So I really am appreciative of the intent and good research behind this campaign (which - at least in the tv campaign currently being broadcasted in California - basically says you need to talk to your kids a lot and they will become a CEO or an astronaut). But I think vague directions like "talk to your child" aren't all that helpful, speaking from experience. I think a more specific recommendation like "Engage in positive talk, story-telling, or reading with your child for at least 3 hours per day" is actually MUCH more helpful. Here are the questions that I have about these studies and the recommendations - because I am not all that talkative by nature and I now feel guilty for not blabbing at my child constantly when I am tired and haven't had my coffee in the morning.
- How did the studies define "talking to your child"? Does it only include one-on-one talking? Does exposure to family conversation count?Reading, poetry, music, singing? Games?
- How much talking is required?
- I'm assuming the kind of talk is important - I lived in a bad neighborhood and heard parents constantly yelling at their kids. I'm guessing most of those kids didn't grow up to be CEOs.
That's all i have to say. Curious to hear from someone who has research what these studies actually say.
Re: The "Talk to Your Kids" public education campaign