May 2014 Moms

Randoms from my week so far

1.) I didn't think it possible but MIL is actually even less helpful than I thought she would be.

2.) My kid is averaging gaining a pound a week right now. He will be 3 weeks tomorrow and as of yesterday he was up to 11 lbs even according to the dr. His appetite has not slowed down at all either.

3.) If my MIL informs me it is "booby time" one more time, I may punch her in the face.

4.) DH gets taking forever to be ready to leave honestly. I thought he was bad but his mom is even worse.

5.) ditto #4 but with snoring.

6.) I am so effing thankful that I didn't have to grow up with MIL's cooking. She keeps running me out of the kitchen or messing with stuff if I turn my back for 5 seconds.

7.) I am sooo looking forward to next week of just my boys and I. Nobody to entertain. Nobody to walk through where everything is. And most importantly, nobody to mess up my light switches!! We have at least 2 sometimes 3 switches for almost every light in the main part of the house. I like them a certain way. I know I'm a freak.


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  • nothing from me but number 1 made me laugh. I thought my mil would be over driving me crazy every day but I got so mad at her for coming over the moment I came home from hospital after saying I didn't want visitors that she hasn't called in a week.... I guess she never saw me angry before
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  • nothing from me but number 1 made me laugh. I thought my mil would be over driving me crazy every day but I got so mad at her for coming over the moment I came home from hospital after saying I didn't want visitors that she hasn't called in a week.... I guess she never saw me angry before

    We decided to drive an hour-ish away to do some shopping (I needed to find some specialty food that our local stores don't offer) and still I wound up
    Driving down the road handing DS1 chicken nuggets and allowing DS2 suck on my finger because he was hungry but I couldn't pull over anywhere to feed him. Oh and I drive a stick! That was interesting. I did the finger thing with DS1 a lot but when you have a passenger (especially one who claims to be there to help) then why is the driver chasing pacis and trying to settle the kids in the back seat?? She was answering work emails. Just like she has been doing all week. And DS1 is obsessed with wanting her phone so he keeps crying because grandma won't give him her phone. DH forewarned her that she would not be able to use her phone around him. She refuses to listen.

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  • lrmrtnlrmrtn member
    1) MIL and FIL came to visit babe the day he was born but we haven't heard from them since. It's been 3 weeks.

    2) babe is starting to get fussier about everything this week - eating, sleeping, etc.

    3) DH has been so much more hands on than I anticipated. It's so nice to get some sleep.

    4) my boobs hurt all the time.
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  • @lrmrtn‌ I'm liking # 3. The rest I just feel your pain. After DS1 (ILs first grand kid) I had to beg MIL to come visit once a week (at the time they lived 5 miles away) so I could shower. Even then it wasn't until we got satellite that she would come visit.

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  • @pistolpackinmomma‌ I'm cracking up about your light switches! Everyone has things that they like certain ways I get it!

    @lrmrtn‌ week 3 was rough for us, big change in her eating and sleeping but I'm happy to report week 4 is better. Hope that the same is true for you!

    Nothing to complain about, this is my first week alone with my girl and other then her being a little gassy and refusing to be out down things are going well ;)
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    @pistolpackinmomma‌, I don't expect the ILs to be visiting a lot since they live about 2 hours away nor do I really want them here all the time. I just thought they'd at least call to check in especially since it's our 1st.

    @lizjlewin‌, I hope it gets better. He used to go down pretty easily, now he screams bloody murder for about a half hour no matter whether he's in his crib, swing or being held and just when we think he's good, he starts up again. He's fed and dry so not sure what the issue is. He is also fussy with both bottles and boob even when he's obviously hungry.
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  • I have been known to tape down light switches to keep them in the order I like and just pretending the taped switch doesn't exist.
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  • I am tired of guests too. I was going to have a five-day span with no visitors but then FIL decided he was going to come by for all of those days. He's already spent two weeks here, and I am about to lose my shit about it. DH is no help...he doesn't understand that I nap during the day, I don't want to fucking entertain his weird relatives. That, and they bring their four large, hairy, loud dogs with them when they come...it's the worst.
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    1. My mom & MIL drive me crazy always acting as though DS must be cold and piling blankets on him. People, he's sweating, listen to me when I tell you things about my child, I know him way better than you do.

    2. I really want a dog again. But I think DH is jumping the gun wanting to get a 2 month old puppy when DS is 5 weeks, and we shouldn't actually soend that $150+ right now....
  • 1. MIL is lazy and refuses to do anything around the house and pouts about everything like a two year old (she lives with us)

    2. My older two children apparently have flipped a switch on their brains to turn them off since school is out and act like they know nothing now.

    3. I'm exhausted to the point of severely cranky by the time DH gets home, I'm sure he loves that.

    4. Like @pistolpackinmomma‌ I have certain things that I want a certain way and the way DS' s clothes are hung in the closet is one of them. And despite me going behind her EVERY time and rearranging MIL apparently just doesn't get it and is a HUGE part of my previously mentioned crankiness.

