a little break from time to time.
our one and only *
DS - 2011
Throwing leaves
I need alone time, but understand the guilt around it. I still get the guilt sometimes. I try to get alone time after DD goes to bed. Occasionally, on the weekend as well.
I really recommend reading All Joy and No Fun. It talks some about the mommy guilt.
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Alone time on the weekend during L's naps, but the key for me is I don't stay in the apartment! I usually go to a fitness class, but just going for a walk, window shopping or something like that is good for me. DH and I alternate who stays at home during the nap and that way I don't feel like I'm missing out on something and it isn't too difficult for the other person. DH went to a movie during his alone time this weekend and I had brunch with friends.
During the week I have every Wednesday off as a standing date with myself. Usually a fitness class or quick dinner with a friend. Having a night I can plan on something for me is great.
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