PMS Thursday - angry edition

Jodee37 · May 2014

I'm pissed today. And my heart is heavy for our group. Seeing some of these amazing ladies get kicked when they're down makes me see red. So this edition of PMS Thursday is a rant edition. Feel free to let it allllllll out.

P- what made you want to face punch someone this week? (P is for punch)

M- what helps you calm your mind when you are seething? (M is for maybe I'll just lose my shit right now)

S- what would you like to say (without consequence naturally) to (insert offender here) when they do/say/act in their douchbaggery ways? (S is for STFU)

Fire away!!

(And if his post offends anyone I'm sorry, really. I dug deep and couldn't bring myself to come up with anything uplifting and motivational.)

annibes · May 2014

I'm too exhausted this week from the craziness of life in general to feel anything. I guess that's a good thing.

pettycrocker · May 2014

P- I want to punch my left tube for being stupid.

M- Vicodin

S- Ok so I wanted to leave the hospital YESTERDAY and was super bitchy to one of my RE's that happened to be on call yesterday, when really she was just making sure I was ok after all that shit I had just went through- so I flipped on her, then I felt bad for it after the fact- she actually took good care of me. And my stupid ass husband for acting like he's tired after all this shit. All he did the whole time I was in the hospital was SLEEP in the chair, that I kept saying was MORE COMFORTABLE FOR ME TO SIT IN, but he kept insisting I stay uncomfortable on the hard ass bed because he had "dibs" on the chair, and I was too effed up to fight with him. So fuck all of that.

MrsLaurenandDan · May 2014

P- what made you want to face punch someone this week? (P is for punch) I just want to punch someone for all these losses. There have been too many losses on here. And not just here, but my two local BFFs and I all got pregnant and were due within 3 week of each other. The last just found out today that she is probably losing the baby. (So we all lost/are losing our babies) It's just not Fing fair.

M- what helps you calm your mind when you are seething? (M is for maybe I'll just lose my shit right now) Crocheting hats to donate to the hospitals for other stillborn preemies helps me.

S- what would you like to say (without consequence naturally) to (insert offender here) when they do/say/act in their douchbaggery ways? (S is for STFU)

Oh so many of these.

- I am hurt that someone I considered a good friend didn't give me a heads before announcing her pregnancy when I was texting with her about a likely chemical pregnancy the day before. I'd love to tell her that that was a crappy thing to do.

- I'd like to tell my mother to stop telling me "at least I have one kid." One - please don't tell me that while going through IF treatments. Two - I don't have one kid. We may have lost Noah at 20w, but he still is and will always be my child.

- I'd like to tell a friend that she should have given me a heads up that Noah is on their short list for boy's names rather than just letting me find out on facebook. I'm not asking people not to use his name, but if we are friends, a heads up so I'm not blindsided by it on facebook would be nice.

GraceyandTroy · May 2014

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S:

But seriously, yes, there have been too many losses around here. I don't like this trend. It needs to go away and never come back. This is a hard day for a lot of people it seems.

Jodee37 · May 2014

P- I want to punch my RE that I JUST found and love. She never calls me back. I've called 5 times and still no callback. What in the fuck. This doesn't make me feel like I can trust her or her office.

M- deep breathing. And booze. Lots and lots of booze.

S- I would like to tell my coworker that she is a fucking twat waffle. She loves to remind me that "you can still do IVF!" When I confide in her that I'm feeling down and defeated.um yeah... Because I have 20K just lying around. And because there's a guarantee. idiot.

Momarazzi007 · May 2014

P- what made you want to face punch someone this week? (P is for punch)

We all have the same one... And there is no one to punch for that... So I did vigilante justice a gave the bird to a bus that nearly caused an accident in front of me ( he honked his horn at me, but I felt better bc he saw it and he knew)

M- what helps you calm your mind when you are seething? (M is for maybe I'll just lose my shit right now)
Passive aggressively effing w ppl in traffic... And pizza

S- what would you like to say (without consequence naturally) to (insert offender here) when they do/say/act in their douchbaggery ways? (S is for STFU)
Know your audience, don't ask people with a history of loss shit you can look up on google. Don't pretend to be stupid to get out of trouble.
Also, use your damn turn signals and don't get in an effing lane you have NO EFFING BUSINESS BEING IN!

MrsLaurenandDan · May 2014

Ok @Momarazzi077 I'm tired of this passive aggressive bullshit. If you want to call me out, call me the F out, don't ignore my PMs and post vague shit. I didn't post on TTCAL, or PAL, I posted on PAIF. And quite frankly, googling wasn't getting me much.

I have apologized. Repeatedly. I tried to take it to PMs because I fugured it was between you and me, and the board didn't need drama. But you insist on continuing to bring it to the board with your vague pissy posts. Be pissed if you want. But I'm done. This punitive, passive aggressive shit is just stupid.

SassFrass · May 2014

P- what made you want to face punch someone this week? (P is for punch)
All of the losses on this board this week really upset me. My heart goes out to you ladies.

M- what helps you calm your mind when you are seething? (M is for maybe I'll just lose my shit right now)
I like to just be alone. Have a little quiet time to myself to gather my thoughts.

S- what would you like to say (without consequence naturally) to (insert offender here) when they do/say/act in their douchbaggery ways? (S is for STFU)

This week, if IF were a person, along with losses, I would definately be throwing some face punches!

Momarazzi007 · May 2014

@MrsLaurenandDan‌
First off- not everything is about you, not is it about your need for attention.
Second my reference was actually toward MY friend who gets ku'd at a drop of the hat stupid shit like "how long does someone have to wait after an ectopic- oh wait- how long did you after yours?" And then a minute later how long did it take for my daughter's twin to no longer show up on ultrasound.
So, get over yourself. Oh, and ask anyone on here, I really don't check pm- mobile is a B and end of story- glad you recognize your bitchy actions when you hear stupidness.