    5. I really wish people would start listening to me about the way I want things done with DD2 and quit telling me how to take care of her. Ugh.
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    edited June 2014
    @MK1013‌ my DD has an entire dresser drawer full of bows, hats etc. She has three girl cousins under 4 so we received a bunch of of hand me down accessories plus new gifts. I too love picking out what she will be sporting each day. Half the time I am in sweats and unwashed hair but she is all fancy.
  • nothing from me but number 1 made me laugh. I thought my mil would be over driving me crazy every day but I got so mad at her for coming over the moment I came home from hospital after saying I didn't want visitors that she hasn't called in a week.... I guess she never saw me angry before

    We decided to drive an hour-ish away to do some shopping (I needed to find some specialty food that our local stores don't offer) and still I wound up
    Driving down the road handing DS1 chicken nuggets and allowing DS2 suck on my finger because he was hungry but I couldn't pull over anywhere to feed him. Oh and I drive a stick! That was interesting. I did the finger thing with DS1 a lot but when you have a passenger (especially one who claims to be there to help) then why is the driver chasing pacis and trying to settle the kids in the back seat?? She was answering work emails. Just like she has been doing all week. And DS1 is obsessed with wanting her phone so he keeps crying because grandma won't give him her phone. DH forewarned her that she would not be able to use her phone around him. She refuses to listen.
    haaa I would have been so mad! ya def no help at all. I don't get people!

  • my husband is freakishly good with the baby. like he makes me feel like I suck as a mom! yesterday he worked all day and night while I was alone with baby and I couldn't get him to sleep and had to feed him every hour. husband got home at 1130 pm picked him up and voila he was the angel I was dreaming about having all day. what the heck. now I see why he's taking overtime every day .
  • @Ziegeficker My FIL came by one afternoon and I felt like I had to entertain him. I wanted to nap, but felt awkward asking. Then he says that DH mentioned that I wanted to take a nap, so I did, he watched DD, and it was great. Maybe that would be easier for your DH to say to his father instead of just telling him to stay away. Coming by with four large dogs though-- no way I could handle that. I hope things get better!

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  • The air conditioning keeps shorting the electric panel. Yesterday was so bad that we had to leave and when we came back an hour plus later, it still kept shorting. Finally called an hvac tech who is here this morning. Hoping they find the issue so we can have ac in our 108f weather without destroying the unit.
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  • 1. MIL is convinced I have PPD since I don't really hang out with her when H or FIL aren't around. She "casually mentioned it to" a neighbor who called and asked if I'd like to go for a walk... The reason I don't hang out with her is because she insists on always talking about what I can do differently as a mom. No thanks. Four weeks of that shit and I'm done. I've successfully avoided her for nearly 48 hours.

    2. I'm chained to my baby. I love her and want to spend time with her but I'd also like to shower and/or make coffee/use the bathroom/eat. Every time I try to put her down, my H side-eyes me like "wth are you doing?" It's getting old.

    3. My sister and her boyfriend are coming to visit in seven days. I'm beyond excited as I think it will help me feel more normal.

    4. I plan to ask my H if he will hang out with the baby some time tomorrow so I can go have a drink and fried calamari. At a bar. By myself. The side-eye will be one for the books. IDGAF.
  • My mil thought it would be a good idea, like she had some sort of pass because she had only seen dd once before yesterday, that she could keep her awake for as long as she wanted and WAKE HER UP to hold and play with her. Her excuse "I don't get to see you much so you're staying awake!". She's 3 weeks, let her sleep. I'm pretty sure her crying is an indication that she is tired and me also telling you 3 times that she's "probably tired" is a hint to put her in her rnp. No, you're not her mom you can't get her to stop crying so give her to me or put her down to sleep. Thank you for leaving me with an over tired baby that i couldn't get to sleep after you left. Also, when I say I want to feed her before we leave the house don't ask me in a smart ass tone if I think she is "THAT" hungry. I don't care if she is a little or a lot hungry. She's obviously hungry and I'm going to feed her. Ughhh.

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  • @JKBMA2014‌ twice yesterday MIL was holding DS and I said I bet he's getting hungry and she was like yeah he started rooting around a while ago but was trying to pacify him because I figured you could use a break. No! We are in a growth spurt which is more important than ever to feed when hungry!! Also, not feeding him during the day would explain the eating every 30 minutes at night! I'm really curious how tonight goes since she left this morning.

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  • @JKBMA2014‌ twice yesterday MIL was holding DS and I said I bet he's getting hungry and she was like yeah he started rooting around a while ago but was trying to pacify him because I figured you could use a break. No! We are in a growth spurt which is more important than ever to feed when hungry!! Also, not feeding him during the day would explain the eating every 30 minutes at night! I'm really curious how tonight goes since she left this morning.

    I would have dripped kicked her. Dd is cluster feeding/ going through a spurt and my mom is coming to baby sit tomorrow while we go out. I am specifically writing rules down for her and one is DO NOT SUBSTITUTE A PACIFIER FOR FEEDING. Because I know my mom and I know she will try that crap

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