well... nbfr

ambrvan · May 2014

I announced a short while ago that I would be going back to school in fall full time. Well, my DH finally talked to me, really talked as opposed to just going along, and we decided that right now is not the time.

We have decided to put all our efforts into buying a house this year and cutting down our total debt to a certain amount before considering me dropping down to part time at work.

So for now I'm putting things on hold. And actually I feel great about it. For one reason, I won't miss so much time with my babies right now. And for another reason, DH actually talked to me rather than just dealing with it and later letting things get so stressful between us. I'd rather be working towards something together than doing something only for me that might put us in a bind.

JLHV1909 · May 2014

I love when they actually stop and have a conversation! Way to avoid stress and good luck getting a house!

Sigir · June 2014

I know I am not on that much, but I am very happy to hear that you guys are working together and that you feel good about the decision. Just make sure your dream is not deferred forever. Don't put yourself last. ((hugs))

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