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sunflwra · June 2014

I just had to share that with all of the shit that I'm going through right now, one of my greatest sources of comfort are the ladies from my December 2011 BMB. We used The Bump board until our kiddos were about 2 months old and then a bunch broke off to go to Facebook for convenience purposes. These ladies are my second family and I am so thankful for them. They were there with me at 3am this morning when I was freaking out and have been a constant source of love the entire day (as they were with my first loss). Right now there are a string of lit candle pictures with supportive thoughts on our group page in honor of my sweet baby girl. I tear up every time I log on and feel so unbelievably loved by these women that I've never met IRL.

I just wanted to share because no matter the drama and such that can come from this board, there are also so many wonderful bonds that will come as well and I hope all of you ladies take advantage of it. You don't have to be someone who posts non-stop or is on the board all of the time- you just have to participate and give support. I will admit that it gets easier and we got much closer on FB once you get past screen names but it does take time to get there and I think we did it in a responsible timeframe.

I can't say that I'll be on here all of the time as we continue to figure out what life has in store next for us, but I've so appreciated the time with you ladies and hope you won't mind when I check in on you from time to time

Maelara · June 2014

Please come back whenever you feel you are able too. I sincerely hope this board gets a bond like that, it would be amazing. I wish you nothing but the best moving forward.

This post just goes to show what a sweet and amazing person you are. You are going through a terrible time and you still found the strength to come back and give us these kind words. Lots of love and hugs for you!

Nfranco973 · June 2014

Aww! That's so sweet. I'm hoping you and the other ladies stay with us. It breaks my heart to hear about all the losses that we have had on this board. Keep us updated on your progress & know that we are here if you need us. Hugs.

lisaren · June 2014

Oh lady. I have so much I want to say but my words are lost.
Please check in, if not on the big page but the comfy couch.

I hope this board can grow to what you described.

xoxoxo

lisaren · June 2014

And I also wanted to add I've met some amazing ladies here. They've supported me, accepted me, and loved me through everything. I don't care if people think this is to skittles and rainbows, or if that's how they describe the board in general, this is real life. People are living real lives behind there siggy name and picture.
Compassion and acknowledgment goes a long way.

brooklyngirl18 · June 2014

@sunflwra beautifully said. i hope you come back and participate when you are ready. big hugs to you.

mommymeg143 · June 2014

I absolutely love this. Thank you for sharing. I really hope you stick around because you will be greatly missed if not. Please check back in to let us know how you are doing. Praying you get your rainbow baby soon!!!

dbgwife · June 2014

@sunflwra‌ you have me crying! Please come back and check in with us!!! So much love to you and your family!!

musicalmommy3 · June 2014

So many hugs to you right now.

amberej · June 2014

Beautifully said, come back and let us know how your doing. Hugs to you.

sAAmFam · June 2014

Have been thinking of you today. Sending prayers your way. I am at a loss for words.

nicnac817 · June 2014

Beautiful words. Your Dec 11 ladies are a great example of all the great things The Bump can provide. I can only hope that this board grows into something so lovely!

Kristil2014 · June 2014

Big hugs to you.

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