Momarazzi007 · May 2014

BTW- not everyone has to like you, trust me- it's ok. Not everyone likes me- I don't give an eff. I am sorry it hurts your feelings that I am not fond of you. It's ok- seriously. I'm a random chick you will probably never meet, get on w your life and don't let it ruin your life, trust me, I'm not losing sleep on it. Not everyone in the world is going to hold hands and blow bubbles. ITS OK!!!

Momarazzi007 · May 2014

And now for some mood lightener

MrsLaurenandDan · May 2014

@Momarazzi007‌ well, I am sorry for misinterpreting. But given the previous post you have made, it seemed logical.

I did tag you several times letting you know I had PMed you. If you didn't check them, you could still have responded in thread.

I'm not asking anyone to like me. I was asking for the passive aggressive comments to stop. There is a difference.

And seriously, no one has mentioned a problem but you.

Momarazzi007 · May 2014

I mentioned a problem one time, lol, I bitch about a lot. You called yourself out a few times.

GraceyandTroy · May 2014

@Momarazzi007‌

CeCe8579 · May 2014

@MrsLaurenandDan‌ you make me feel punchy for calling my wifey out for no damn reason. Get over yourself!!!!

I love Percocet....actually I hate it but it's better then being in excruciating pain, I guess.

I will say PO, STFU and GFTO to this week. Now I'll go to TO....

MrsLaurenandDan · May 2014

Yep, I'd rather own it if there is an issue and try to solve a problem rather than ignoring it. You also kicked me off of KUSMO. Whatever, it's your thing, but clearly you were still reacting.

Momarazzi007 · May 2014

I try to include everyone, but I don't have to. I never called you out about it, you did that to yourself (repeatedly). I figured you didn't need more attention and I could avoid someone that irked me. But yes, I took you off the KUSMO bc I don't need a trigger when it is something I do out of love. KUSMO shall not be tainted

CeCe8579 · May 2014

MrsLaurenandDan said:
Yep, I'd rather own it if there is an issue and try to solve a problem rather than ignoring it. You also kicked me off of KUSMO. Whatever, it's your thing, but clearly you were still reacting.

Your stupid makes me hurt worse. It's a damn list on a message board so hmmmm, so who's clearly still reacting and how old are we @MrsLaurenandDan‌

GET OVER YOURSELF!
Kthxbye....

Momarazzi007 · May 2014

And really, to all, I am sorry if I seem like a bitch about all this, I'm try to keep an air of hilarity, I never called her out by name but she has rained attention on it and herself. I'm just done w it. If it changes your opinion of me- I'm sorry and I understand. If you don't want to be on KUSMO for any of it just let me know, if you don't care, just laugh at the pictures and put it behind you.

MrsLaurenandDan · May 2014

@iloveshanej I was trying to explain why I jumped to the conclusion I did. She explained I was wrong about that, I apologized for misunderstanding, and was explaining why I did so.

I am sorry for misunderstanding. I overreacted given that I didn't know for sure that you were referring to me.

CeCe8579 · May 2014

MrsLaurenandDan said:
@iloveshanej I was trying to explain why I jumped to the conclusion I did. She explained I was wrong about that, I apologized for misunderstanding, and was explaining why I did so.

I am sorry for misunderstanding. I overreacted given that I didn't know for sure that you were referring to me.

No, actually that's not what you did. You got all butthurt and bitchy and took it out on @Momarazzi007‌ and then tried a half ass apology....so if you'd really like to apologize, now would be nice!

Momarazzi007 · May 2014

CeCe8579 · May 2014

Turning the page. Goosfraba!

GraceyandTroy · May 2014

@Momarazzi007‌ and @Iloveshanej‌

CeCe8579 · May 2014

Back at you @GraceyandTroy‌
Now I want cake, haha ;-)

Momarazzi007 · May 2014

Mmmmm cake....

Jodee37 · May 2014

Looks like we let it allllllllllll out.

aaaaan with that, no more angry edition hahahahahah

Momarazzi007 · May 2014

Oh, and this is what I sent my friend after she asked about the twin:

followed by a WTF face. Then I laughed and laughed, bc estrogen is being nice this cycle.

southernbelle82 · May 2014

P- I'm so tired of people making me feel I can't mourn the loss of our babies and the loss of the ability to ever have any more without the aid of IVF. I'm EXTREMELY grateful for my girls...I know they are a blessing and me being sad in NO WAY changes how I feel about them. Why can't I mourn the loss of my angel babies AND love my earthly babies?!?! Also, I've had a couple of people tell me its probably for the better because kids are so expensive anyway. O.o Really? I've just lost my third baby in less than a year and THIS is how you offer comfort and support?! Forget the money...I'd live on ramen noodles everyday if it meant I could have even just one of those babies in my arms right now.

M- listening to Christmas music or taking a hot shower where no one can hear me crying, writing in my journal

S- "If you haven't lost a child/children or the ability to have them, do not tell me how I should mourn and grieve! It hasn't even been a month...I'm still adjusting to our new reality, it's raw, I'm mourning that I should be 9 weeks tomorrow, I'm hanging on by a thread and it takes every ounce of strength I have not to burst into tears every second. Me being devastated over our losses doesn't make me love my girls less!!!"

MrsAtch · May 2014

P: Fucking teenagers. All of them.

M: Running, running, running, and drinking. In that order. Otherwise it's more like drinking, running, falling, crying, drinking.

S: Dealing with pregnancy and new babies while struggling with infertility is not like ripping off a bandaid. Forcing me to be in a space with someone who clearly doesn't have their shit together but just had a baby does not make it hurt less over time. It just makes me think you're an inconsiderate asshole.

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