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October 2012 Moms
stephcarter
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Long angry vent containing serious drama
stephcarter
member
Remember when my mom took my Grandmom to Denver? And she had the stroke and passed away? Well now some really fucked up things are happening.
One of her daughters (who hadn't seen her mom in 6 months. She's so trashy it's ridiculous) went out there when everything happened and was giving my mom a hard time because she was pissed my mom had power of attorney and she didn't. My mom wasn't one of her 10 bio kids but my mom was extremely close with her and was the one taking care of her.
Well now that daughter has been texting my mom saying my mom killed my Grandmom and was careless with her life because she took her to Denver and that's why she had the stroke and died. My sister in law told the daughter to leave my mom alone and blocked her number from my moms phone.
Well she got her even more fucked up brother (who weeks earlier was thanking my mom for letting his mom cross something off her bucket list) texting my mom the same thing. My mom was heart broken. My mom took care of this scum bag for so long. He got into drugs and spent time in jail but my mom was always there for him. He's lived with her multiple times. She bought the ring on his wife's finger because he couldn't afford it. She took in his daughter when he couldn't take care of her (for like 2 years). He's fucked up so much and it's always been my mom there for him. He's got a history of violence and drug use that's insanely long. But my mom looks at him like a brother.
Well today he posted this on Facebook...
"Hey mom,
It's been two months since you've been gone and it's not getting any easier. In fact, its gotten harder to get up every day and go on knowing your not here anymore. Mom, you know me better then anyone so you know I wanna make :::my mom:::: pay for being so fuckin careless with you. Yeah I know mom that ain't right but damn it she lied about getting you checked by the doctors before you got on that plane and she keeps lying. You know :::his sister::: never liked that bitch and can't wait to see her. Im trying not to get her but i am who i am and until she admits she was wrong, she will remain our enemy. Tell everyone up there i said hi and i love them. Mom, dont party too much I love dearly and will try my best to do would want me to do, but I ain't making no promises. :::his wife::: said she loves you and thank you for loving her like a daughter. Til next time keep watching over me I need you and I love you dearly. Your favorite son-
Fucking crazy right? My sister sent him a message telling him that he's the biggest fuck up she's ever met yet my mom still took care of him and to keep her name out of his mouth.
I messaged him basically telling him to stop letting his sister manipulate him and kindly reminded him of all my mom has done for him and his entire family. It was crazy long. And I know he saw it but didn't respond.
I'm heartbroken for my mom. She's already a mess over losing someone who she considered to be her mother. Even months later she still hurts. And now she's got people telling her it's her fault? The docs cleared her to go. The docs in Denver said the stroke had nothing to do with altitude.
I'm so angry. My sister and sister in law agree she needs to go to the police. With his history of violence, I wouldn't be able to sleep at night.
Just needed to tell someone.
One of her daughters (who hadn't seen her mom in 6 months. She's so trashy it's ridiculous) went out there when everything happened and was giving my mom a hard time because she was pissed my mom had power of attorney and she didn't. My mom wasn't one of her 10 bio kids but my mom was extremely close with her and was the one taking care of her.
Well now that daughter has been texting my mom saying my mom killed my Grandmom and was careless with her life because she took her to Denver and that's why she had the stroke and died. My sister in law told the daughter to leave my mom alone and blocked her number from my moms phone.
Well she got her even more fucked up brother (who weeks earlier was thanking my mom for letting his mom cross something off her bucket list) texting my mom the same thing. My mom was heart broken. My mom took care of this scum bag for so long. He got into drugs and spent time in jail but my mom was always there for him. He's lived with her multiple times. She bought the ring on his wife's finger because he couldn't afford it. She took in his daughter when he couldn't take care of her (for like 2 years). He's fucked up so much and it's always been my mom there for him. He's got a history of violence and drug use that's insanely long. But my mom looks at him like a brother.
Well today he posted this on Facebook...
"Hey mom,
It's been two months since you've been gone and it's not getting any easier. In fact, its gotten harder to get up every day and go on knowing your not here anymore. Mom, you know me better then anyone so you know I wanna make :::my mom:::: pay for being so fuckin careless with you. Yeah I know mom that ain't right but damn it she lied about getting you checked by the doctors before you got on that plane and she keeps lying. You know :::his sister::: never liked that bitch and can't wait to see her. Im trying not to get her but i am who i am and until she admits she was wrong, she will remain our enemy. Tell everyone up there i said hi and i love them. Mom, dont party too much I love dearly and will try my best to do would want me to do, but I ain't making no promises. :::his wife::: said she loves you and thank you for loving her like a daughter. Til next time keep watching over me I need you and I love you dearly. Your favorite son-
Fucking crazy right? My sister sent him a message telling him that he's the biggest fuck up she's ever met yet my mom still took care of him and to keep her name out of his mouth.
I messaged him basically telling him to stop letting his sister manipulate him and kindly reminded him of all my mom has done for him and his entire family. It was crazy long. And I know he saw it but didn't respond.
I'm heartbroken for my mom. She's already a mess over losing someone who she considered to be her mother. Even months later she still hurts. And now she's got people telling her it's her fault? The docs cleared her to go. The docs in Denver said the stroke had nothing to do with altitude.
I'm so angry. My sister and sister in law agree she needs to go to the police. With his history of violence, I wouldn't be able to sleep at night.
Just needed to tell someone.
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Re: Long angry vent containing serious drama
I am so sorry yall are going through this.
After 7 years of no ovulation...
BFP#1 10/24/11 ~ EDD 6/29/12 ~ Natural m/c 11/2/11
BFP#2 2/3/12 ~ Alice born 9/26/12
Not that it matters, but I'm curious what kind of comments he is getting on that post? Has anyone told him that he's freaking crazy??
The first thing I did was screenshot it. I'm going to attempt to talk her into going to the police today.
@BabyCarryingVessel there hasn't been a single comment on it and he got 1 like from someone I don't know.
And thanks everyone. This has been so stressful.
That whole situation is just crazy. I